All the way to "Go to the Windy Place" until now, although I have not only paid attention to the male and female protagonists like some people, I have only seen the group of people in the "Windy Small Courtyard", but I have ignored the supporting roles in the story, and the interpretation is our most real life.
Especially the group of cute and lively grandmothers, it makes the whole story have a thick sense of historical years, like a pot of thick soup, full of fragrance and refreshing.
Kind and affectionate Grandma Xie. While saying that he can't beat the child, he beat his little grandson well, and the strong sense of contrast made us understand what it means to be strict and kind. When she went to the grave that time, she confessed to her deceased husband and explained what true love is.
Aunt Feng, who was tricked by fate, the youngest daughter died early, and the eldest son went to prison, leaving only the old two to rely on each other, just to help her son pay off debts, save money all her life, and can't wait for a penny to be spent on two cents, but even so, she does not complain or be harsh, and has been working hard silently.
The gentle and virtuous Aunt Aquarius is the mother of Xie Xiaochun and Xie Xiaoxia, and the grandmother of Little Hulu. Strong sense of responsibility, hard-working, raised the two children alone, distressed about the children but not good at expression, the most worried is the lifelong events of the two children.
Of course, the one who left the deepest impression was Aunt Agui-
As one of the landlords and staff of the "Windy Courtyard", Aunt Agui has a strong personality, likes to listen to beautiful words, and is a little vain. Poor sense of direction, usually mainly responsible for the sanitation and cleaning of the "windy courtyard".
But such an inconspicuous character is the most transparent person in the whole story, and I even feel that the group of tenants in the "windy courtyard" can be healed, and Aunt Gui definitely played an important role.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
Aunt Gui's vanity allows us to see the helplessness of the empty nest parents in our hometown.
Compared with Aunt Feng, compared to Aunt Aquarius, Aunt Gui's life is very complete. The two children have never had secrets from Aunt Gui, well-behaved and sensible. I never worried that the two children would grow crooked, and later as they grew older, both children were admitted to university and went to school in Qingdao. Later, after graduation, he stayed in Qingdao, worked, got married, had children, and formed his own small family.
It can be said that Aunt Agui is the old age life that most people dream of, although the children are not around, but there must be red envelopes every New Year's holiday, and from time to time to talk to the children, there are things worth showing off in the social circle.
However, for Aunt Gui, this is precisely the biggest regret in her life.
Most parents are more entangled, on the one hand, they hope that their children will have a good life, but on the other hand, they hope that their children can accompany them, and their children and grandchildren can enjoy the joy of family.
Although Aunt Gui's two children are very promising, they are not filial children.
That time, Dayang called Aunt Agui to go to Qingdao, and after hearing the news, Aunt Agui was very happy, seriously prepared her luggage, found mushrooms to dry and pack, made flower cakes and milk fans, and thought of bringing things from her hometown to her children so that they could eat the taste of their hometown.
But just when Aunt Agui was making all preparations and preparing to leave, Dayang called and said that she was going on a business trip and asked Aunt Agui not to come. The stream in Qingdao, which is also borrowed from the slope, will not come if my parents do not come.
Like most empty nesters, they don't want as many gifts or red envelopes as their children buy, they just want their children to come back to see them often, or they can visit them whenever they want.
But all of this has become a luxury.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
Aunt Gui's transparency allows us to understand the wisdom that has gone through vicissitudes.
Although Aunt Gui's personality is very distinct, at the beginning, I didn't remember her.
The first time Aunt Agui impressed me was when he woke up Ma Ye.
Aunt Agui graduated from elementary school and has never walked out of this world; Ma Ye has several ups and downs, and has seen a lot of the world, under normal circumstances, it is difficult for such two people to intersect.
But it is also strange to say that Ma Ye's oily and salty personality actually obeyed Aunt Gui's words. As the laziest person in the "windy courtyard", Ma Ye is at most just cooking and eating in addition to sitting, nothing more.
However, under the persuasion of Aunt Gui, Ma Ye once again had the courage to move forward.
Now that I think about it, Aunt Gui's words first hit the nail on the head by pointing out that Ma Ye was "lazy is a disease", and then Aunt Agui told Ma Ye that he must shoulder his responsibilities in life. Just when Ma Ye was defending his behavior, Aunt Gui immediately told Ma Ye that the most important thing to do in life was not to "lie flat" but to "toss". Seeing that Ma Ye was still hesitating, Aunt Gui told Ma Ye that the ultimate goal in life is not only to make money, but to complete the mission that he should complete.
In fact, we all understand these truths, and Ma Ye also understands, but what we understand is only the truth, and the truth that lacks the support of life experience is pale and powerless after all.
Aunt Agui may not be able to say gorgeous words, but the wisdom of life accumulated through half a life is the most precious treasure in the world. It was these simple words that not only woke up Ma Ye, but also made Xu Hongdou and Barley rethink their lives.
To say that Aunt Agui is a wise man does not seem to be an exaggeration.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
The friendship between Aunt Gui and Aunt Feng allows us to see the most simple kindness.
In fact, there is not much contradiction between Aunt Gui and Aunt Feng, and the reason why they quarrel is completely because they are in a hurry to catch up——
Originally, Aunt Gui wanted to see her son, so she entrusted the work of cleaning the small courtyard to Aunt Feng, because of the temporary change of the ocean, Aunt Feng earned fifty yuan less, this matter was originally nothing, but at this time, Aunt Gui unscrupulously mentioned her imprisoned son Xie Qiang, so angry that Aunt Feng cried on the spot.
Of course, there is another reason for this - Aunt Feng's daughter fell to her death because of picking fungi, so for so many years, fungi have always been a taboo for Aunt Feng, and Aunt Gui didn't know that the matter of sending Aunt Feng's fungi was really a stab in Aunt Feng's heart.
Originally, the two would gamble for a long time, but two days after that, when Aunt Feng's husband (Uncle Chang) suddenly fainted and was hospitalized, Aunt Gui immediately turned on her electric tricycle to send Aunt Feng to the hospital; And because she was worried that Aunt Feng would eat frugally and collapse her body, she specially made braised steak to supplement Aunt Feng's nutrition.
In the same village, bumping and bumping for thirty years, but as long as there is something on one side, the other party will show up on time. We are completely sure that if something happens to Aunt Gui, Aunt Feng will definitely be the first to appear.
This is the father and fellow villagers in my hometown, on weekdays, for the edge of the field, for your chickens pecked my family's vegetables, my dog stole your leftovers, they can make a fuss, and even fight.
But after the fight, they are still the best neighbors, no matter who encounters major events of birth, old age, illness and death, they will appear on time to help, and this is the most simple kindness in this world that has not been polluted by the world.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
Such Agui Aunts are actually those fathers who still live in my hometown.
They have not read many books, they have no chance to jump out of the farm, they have faced the loess with their backs to the sky all their lives, and even if they have the opportunity to go out to work, they are just ordinary laborers.
In this life, they have never been to a high-end hotel, and they are reluctant to drink a cup of milk tea for twenty yuan, but they put all their energy on their children, give them the best material conditions, and let them read more books.
But when the children grow up, they leave their parents and the countryside to go to the outside world, and at most they only go home to see it during the New Year holidays.
As a result, our fathers continued to be trapped in the countryside, continuing their peaceful lives, waiting day after day for their distant children.
On weekdays, although they have such problems and contradictions, they have long become a whole after many years of living under the same sky.
In fact, as long as we calm down and return to our hometown, we will meet our Aunt Gui, we will meet our Aunt Feng, and we will also meet our Aunt Aquarius and Grandma Xie.
I suddenly felt that Dali is not only a "windy place", when we are tired and confused, as long as we return to our hometown, we can also heal ourselves.
Because in our hometown, there is not only a primitive life, but also simple and kind fathers and fellow villagers, and this is enough.
Perhaps, the most important thing we should do is to take some time to go home and see, accompany our parents who are still staying in their hometown, and also empty our mood of being filled with ordinary life.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
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