Now the APP is each a marketing genius.
Send a group text message to potential users to the effect that your friend XXX has left a rating or impression on their own software, click on the link to view.
The intention of the text message is clear, and it is nothing more than to take advantage of the psychological weakness of people's curiosity to induce you to download the software.
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But to be honest, I really eat this routine.
Oh my God, someone is silently paying attention to me behind my back, and I can't help but think so.
Even if there are many steps to download and register, you have to step by step to see which little cute heart I am so special, will not be the handsome boy who talked very happily at the previous party.
Friends laughed at me in my 20s and still had the fantasy of a little girl, but I went back to the circle of friends to forward anonymous friend impressions.
Alas, sure enough, no one escaped the expectation of being guarded.
Thinking about these two years, the stories that have touched me are often related to "remembering and remembering will have an echo".
For example, a female friend will receive gifts and blessings from her first love every year on her birthday, more punctual than her parents, even if they have been separated for many years, even if each other has been thousands of kilometers away on the other side of the ocean for several years. The New Year's gift for this year's first love was his own, and the friend gladly signed it off.
Or maybe when he was a child, there was a boy who had been Doraemon of another girl, and every time the girl had something she needed temporarily, he could take it out of his bag. Recently she asked for a marriage license, and he pulled out nine dollars and a household registration book.
Why the "guardian" section can hit my touching point perfectly, not because the ending is satisfactory, but because of the heart.
It is the amount of time you put in, the energy you consume, the stupid things you repeat and do that make this feeling full of meaning.
The more you are in the fast food era, the easier it is to be impressed by this kind of thing that takes time to brew.
Excerpt from "Marriage Proposal Battle"
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Probably because I am an emotional blogger, the first reaction of friends around me who have emotional problems comes to ask me.
The most often asked by boys is how to pursue the girl of their choice.
They said that I had ordered expensive high-end restaurants and sent the most fashionable gifts, why did she still think I was just playing.
I remembered watching "Know It or Not" at home with my friends on the weekend, just when the heroine refused the courtship of her first love, Little Grandpa, and chose Gu Er.
The bullet screen is full of incomprehension, why in the face of the once deep feelings of the first love is only one step away from being lost and regained, she retreats to the second.
But if I were Minglan, I would make the same choice.
Those critical moments when her mother had difficulty giving birth but did not have a doctor's treatment, encountered water thieves on the river, and fled the city in a mutiny and was caught by the rebels, it was Gu Er who helped her resolve her predicament and did not seek returns, and it was Xiao Gongye who made her repeatedly difficult at the party.
One person deliberates and plans many times just to marry himself, while the other person often misses the opportunity in helplessness.
How to let people see your intentions. It's not just about the amount of money you're paying for the other person, it's also about the time you take to understand what the other person wants in the details.
There are also many girls who often ask me how to judge whether the boys who are getting along now have any intentions for her.
It's actually too good to be noticed.
Take you to dessert, you order an ice cream, remember to tell the waiter not to put nuts because you are allergic to it with a good heart.
When you go out to travel in the summer, you still bring mosquito repellent water in your backpack, because you especially attract mosquito bites with care.
Seeing that you are wearing high heels, he will go and buy a pair of women's slippers to carry in his hands, so that you can change them with foot pain, which is intentional.
During the daily small talk in the office, the female colleague also told me about the experience of being recently picked up.
Because her name is X Yu, the harmonic pronunciation of "fish", so she sometimes calls herself a small fish. Once, after she mentioned it to a boy, every time the boy saw the fish, he would shoot her and say, I see you.
Often the details are found in the real chapter. She has said this nickname to many people, and only this boy remembers this joke.
So she also planted a heel after thousands of sails.
Excerpt from "Love Notebook"
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I think of an old topic – security.
Someone summed up how many prerequisites are needed to make a girlfriend feel safe: to have his phone completely transparent and open, but also to have uninterrupted gifts on holidays, to go out and have to report, but also to read and recite her preferences.
On Weibo, when asked how to check your boyfriend's post, there were thousands of comments that did not repeat the same, and even some people taught themselves programming in order to check their boyfriend's computer.
At such times, there will be a large influx of criticism, disgusting that girls have gone crazy in pursuit of security.
But behind those shocking actions, the intention is nothing more than to prove that "he has me in his heart."
From the time he always kept his distance from the opposite sex who was courteous, from the time he went out to party and still cared about whether she had eaten alone at home, from the time he remembered that she said she didn't eat fish, from the fact that she wanted to prove his intentions from all the details.
After all, for busy contemporary urban youth, many things are rather than save time as much as possible, so when a person is willing to do more "useless work" that has nothing to do with himself, there is no need to prove where his mind is.
The so-called sense of security is just the person who understands that you are in your heart, and also puts you in your heart and misses you all the time.
Excerpt from Dear Galileo
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Once he talked about "PUA" with Fa Xiao, we all sighed, they don't understand, no matter how many routines can not withstand the heart.
It is also a story that must be echoed by remembering. The boy worked in the café downstairs of the girl's office, and the first time he noticed the girl was that she came to her shop for three consecutive days to order the same taste of coffee.
I had seen her sharpness in handling the work, and I had seen the confusion when she drank alone, not knowing which day it would start, and he had been looking forward to her arrival all day.
But instead of taking the initiative, he was still a little timid, and only dared to guard behind his back.
Finding her too easy to attract mosquitoes, he would always silently prepare green plants for her to spray with mosquito repellent water.
Seeing that she was in a bad mood, he would secretly change her into a plant shaped "66" and wish her all the best.
Unfortunately, before he could summon up the courage to ask her for contact information, the girl lost her job and never appeared again.
He thought it was just that with her missing out.
But a few months later, he spotted her on a mountaineering trip.
He was the one who took care of her the most, helping her cross the river, setting a tent for her, and the girl wondered why he was so special to himself.
Until she smelled the familiar smell of mosquito repellent water, she remembered him who had been guarding behind her.
I think they won't miss it again this time.
Just like I am always by the group texting routine of those apps, I find that there is someone who has been silently guarding your side, helping you solve various difficulties in life without compensation, and it is indeed more exciting to uncover the truth than to listen to ten thousand love words.