In 2018, Shen Lijun jumped from the 28th floor and ended her life, leaving behind a pair of children and a 10,000-character suicide note that made people cry at the age of 35.
The life of a wealthy family is as deep as the sea, this sentence is not a joke, there is no scheming, if you want to survive in a wealthy family, it is a bit more difficult than ascending to the sky.
With the death of Shen Lijun, the grievances of some female celebrities marrying wealthy families have been exposed.
The last straw that crushed Shen Lijun was her husband's injury, and when she jumped off the building, her husband accompanied other women to choose wedding dresses.
I thought he was a good person, but I didn't expect to meet someone who was unladylike, and how many years of marriage would be chicken feathers.
What was the reason for Shen Lijun to embark on such a road of no return, and what did she experience during her lifetime?
chose to leave behind her two young children, and resolutely jumped from the 28th floor, and what did she say in her suicide note?
01
Shen Lijun, born in Shanghai in 1983, her parents are both low-level workers, and they often quarrel because of trivial things in life.
Because of the quarrel, this originally harmonious family was shattered, and finally ended in divorce, after her parents divorced, Shen Lijun has been living with her mother.
Xu knows that it is not easy for her mother to live with a woman, and Shen Lijun has been very sensible and independent since she was a child.
Shen Lijun knew that her mother worked hard, so she studied hard, thinking about working hard to make money in the future, so that her mother and herself could live a better life.
After graduating from high school, Shen Lijun was admitted to Shanghai Aurora Vocational College because she was more good-looking.
There is no shortage of the opposite sex around Shen Lijun, and there are often boys who confess to him, but she has no intention of falling in love, so she refuses.
When she was a child, her parents quarreled and drew their names, which was deeply engraved in her mind, and she didn't want to quarrel over firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future.
Therefore, her criteria for choosing a mate are first of all to be rich, and not to quarrel over firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar.
02
After graduating from college, Shen Lijun became a graphic model, with good looks and a good figure, Shen Lijun almost didn't have to go out to find an endorsement by herself.
People often take the initiative to go to the company to cooperate with her, although Shen Lijun is just a model, she was still very well-known in Shanghai at that time, and was also given the title of "Shanghai's No. 1 Beauty".
Shen Lijun's career can be said to be very good, when she was 23 years old, she endorsed an online game "Eternity".
Under the company's vigorous packaging, and Shen Lijun's pure and lovely appearance, it is integrated with the spirit of the game.
Therefore, it is also called the "realistic version of the elf" by many players, attracting many fans, and Shen Lijun can be regarded as the "originator" of the Internet celebrity industry.
opened up her popularity, Shen Lijun began to develop into the film and television industry, although there were no good films at the beginning, but after accumulating over time, there will be gains after all.
The first drama she starred in was with Hu Ge, Cecilia Cheung and other stars in "The 601st Phone", and the starting point can be said to be high.
In 2009, Shen Lijun collaborated with Louis Koo and others in "Happy Family 2009", playing a sweet and lovely girl in the play.
Although Shen Lijun is not from a professional class, her acting skills are also very good, and her career has been smooth sailing since then.
Not long after, Shen Lijun partnered with Huo Jianhua to shoot the movie "Transformation Contract" together, from a showrunner actor to the third female.
Shen Lijun's career can be described as smooth sailing, and she has developed quite well in the entertainment industry, if she continues to develop along this route, Shen Lijun's future can be described as bright.
It is no exaggeration to say that nine out of ten girls want to marry into a wealthy family, and Shen Lijun is no exception, she also wants to marry into a wealthy family, so that she can not quarrel over trivial matters in life.
's career has developed well, and Shen Lijun's love has quietly come, but what she doesn't know is that love made her fall into the abyss, and she failed to do so in the end.
03
In 2010, Shen Lijun ushered in a turning point in her life, and at a party, she met Wu Kaixin, the rich second generation.
Although Wu Kaixin looks average, his humorous personality still attracted Shen Lijun, and the two talked happily when they met for the first time.
After that, in order to pursue Shen Lijun, Wu Kaixin launched a crazy pursuit, and he was not stingy with money, and often changed various tricks to give gifts to Shen Lijun.
Wu Kaixin is the kind of person who responds to Shen Lijun's needs, is willing to spend a certain amount of time with her, and focuses on her in everything.
In this way, Shen Lijun completely fell under Wu Kaixin's sugar-coated shell, and the two began to fall in love, and even wanted to get married in a flash.
But Shen Lijun's parents felt that the two were not suitable, the economic gap between the two families was too big, and it was a bit wrong, and if their daughter married her, she would suffer if she was willing to move.
At this time, Shen Lijun was carried away by love, and she didn't listen to her mother's words at all, in fact, she didn't blame her for being like this.
has lacked father's love since he was a child, and finally there is a man who is so intimate to him, and he is still a rich second generation, so he is deeply involved and can't see anything.
Before Shen Lijun and Wu Kaixin got married, they unexpectedly learned that he had been married, and their marriage was considered a second marriage.
Wu Kaixin divorced because of cheating in marriage, such an unreliable person, but Shen Lijun thinks it's nothing, maybe it won't be in the future?
But the dog can't change to eat S after all, and Shen Lijun finally paid the price for her willfulness.
04
The two fell in love for 8 months and got married quickly, Shen Lijun also married into a wealthy family as she wished, and after marriage, Wu Kaixin asked Shen Lijun to resign and be her rich wife at home with peace of mind.
And her mother-in-law didn't want her to go out to work, so she persuaded her that after marrying a wife, she should focus on her family and spread out as soon as possible.
My husband even said that with me, you don't need your hard work, just enjoy yourself at home, you often have to travel, I don't want you to work so hard.
In this way, Shen Lijun resolutely chose to quit the entertainment industry and prepare for pregnancy at home, what Shen Lijun never expected was that this was the beginning of her nightmare.
Shen Lijun has been working very the road of preparing for pregnancy, her body is not particularly good, and her husband's sperm is also abnormal.
Finally, Shen Lijun ushered in good news, she was pregnant with a hard-won baby, and in order to protect the fetus, Shen Lijun suffered a lot.
Throughout her pregnancy, Shen Lijun was taking all kinds of fetal pills, and she had more than 200 injections of fetal protection injections, and she spent almost her pregnancy in bed.
Fortunately, ten months later, Shen Lijun gave birth to a baby boy, and the child was born smoothly, making her feel that all the hardships she suffered were worth it.
thought that after giving birth to a boy, her in-laws would be better for her, but she didn't expect that her mother-in-law and husband would ignore her at all.
Even if there is a nanny at home, she is not very relieved, she does everything herself, and the child is very clingy to her, Shen Lijun has to take care of the child while recuperating her body, which leads to confinement disease.
Shen Lijun wanted her husband to help him share a little, but her husband often used work as an excuse to often return late, or he didn't return at night.
Even if she goes home, she doesn't care about Shen Lijun, the promise before marriage has long been forgotten, and her mother-in-law is even more so, and the child blames her for something.
Faced with such a life, Shen Lijun couldn't hold on anymore and filed for divorce directly with her husband, but what she didn't expect was that Wu Kaixin was forgiven with a few sweet words.
05
Later, Shen Lijun unexpectedly became pregnant with a second child, which she didn't want, but at the request of her husband, she finally agreed to give birth.
The second child, Shen Lijun, also suffered a lot, and she also had to take care of her son on the road to protect the fetus.
When the second child was born, Shen Lijun gave birth to a daughter as she wished, and a son and a daughter were also complete.
thought that the birth of her daughter would make her husband change, but the nature of the country is easy to change.
After the birth of her daughter, Wu Kaixin disliked the two children being too noisy, so she simply moved out of the bedroom to sleep in the guest room, leaving her alone to take care of the children.
The bleak thing is that Shen Lijun worked hard to take care of the children at home and struggled with postpartum depression, but her husband was once again spending time drinking outside.
Her husband had cheated when she was pregnant with her first child, but she always felt that it was not true, and under Shen Lijun's meager situation, there has always been a woman who provoked her.
If she could be ruthless, maybe what happened later would not have happened, everyone told her that the child was small, and for the sake of the child, patience would have passed.
The last straw that crushed Shen Lijun was that she was diagnosed with advanced cervical cancer, and the doctor also issued a critical illness notice.
When she told her husband about her illness, not only did she not get his husband's attention, but she was blamed, saying that she was sick and delayed taking care of the children.
Her husband's words made Shen Lijun feel that the sky had stepped down, and she married him without hesitation, but in exchange for endless harm.
After that, the two often quarreled, and her mother-in-law also helped her husband bully her, and sometimes did something to her.
06
In 2018, the eighth year of Shen Lijun's marriage into a wealthy family, she was driven to a dead end and had enough of this life.
Enduring the pain caused by her body, she wrote a 10,000-word suicide note, denouncing her wealthy life, and in despair, she jumped from the 28th floor and ended her life at the age of 35.
In Shen Lijun's suicide note, she warned most people that they must be financially independent after marriage, don't give up their careers easily, and don't think about marrying into a wealthy family.
For Shen Lijun, maybe death is a relief, but it can make the two young children lose their mother early.
I hope that Shen Lijun will not meet a scumbag in her next life, and she can find someone who really loves her and live an ordinary life.
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