In 2009, Chen Xiaoyi, who was married, was photographed kissing a man in a car.
The man who kissed Chen Xiaoyi was not her husband Liu Huining, so the news about Chen Xiaoyi's cheating soon came.
The artist's derailment is definitely big news for the entertainment industry, and many entertainment reporters have come to interview Liu Huining, wanting to see his jokes.
But Liu Huining's direct denial: "My relationship with Chen Xiaoyi is all good, and her scandal with Xu Ang may be a hype." ”
In this way, Chen Xiaoyi's extramarital affair was settled.
Regardless of whether this matter is oolong or not, anyway, it is very dishonorable, and everyone believes that Chen Xiaoyi will never make similar mistakes in the future.
However, I never expected that 8 years later, Chen Xiaoyi was photographed again interacting intimately with strange men.
And after being photographed, Chen Xiaoyi not only did not have the slightest fear, but also generously held hands and brought the man home.
This time, Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining did not come out to explain, completely confirming the fact that the woman was cheating.
Just when the outside world thought that the two were definitely divorced, the result was unexpectedly not.
Even if the "green hat humiliation" has fallen Liu Huining's face, making the outside world see all the jokes, he has never moved the mind of divorce.
Many people are curious, this seemingly detached couple has been married for 24 years and separated for 13 years, obviously the relationship has long been shattered and is destined to be irretrievable.
Why? Liu Huining still chose to stick with Chen Xiaoyi.
Is he an affectionate species, or is he thinking otherwise?
This time, let's talk about their stories.
01. How realistic is the relationship between strong women and weak men?
In 1997, Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining met because of the drama under Zhang Jiayi's lead.
One of the two is an actor and the other is a director, and at the beginning there were often differences because of the problem of lines.
Neither of them looks at each other, and there is a bit of joy and wrongdoing.
However, with a long period of cooperation, Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining found that the other party was not as bad as they thought, and they were both people who were very serious about acting.
In this way, Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining gradually changed their outlook on each other, and they were no longer as-for-tat as before.
It's just that no one expected that as soon as the scene was filmed, the relationship between the two could actually go further and upgrade to boyfriend and girlfriend.
Logically speaking, the combination of director and actor is not uncommon in the entertainment industry.
But the relationship between Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining was unanimously opposed by friends around the woman except Zhang Jiayi.
Although Zhang Jiayi was shocked that the two could come together, he still sent his blessing as soon as possible: "Haha, I really didn't expect that I was a moon old man for the two of you, and you have to thank me well." ”
On the other hand, Chen Xiaoyi's other relatives and friends felt that Liu Huining was not worthy of her, and they all persuaded Chen Xiaoyi to think twice before acting.
Why is that?
Born into an acting family, Chen Xiaoyi not only has acting talent, he was admitted to the Chinese Opera Performance Department at the age of 19, and won the special award for solo drama in his sophomore drama festival, and won the favor of many directors.
At the age of 23, Chen Xiaoyi won the first prize of the Feitian Award with "Foreign Girl".
Before graduating, he has become a well-deserved strength and traffic flower in domestic entertainment, and the future is naturally bright.
When cooperating with Liu Huining, Chen Xiaoyi has won numerous awards and is very famous.
On the other hand, Liu Huining, in the ten years since he began filming in 1988, there has been no splash.
He, the director, has a very low sense of existence in the entertainment industry.
Another point is that Liu Huining's income is unstable, which cannot give Chen Xiaoyi a clear future.
If Liu Huining's talent has not yet been discovered, then his appearance cannot be said.
After all, an ordinary person must have the same advantage at least externally and internally.
But Liu Huining is thin and small, and he is not very old next year, but he looks very old.
When Liu Huining and the beautiful Chen Xiaoyi stood together, they didn't match each other.
But in the matter of love, Chen Xiaoyi loves is love.
She didn't listen to her friend's kind persuasion at all.
For Chen Xiaoyi, she is not an appearance association, whether she is looking for a friend or a significant other, she attaches great importance to the inner talent of the other party.
Chen Xiaoyi believes that Liu Huining is a very potential person and believes that this man will give her happiness.
02. "Inconsistent" marital feelings
So, under Chen Xiaoyi's efforts, in 1998, she and Liu Huining got married and obtained a license.
Two years after marriage, Chen Xiaoyi gave birth to a son for Liu Huining and decided to temporarily retire and take care of the family.
Leaving the show business and being a housewife is not an easy chore.
Every time Liu Huining went out to work, Chen Xiaoyi needed to deal with big and small things at home.
Especially when she just gave birth, Chen Xiaoyi was very tired, and often as soon as she lay down, the child cried.
Therefore, Chen Xiaoyi could only force himself not to sleep, and he had to cheer up all the time, and even couldn't sleep a good night.
After becoming a mother, Chen Xiaoyi was not only tired, but also paid a lot of price physically.
Her hair has fallen out a lot, her skin is dull yellow, her figure is out of shape, and she is completely without the bright appearance she had when she first debuted.
Everyone felt sorry for Chen Xiaoyi and felt that she should not have married so early in the first place.
However, there is no way to do this, there must be someone between Chen Xiaoyi and Liu Huining to support this family.
Chen Xiaoyi can't bear to let her husband give up his job to take care of the family, she believes that her husband has the talent of directing, as long as he works hard and luck, he will one day be able to get ahead.
Faced with his wife's dedication, Liu Huining saw it in his eyes and hurt in his heart.
He also misses his wife and children very much, and spends more time with them at home.
However, Liu Huining cannot do this, he must work seriously to earn money and give the two mothers in the family a better life.
In order to increase the time in the world of the two, Liu Huining and Chen Xiaoyi both thought of many ways.
Occasionally, Liu Huining will reduce his work, accompany his wife and children once, and let Chen Xiaoyi be the heroine in his play.
In this way, the wife has both dramas to film, and the two have time together.
Because the two parties understand each other, after the couple got married, the relationship was stable for ten years.
Compared with Xu Fan and Jiang Wenli, who are also "Four Tsing Yi", they have been betrayed by their husbands one after another, and Chen Xiaoyi's vision is good.
Time has proved that Chen Xiaoyi "slapped her friend" in the face, and she married a man who was worthy of entrusting her life.
However, the seemingly different loves have actually underflowed.
03, two green hat shaming still not divorced
In 2009, Chen Xiaoyi was not only photographed kissing director Xu Ang in the car, but also holding flowers given by the man after getting out of the car, talking and laughing.
This ambiguous picture is not an ordinary colleague relationship, but very much like a husband and wife.
However, what surprised the outside world even more was that Xu Ang was also a family man.
As a director, Xu Ang is generally famous, and like Liu Huining, he is a man who does not look good.
For a while, I also wanted to accuse the man of subtly ruling the woman's melon-eating masses, and suddenly couldn't tell who was sneaking whom.
After all, with Chen Xiaoyi's fame, it is almost the same to say that the man "seduces" her.
It is clear that the relationship with her husband in front of the camera is very loving and harmonious, but Chen Xiaoyi is cheating and being a third party.
Just when everyone was puzzled, Liu Huining stood up to defend his wife.
Saying that the Internet is full of rumors, he believes in Chen Xiaoyi's personality, and hopes that the rumor-mongers will stop causing trouble.
Liu Huining repeatedly stressed to the outside world that he and Chen Xiaoyi have a good relationship and will always be happy in the future.
And Chen Xiaoyi, who did not respond at the first time, "lived" at this time.
Immediately afterwards, he quickly echoed his husband, saying that he and Director Xu were innocent, and at that time, they were just close and whispered a few words, and they were taken into a kiss picture by someone with a heart.
What the!? The picture of the revelation is already so clear, Chen Xiaoyi's derailment is undoubted, Liu Huining was cuckolded but can still be so calm, the outside world does not understand.
However, since the parties have already spoken, it is no longer interesting to continue talking.
Although everyone no longer felt the same way to persuade the two to divorce out in the spirit of respecting the blessing, they knew very well in their hearts that Liu Huining and Chen Xiaoyi had already looked like each other.
Because careful melon-eating people found that the couple never saw the same frame again after the woman's cheating turmoil.
Liu Huining explained that it was because Chen Xiaoyi had high requirements for the script, and some roles were not suitable, so they didn't want to settle.
Liu Huining has a point, but it is not convincing.
Later, they stopped cooperating and began to deliberately avoid suspicion.
Even Ti didn't want to mention each other again, which was not at all like what a loving couple should have.
It was not until 2017 that Chen Xiaoyi was photographed cheating again, which completely proved the outside world's conjecture that their relationship had been shattered.
This time, Chen Xiaoyi not only cheated, but also the object was a tall and handsome little fresh meat.
After being photographed, Chen Xiaoyi did not dodge the whole process, and even loved and cared for her little boyfriend to the point of "Jinwu Zangjiao".
What's more, Liu Huining changed his usual and did not come out to defend his wife this time.
His silence and Chen Xiaoyi's lack of clarification to a certain extent acquiesced to the news of the woman's cheating.
Many people eat melons with the mentality of watching the excitement and not being too big, after all, Liu Huining's tolerance for his wife is not ordinary.
Although Liu Huining was silent, he still did not divorce his wife who betrayed him.
As for the reasons for this, there are already traces to follow.
04. Is it true love or "revenge"?
When Chen Xiaoyi was interviewed and talked about her husband, she said that the two did not have anything in common, and they didn't know what to say when they got home, which was particularly embarrassing.
Since giving birth, the two have often gathered less and separated more because of their work, which naturally distanced the couple from each other.
According to the revelations of friends around the two that they have been separated for 13 years, it is enough to see that the two sides have no feelings, at least Chen Xiaoyi no longer has attachment to Liu Huining.
At the same time, it can also be seen that in this marriage, the man fails to take more responsibility.
He did not take on the responsibility of taking care of his family and pushed it all to his other half.
It is known as working hard outside to make a lot of money, but in fact, his directing level has remained in place after so many years.
Out of guilt, Liu Huining chose to forgive Chen Xiaoyi after her first cheating.
To Liu Huining's sadness, this time he paid by mistake again.
Chen Xiaoyi did not change her mind, and her husband's failure made her more and more disappointed in him until she gave up, looking for a man who could really make her trustworthy.
It is said that under the premise that the other party does not cold himself, it is the embodiment of choosing to let go and love someone.
Therefore, Liu Huining's delay in letting go of Chen Xiaoyi, whether he loves too deeply or deliberately "retaliates" his wife's cheating behavior, has become clear at a glance.
Of course, 1,000 Hamlets out of 1,000 people, everybody has an answer in their hearts.
What do you think? Do you think the two are still in love?