Cao Dewang built a mansion covering an area of 5 acres, and the basement was filled with Maotai. I also hired 18 long-term workers to clean the house and buy vegetables to cook. What he did not expect was that his 3 children did not return home because of this, and even estranged from him a lot.
Cao Dewang is the founder of Fuyao Glass Group, worth 30 billion yuan, he is enthusiastic about charity, and has donated 16 billion yuan for decades.
Generous and selfless to outsiders, the most extravagant thing he has ever done to himself in his life is to build a mansion.
This villa, he invested hundreds of millions, but also built a swimming pool, office area, study area, living area and other places in it, all kinds of equipment.
The house was too big, so he hired 18 long-term workers to clean the house and buy vegetables to cook.
He likes to drink liquor, and he is piled up in the basement with Moutai wine.
However, what he did not expect was that after the mansion was built, his 3 precious children did not want to go home, and the family with good relations even became estranged.
To this end, Cao Dewang had a heart-to-heart communication with his children, but unexpectedly, he was moved to tears by the three children.
It turned out that his children felt that the house was too luxurious, which put a lot of pressure on them, and they felt that young people should suffer more instead of enjoying it.
In fact, Cao Dewang's three children have also done what they say, and they have broken through the sky on their own in their respective fields.
The eldest son, Cao Hui, resolutely gave up his senior position in the company in 2015 and publicly announced that he would break away from fuyao group and start his own business. Now, a few years later, he has successfully started his own business and is the chairman and general manager of several companies.
And the second son, Cao Daiteng, is also a strong man in the field, he did not drive a luxury car in his family's great cause, but drove a second-hand car of more than 100,000 people.
Daughter Cao Yanping is not spoiled, she is low-key, relying on her own skills to stand firm in the company, and now become the general manager of her father's company, perhaps, in the end, Cao Dewang handed over the Fuyao Group to her daughter.
@Ann Story Cottage
Cao Dewang can be said to be successful in educating his children, he himself has been on the road to entrepreneurship, experienced ups and downs, which makes his children know that success is not easy to get, to achieve success, must rely on personal efforts, not on parents.
In the book "Strange Situation Experiment - The Psychology of Love and Attachment", it is mentioned that parents and children have a very close attachment relationship, and it is normal to attach to their parents when they are young, and parents should also accompany their children more, give them a sense of security, and make them more confident and brave.
However, when the child grows up, parents should learn to be separated from the child, which is not to say that they live separately, but to encourage the child to live independently, do things independently, think independently, have their own values and principles of life, rather than a lifetime of attachment to their parents.
In fact, many mothers and men and nibbling on the elderly are not done well because of the separation from their parents, resulting in a lifetime of attachment between parents and children and a lifetime of mutual torture.
Parents' love for their children is unreserved, and children are the most trusting parents, but parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, and children should learn to get rid of their parents' dependence and rely on themselves to achieve success in life.
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