If a person is not a sage, who can be blameless? Teachers deal with students every day, and it is inevitable that there will be misunderstandings between them. It is common for teachers and students to have misunderstandings, and the key is how teachers should deal with them after the misunderstanding occurs? Different treatment methods highlight the different personal qualities and management levels of teachers. #教育 #
Teachers and students
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > a teacher and student in Fuzhou misunderstood, hit the student and shouted "roll", very dismissive</h1>
According to news media reports such as "live video". Xiao Qi (pseudonym), a student at Fuzhou No. 18 Middle School, came down from the stairs one day after class and saw his classmate Xiao Chen (pseudonym) covering his head with clothes and rushing down the stairs.
Probably because the weather was too cold, the clothes blocked the view, and Xiao Chen almost hit the wall. Xiao Qi's eyes were fast, and he quickly grabbed Xiao Chen's shoulder and slammed it hard to twist Xiao Chen in the right direction.
At this time, the teacher suddenly rushed out, thinking that Xiao Qi was bullying Xiao Chen, he hit Xiao Qi's head, very heavy, Xiao Qi felt his eyes flowering, and people were a little dizzy.
Xiao Qi immediately understood that the teacher should have misunderstood himself, and he quickly explained to the teacher, but the teacher not only did not believe his words, but also shouted at Xiao Qi in front of many classmates, in full view of everyone: "Roll! ”
Shout: "Roll! (Network illustration)
Xiao Qi was very nervous and ashamed, and went home to tell his mother about it. Mom was also annoyed, called the teacher to ask about the situation, and said that if it was not handled well, she would call the police. Unexpectedly, the teacher was very dissatisfied, and said: "If you want to call the police, go to the police." ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > is this teacher's approach right? Netizen: Teacher, you are too much</h1>
The teacher's words and deeds caused disgust among netizens, and many netizens criticized the teacher, saying that the teacher was too much. Indeed, in this incident, the teacher's approach was indeed wrong, what was wrong?
The mistake is not to ask questions, subjective and arbitrary. When two students were found twisting together, the teacher immediately judged that they were bullying each other, and this judgment was inevitably too hasty. The correct approach, the teacher should carefully check the two of them, find out the actual situation, and then take corresponding measures in a targeted manner, which avoids blindness, and a series of mistakes in the future will not occur.
Teachers accuse students (web with image)
The mistake lies in "countering violence with violence" and beating people with their hands at every turn. Even if Xiao Qi really bullied Xiao Chen, the teacher would catch up and beat Xiao Qi up, and the beating was quite heavy, this way is not advisable. There are many ways to stop "bullying" on campus, and the use of violence is "corporal punishment" and is absolutely not allowed. When dealing with problems, teachers "counter violence with violence", and they have to pay for their wrong behavior, and even mistake into thousands of years of hatred, which is unnecessary.
The fault lies in using the situation to suppress people and expand the situation. Xiao Qi and Xiao Chen had already explained that the teacher should have understood that he had misunderstood Xiao Qi, but he did not want to admit his mistake in public, but borrowed the identity of the teacher in a vain attempt to suppress the situation, and very forcefully said loudly in public, "Roll!" As a result, Xiao Qi's tension and resentment intensified the contradiction and expanded the incident.
Wrong is to die for face, and mistakes will be wrong. Their children have been wronged at school, and the parents' indignant feelings are understandable. As long as the teacher is calm, admits his mistakes, and shows that he cares about the original intention of the students, the parents' mentality calms down, and they will not have a big opinion on the teacher. However, the teacher in the incident loves face and does not take the parents' rebuke seriously, which will inevitably cause greater contradictions and storms.
Teachers educate students
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > things look small and have a big negative impact</h1>
Student contradictions, teacher-student misunderstandings, and home-school contradictions are all common phenomena in teachers' work. There was no bloodshed, no casualties, and it seemed like a small matter of verbal squabble, but its negative impact was quite large.
This is not what a teacher should look like. Teachers "serve as a teacher", and what they say and do should be a model for the world. This teacher's approach, casually using his hands, suppressing people, hurting people, making mistakes again and again, not taking it for granted, completely losing his image in front of students and parents, which is very unfavorable to his subsequent education work.
Fuzhou Eighteenth Middle School is a very good school, how can there be such a teacher? This is a comment from a netizen, which shows that the teacher's behavior is far from the teacher's personal image, and it also smears the school. Reputation and word of mouth, for a school is very important, a good reputation, a good reputation, the need for the unremitting efforts of every teacher in the school, on the contrary, the teacher's improper words and deeds, the negative impact on the school is also quite large.
Leave a psychological shadow on students (network picture)
This kind of thing is not handled well, and it is easy to leave a psychological shadow on students. The teacher misunderstood himself, but did not listen to the explanation, and was also scolded by the teacher in public, which is difficult for an underage student to bear. This kind of thing, if the follow-up is not handled well, the teacher continues to take a tough approach, which will definitely leave a psychological shadow on the students, and even lead to depression, and the consequences are unimaginable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > the last word</h1>
A small matter in daily campus life has set off an uproar in public opinion, and this teacher should indeed learn from this incident.
This incident has also sounded the alarm bell for all our colleagues in the education sector, teaching and educating people, great responsibility, and sometimes, modesty and admitting mistakes is also a virtue, isn't it?
The teacher and the student are together
(The pictures in the text are from the Internet, such as intrusion and deletion.) ）