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Su Rui is the most influential famous female singer in Hong Kong and Taiwan after Teresa Teng, her singing style is distinct and unique, and many female singers in the mainland are competing to imitate.
Su Rui sang classic songs such as "If the wine is dry and sells nothing", "Follow the feeling", "Hold Hands", "The same moonlight", "Look back" and other classic songs, which still have a huge impact.
Su Rui, who has emotional vicissitudes, has had two failed marriages. She and her second ex-husband Liu Weilin had a son Liu Ziming, and after the marriage broke down, Su Rui raised her son alone. As a single mother, Su Rui's maternal love is rational and tear-inducing...
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Su Rui (formerly known as Su Ruifen) is a native of Jining City, Shandong Province, born in 1962 in Taipei, Taiwan Province, China. Su Rui had four older siblings on top of her, and her father opened one of the largest textile factories in Taiwan at the time.
When Su Rui was in elementary school, her father's textile factory changed to carpet production, which failed. Because of the debt, the textile factory was finally closed. Su Rui's father went bankrupt overnight, and the family moved out of a large, spacious house and into a crowded, dark rental house.
Her father worked everywhere to support his family, and su Rui's life with her brother and sister suddenly plummeted.
Su Rui, who is 1.58 meters tall, is pure and beautiful in her girlhood and has a good voice. In 1968, Su Rui participated in the Taiwan Singing Competition and began to attract attention.
In 1971, Su Rui graduated from high school, and she dropped out of school to help her father support her family. Soon, Su Rui went to an American army club to sing. Two years later, Su Rui entered the Hilton Hotel in Taipei as a resident singer.
Young Suri
Young Su Rui and Hou Xiaoxian
Here, Su Rui and love meet unexpectedly. One day, Su Rui was singing on stage, a drunken man rushed to the stage and forced Su Rui to pour wine, Su Rui struggled desperately, and the liquor spilled on her skirt, and the scene suddenly lost control.
The flesh-and-blood drummer Ah Wen (formerly known as Zhang Tianbai) rushed up and forcefully pushed the drunken man to the ground, breaking the siege for Su Rui.
Originally, this was a small dispute, but the drunken man was quite influential in the local area, and he often came to the hotel to make trouble after that. In order to calm things down, the boss had to fire Su Rui and Ah Wen together.
In this case, Su Rui and Ah Wen were forced to leave Hong Kong and enter a bar to sing. Awen is a year older than Su Rui, tall, and a handsome man with a very literary temperament.
In the wandering life, Su Rui and Arwen fell in love. In 1979, the two were licensed to marry. To be fair, Suri and Arwen did not come together out of true love, on the one hand out of gratitude, on the other hand, out of mutual warmth in the drift.
After marriage, the two often stumbled over trivial matters in life. After the argument, Arwen drank alcohol, then threw a tantrum at Suri and cried in the rental house.
In October 1980, Arwen had an affair with a female singer at a bar, and Suri decided to divorce Arwen when she learned of it. She then left Hong Kong and returned to Taipei with a scarred heart.
The feelings of the young girl are the most precious, and after the loss of marriage, Su Rui fell into trouble and pain. The soothing of family affection and the washing of the flow of time have gradually made Su Rui come out of the shadow of lost marriage.
Young Su Rui (right)
Shortly after returning to Taipei, a TV station interviewed Su Rui, and the host asked: "I heard that you are divorced, can you talk about the before and after of the divorce?" The scars in Su Rui's heart were uncovered again, and she burst into tears and choked up.
At this time, Liu Weilin was at the scene, he rushed to the host's side, and said angrily: "Please don't ask these inhuman questions!" The host had an argument with Liu Weilin, and Su Rui left without recording the show.
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Liu Weilin caught up and drove Su Rui to a café. A cup of fragrant coffee made Su Rui gradually calm down.
Liu Weilin was 4 years younger than Su Rui, a handsome and elegant man, and he was a producer at a film and television company in Taipei at the time. Under the introduction of Liu Weilin, Su Rui signed a contract with Taipei UFO Records.
In 1984, Su Rui released the song "If The Wine Is Sold Without", which quickly became popular in Hong Kong, Taiwan and the mainland. After becoming famous, Liu Weilin courted Su Rui. But she had concerns: "I'm divorced, and I'm 4 years older than you, so we don't fit in." Liu Weilin replied: "As long as you love each other, these are not problems." ”
In Su Rui's eyes, Liu Weilin is handsome, talented, warm-hearted, and has a fatal temptation for her. Therefore, Su Rui bravely accepted Liu Weilin's love.
In the fall of 1985, the two married in Taipei. At that time, it was the rising period of Su Rui's career, and she successively launched golden songs such as "Follow the Feeling" and "With Love", becoming one of the most popular female singers in Hong Kong and Taiwan.
Su Rui and Liu Weilin and their son
In 1991, Su Rui gave birth to a son, Liu Ziming. Su Rui wanted to reduce her workload and focus most of her energy on taking care of her son at home. But the company did not want her to rest this "cash cow" and frequently arranged work for her.
In 1993, Su Rui was invited to participate in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and sang "Hand in Hand" with Xie Xiaodong, Na Ying, Luo Wen and so on. Subsequently, Su Rui released the song "Holding Hands", and her singing career reached its peak.
Since then, she has frequently performed in the mainland. In 1998, Su Rui held a solo concert at the Beijing Capital Gymnasium, and more than 10,000 fans rushed to the scene and chanted Su Rui's name.
Just when Su Rui's career was in full swing, Liu Weilin's company was in trouble. In the spring of 1999, Liu Weilin borrowed money to invest, but the result also failed. Under the pressure of debt, Liu Weilin's temperament changed greatly, and he often quarreled with Su Rui at home.
Su Rui and Xie Xiaodong
In August of that year, Su Rui divorced Liu Weilin, and her son lived with her. The loss of marriage again brought a huge blow to Su Rui, and she was immersed in sorrow and pain.
At this time, his son Liu Ziming was 8 years old, often looking at his mother with a pair of pure and innocent eyes, he did not understand what it meant for his parents to divorce, and asked in a milky voice: "Mom, why are you crying?" ”
Su Rui did not want her son's young heart to be hurt, and she was busy drying her tears and said, "There is a grain of sand in my mother's eyes, which is uncomfortable." As a single mother who lost her marriage, Su Rui understood that she had hurt her son by not giving her son a complete home. If you appear in front of your son as a resentful woman, you will cause a second injury to your son.
So Su Rui buried tears and pain in her heart, and showed the strongest and sunniest side in front of her son. Nightshade waits for her son to fall asleep, and when Su Rui is vulnerable, she will bite the horn and cry.
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After 3 months of divorce, Su Rui asked Liu Weilin out: "Divorce is a relief for us adults, but the harm to my son is immeasurable." I have no other requirements for you, and I hope you will come to see your son more in the future. ”
In fact, Liu Weilin is also a kind and soft person, and agreed. Since then, he has often come to accompany his son, and sometimes he has taken him to live at home. Bathed in the love of his father and mother, Liu Ziming grew up smoothly.
After becoming a single mother, Suri only devotes one-third of her energy to work and two-thirds of her time and energy to caring for her son. In her view, the role of a competent mother is now more important to her son than a famous singer, and her redness does not have much impact on her son, and once the mother's love is absent, it will bring lifelong regrets to two generations.
After that, Su Rui cooked for her son at home, accompanied him to play games, and she also took her son to run and swim. Sometimes when she goes to perform in other places, Su Rui will also take her son with her.
In 2009, Liu Ziming was 18 years old and became an adult. He was tall, with a protruding throat knot and the corners of his mouth covered with fluff, making him a handsome young man. At that moment, Su Rui suddenly felt like a dream.
In the process of her son's growth, there are constantly excellent opposite sexes pursuing Su Rui, but she is afraid that her son will be wronged, and she closes the emotional floodgates tightly. As a single mother, if in order to pursue her own happiness, and ignore her son's growing environment, Su Rui feels that this is cruel to her son.
Because for more than 10 years, Su Rui and her son have been dependent on each other, and she has gradually become attached to her son emotionally. In 2014, Liu Ziming, 23 years old, graduated from university and worked in a cultural unit in Taipei.
Su Rui and Pan Weibai
Because of his handsomeness and good personality, there are often girls who take the initiative to contact Liu Ziming. Whenever this happens, Su Rui will have a strange feeling in her heart, intellectually she longs for her son to fall in love and get married, but emotionally she hopes that her son will always stay by her side.
The son spied through his mother's ambivalence, and in 2016 he said to his mother: "Mom, I want to move out." Su Rui burst into tears: "Mother is old, have you begun to dislike your mother?" ”
The son shook his head: "Mom, I want to have my own normal life, I hope you are too." The son moved into the rental house with Su Rui's tearful eyes. This deeply touched Su Rui, and she fell into contemplation: yes, the son has grown up, not a child, he should have his own independent life, she can no longer be emotionally attached to him.
Thinking like this, the entanglement in Su Rui's heart melted. Since then, Su Rui has met with her son once a week, and she no longer tells her son like when she was a child. The sensible son sometimes accompanies Su Rui out shopping, and sometimes comes home to cook a meal for Su Rui. After more than 3 years of separation between mother and son, in 2020, Su Rui finally separated from her son emotionally.
Su Rui and host Hou Nairong
Over the years, Su Rui has frequently performed in the mainland and participated in the 2018 CCTV Mid-Autumn Festival Gala. In 2019, Su Rui held a large-scale singer's club in Tianjin. In 2020, she also braved the rain to participate in commercial performances in Shanghai, and the audience was still fascinated by her.
In 2021, Liu Ziming has a girlfriend, and Su Rui hopes that her son will get married as soon as possible. Liu Ziming agreed, but also hoped that her mother could have a emotional home in her old age. Su Rui replied to her son: "Everything follows fate." ”
As a single mother, Su Rui is undoubtedly successful in raising her son: raising her son, sending him away, and letting her son develop independently and live freely is Su Rui's wisdom and wisdom. Su Rui's godson experience is worthy of emulation by single mothers in the world!
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