Haidi Zhang's legendary life and little-known love story

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In the 1980s, many people should know the story of a disabled girl in Shandong. Because she had a hemangioma when she was five years old, which led to high paraplegia, some doctors asserted that she would not live to be 30 years old. Today, she is 67 years old, not only creating the miracle of life, but also creating many achievements that are difficult for able-bodied people to achieve. She is Zhang Haidi, the current president of the National Disabled Persons' Federation.

Zhang Haidi was born in 1955 to an intellectual family in Wendeng County, Jinan City, Shandong Province. At the age of 5, he was diagnosed with hemangiomas and resulted in high paraplegia. She could have had a comfortable and ordinary life, but life made a big joke for her. At the age of five, Haidi Zhang underwent major surgery for a hemangioma, resulting in high paraplegia. As a result, Zhang Haidi lost the opportunity to enter the campus to study. Zhang Haidi did not give up the dream of studying, and set up a mirror in front of his bed. Zhang Haidi used a mirror to reflect the content of the book, tirelessly learning knowledge. Zhang Haidi's father, Zhang Tanfu, was the leader of the Jinan Municipal Federation of Literature and Literature and was a knowledgeable intellectual. Zhang Tanfu deeply influenced his daughter and opened up a whole new world for her.

With the encouragement of her father, Zhang Haidi systematically studied all the courses of primary and secondary schools, and also taught herself university English, Japanese, German, and even the unpopular Esperanto. Finally, Haidi Zhang also taught herself a graduate program. In 1983, Zhang Haidi's deeds were already well known and he was awarded the title of "Outstanding Communist Youth League Member". In the same year, Zhang Haidi, who was 28 years old at the time, officially began his literary creation career, the most influential of which was "Dream in a Wheelchair", which influenced the spiritual world of a generation. He has translated hundreds of thousands of words of English novels and compiled books such as "The Pursuit of Life", and has achieved remarkable achievements.

Zhang Haidi experienced the misfortune of childhood and self-study counterattack, she self-taught, no matter in which aspect, have worked several times more than ordinary people, she from an electrical repairman to a creator, and then to the vice chairman of the presidium of the Shandong Provincial Disabled Persons' Federation, who knows the heartache of this, her efforts are slowly being rewarded, Zhang Haidi's career has since begun to become smooth. In addition to her bumpy experience, she is also an excellent writer, and her masterpieces "The Pursuit of Life", "Dream in a Wheelchair" and "Absolute Top" are all well-known masterpieces, of which "Absolute Top" won the "Five Ones" Project Book Award of the Central Propaganda Department.

Therefore, she is more than enough with all people than willpower and firm belief, and beyond ordinary people, it will certainly be beyond ordinary people. The current situation of her life is enjoyed by us ordinary people, and there is almost no difference. Zhang Haidi is the first disabled person to take a driver's license, the disabled Zhijian is synonymous with her, let more children overcome the misfortune of disability psychologically, fairly and justly let everyone look at the disabled children, Zhang Haidi is still running for the disabled to better enjoy the rights and interests they should enjoy, behind the rush is her stoic heart, in each of our lives, it is inevitable to run for something, but she is more meaningful and more valuable than our rushing efforts.

If there are many storms in life, we must also face them head-on. No matter what life brings us, all we can do is to be like Zhang Haidi, dare to face it, not afraid of how difficult the road is, and bravely go on. Even if you lose at the starting line, you dare to start and run out of the excitement of your own life.

Although Zhang Haidi is physically disabled, like other girls, she is very eager for love at the age of the beginning of her love, hoping to meet the Prince Charming in her dream, and after moving to Liaocheng, she really met her own Prince Charming.

Zhang Haidi usually sees not many boys, most of them are naughty, like to laugh and play, but there is a boy is different, he treats people with modesty and courtesy, gentle and generous, most importantly, he is very good to Zhang Haidi, his gentleness like water opens the door of Zhang Haidi's heart, Zhang Haidi likes him, but never dares to say it, this is her fifteen-year-old simple and beautiful, and soon this beauty is broken.

One day, when the boy came to play with Zhang Haidi, he brought a beautiful girl, and she remembered very well that this girl was wearing a woolen coat, beautiful and healthy, like a princess who came out of a fairy tale. Zhang Haidi deeply felt inferior and panicked, and sure enough, her panic was right, and the boy never looked for her again. One day, when I was pushed to a movie by a friend, I saw a boy and a girl together.

Later, another boy who had an ambiguous relationship with her, this boy said to her: "When I come next time, you will definitely feel that you have gained happiness", Zhang Haidi waited like this, waited, a few years passed, the boy's "next time" still did not come, he went to the field, a few years later, he sent back a letter, the letter said that he was married.

At the age of the beginning of the love sinus, she successively met several "wrong people", which made Zhang Haidi more inferior, at the same time, the dream of the girlhood in her heart was more intense, she longed for love, longed for one, could ignore the world's eyes, can see the beauty of her heart, and regarded her as the love of her life, and soon this "good person" appeared, he was Wang Zuoliang.

In fact, in the early days, Wang Zuoliang did not meet Zhang Haidi, he knew about this self-improvement girl from the "People's Daily" report, was deeply moved, and also fell in love with her. Through friends to contact Zhang Haidi, the two began a long-term correspondence, contact more, Wang Zuoliang more like this disabled girl, and Zhang Haidi also felt his love, but also liked this clean heart "good person", they are together.

In 1982, Wang Zuoliang and Zhang Haidi married, their marriage seemed a bit "sloppy", not even a wedding, and later talked about this, Zhang Haidi said, "I didn't know how far we could go on one road, love needs to be tested in time, marriage is even more so."

Wang Zuoliang, originally from Shanghai, later planted seedlings in Anhui, came to Shandong for Zhang Haidi, and later the two lived in Jinan's famous "Mingshi Building", which is dedicated to solving housing problems for those well-known people.

In 1991, Zhang Haidi was diagnosed with cancer, accompanied by Wang Zuoliang, she came to Zhongshan Hospital for surgery, the operation is risky, before entering the operating room, she said to Wang Zuoliang, "If I survive, of course, I am very lucky... I told my friends that if I die, ask them to find you a healthy, better woman than me."

Later, of course, the operation was successful, when Zhang Haidi was pushed out, Wang Zuoliang directly rushed up, seeing the blood stains on Zhang Haidi's bandages, Wang Zuoliang cried bitterly, Zhang Haidi comforted him and said, "If in the war years, you are definitely a traitor, why do you scare you like this when I do an operation." ”

In Zhang Haidi's view, Wang Zuoliang is the one who "he is the one in my girl's dream", Wang Zuoliang has no hobbies, in addition to doing learning, he is doing housework, cleaning and washing clothes, everything is very good, the only "bad" is that he can't cook, the two either eat instant noodles, or rub their parents' meals.

They lived in the Baume & Mercier Building for eighteen years, during which time they rarely went out, and after they had dinner with their parents in the evening, they watched the news together, and then the husband and wife returned to the study, and one person and one corner began to study and write, and the cycle began, night after night.

They are indeed a little tired in the study every day, but Zhang Haidi does not like to go out, so he let Wang Zuoliang push her around the house, Wang Haidi said, just when we went to the park, where do you say we are now? At this time, Wang Zuoliang would say that we were only less than halfway there. The truth is, they haven't been to the park once.

They had lived in Jinan for nearly twenty years, rarely going out, and in such a small study, the two of them walked all over the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, talking about the past and the future. The two rely on each other and have gone through decades of married life. Unfortunately, Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Haidi do not have children of their own.

In order to make up for this regret, Zhang Haidi raised a dog and named it Bench. However, after being accompanied by the bench for a while, he still passed away. For the future, Wang Zuoliang said that he would take care of his toiling wife while doing academic work, and then the two of them would raise their children together. It can be seen from this that Zhang Haidi is so happy!

Zhang Haidi and Wang Zuoliang are very good people, and they have overcome each other's shortcomings and difficulties, support each other through dozens of Spring and Autumn, and play a harmonious love movement. Zhang Haidi is under such physical conditions, with personal extraordinary perseverance, hard work and personal wisdom, and finally strive to reach the peak of his career and harvest happy love, which is really a proper winner in life!

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