In the latest plot of "The Right Way to Open Life", Fu Xintong was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and insisted on divorcing Bian Liang.
Although bipolar disorder has certain genetic factors, in the TV series, the heroine Fu Xintong suffered from this disease in large part because of external factors.
Specifically, I think that Fu Xintong, who was originally such an excellent person, suffered from severe bipolar disorder, which is inseparable from these three factors.
First, the husband is not intimate
In the TV series "The Right Way to Open Life", the male protagonist played by Huang Bo, Bian Liang, is a successful professional with a fairly good career development, if it is not a little accident, he has basically mixed into the position of vice president of the company.
Bian Liang works hard and is very good, it is said that marrying Bian Liang and Fu Xintong's life should be very happy. But on the contrary, Fu Xintong lived a very depressed, lonely, and insecure life. And most of the reason for this, I think is in Bian Liang.
1. Pay too much attention to work and neglect the family
Bian Liang's career is okay, and his income is not low. However, the problem with Bian Liang is that he attaches too much importance to work and making money, and ultimately neglects the care and companionship of his family.
It is precisely because of his neglect that his son's memory since childhood is only his mother, full of resentment towards him, and he is slightly better when he grows up.
Because of his negligence, the wife's emotions and heart are basically desolate, and she has not received a little nourishment from her husband. So Fu Xintong got bipolar disorder later, and Bian Liang, who was a husband, couldn't get rid of it.
2. There is no measure in getting along with the opposite sex
In addition to ignoring the feelings of his family, Bian Liang also has a problem, that is, he has no sense of proportion in getting along with the opposite sex. First Dongxiao, then Wen Caocao, Bian Liang has many problems in the handling of these two relationships. This directly leads to the wife's insecurity and even loss of confidence in marriage.
Second, there is no career nourishment
Fu Xintong was originally a university teacher, but because his son was weak and sick, he chose to quit his job and go home to take care of his children full-time and accompany them to study.
So at the beginning of the TV series, the Fu Xintong we saw was already a middle-aged housewife who had resigned for many years and concentrated on being at home with her husband and children.
Originally, Fu Xintong did all this willingly. After all, running a good family is something a great pride for a woman.
But later, her husband Bian Liang was not clear with his ex-girlfriend at first, which made everyone in the company know; Later, he had a scandal with a young female subordinate who had just entered the company.
These things are simply fatal blows for housewives who do not have a job and rely on their husbands for everything.
Such an unclear husband makes his wife Fu Xintong unable to get security from this relationship. So later, she decided to go out and find a job, even if it was to sell insurance, she did not want to be a full-time housewife again.
Third, the death of the mother
In the TV series, the problems encountered by Fu Xintong at the beginning were hidden, like an iceberg hidden under the calm sea, which has not been exposed.
But later, the death of his mother broke the last trace of psychological defense in Fu Xintong's heart, and all the emotions that had been suppressed and hidden before burst out. As a result, Fu Xintong broke out with bipolar disorder.
It can be said that the death of the mother is like a fuse, so that the problems in the marriage of Fu Xintong and Bian Liang are all revealed.
At this time, Bian Liang wanted to comfort, to smooth, to remedy, it was too late, because the front really ignored too much for too long.
In this seemingly happy marriage, the originally confident and cheerful Fu Xintong, little by little, was consumed into what it is today.
Write at the end
In "The Right Way to Open Life", Fu Xintong, as his wife, eventually suffered from bipolar disorder because of years of unsatisfactory life, which may be a bit exaggerated in reality.
In real life, more are couples who have been baptized for many years, middle-aged, and have many problems in marriage, but still make do with moving forward.
Life is not as exaggerated as in TV series, many people may not divorce, one or both parties in the marriage will not be manic or depressed, but the problems in marriage are no less than in TV series.
This may be the main purpose of the main creators of the play to create this drama. It is to let us take care of our own lives through the amplified marriage problems in the play, and at the same time find an effective solution.