In our lives, there will always be all kinds of problems, some people can easily resolve, smooth and even happy to the end of life; some people are stumbled by difficult problems, struggling, and even give up the right to continue to move forward.
Born after the 80s, Zhang Haidi who appeared in the textbook is certainly not unfamiliar, at that time ignorant youth, Zhang Haidi is the embodiment of the specific spiritual belief, she is the realistic version of Paul Kochakin, our childhood and adolescence are deeply influenced by Zhang Haidi. Thirty years later, what happened to Zhang Haidi now? Why is Zhang Haidi mentioned less and less now?
We read from the textbooks about Zhang Haidi's tenacity and bravery, saw her wisdom and open-mindedness in her speech, and saw self-confidence and peace in her smile, but we did not expect that this woman who appeared in various publications with a smile at all times experienced not only nine deaths, but the greatest ordeal that ordinary people could hardly imagine and accept.
1. Lesion paraplegia
Zhang Haidi was born in a Kochi family, her parents are intellectuals in the 30s and 40s, her birth brought countless laughs to this small family, but all this beauty came to an abrupt end when Zhang Haidi was five years old.
Zhang Haidi, who often cried out in pain at the age of 5, was taken by his parents to the largest hospital in Jinan for examination, and finally confirmed that it was a bone marrow hemangioma, which had begun to develop when it was found. Later, accompanied by her parents, Zhang Haidi traveled to hospitals around the world to seek the best treatment.
But the miracle did not appear, when other children ran and laughed at the same age, Zhang Haidi experienced life and death, and finally two-thirds of her body was unconscious, and the bed was the only space she had during that period. The little girl in the hospital bed is more sensitive.
Zhang Haide recalled the time just after the operation, the physical discomfort, pain, so that she could not be separated from the company of her family for a minute, but also there will be urinary incontinence, every time she sees her mother hard to clean up her body, she feels ashamed and sad, and the sky is always bleak.
This life lasted until 1970, a year in which Zhang Haidi's parents suffered a major setback. In the special historical background at that time, Zhang Haidi's parents, who were intellectuals, were sent to the countryside and began a career of "transformation", and Zhang Haidi, as their only daughter, went together.
At that time, many relatives and friends were wiping a sweat for this family, there were better medical conditions in Jinan, Zhang Haidi's physical recovery was not very good, if he went to the countryside, his parents needed to work in the field, so how to ensure the health of the paralyzed Zhang Haidi? No one expected that this long trip changed the trajectory of Zhang Haidi's life.
2, a different sky
Zhang Haidi, who grew up in the city, did not expect to see so many different pictures in the countryside.
She had thought about living a difficult life in the countryside, but she did not expect to see a peasant here with her face facing the loess and the sky, and she was ecstatic because of the few words she had inadvertently taught. Curiosity was the greatest hope she had ever seen in this barren land.
In the countryside, children have no teachers, and when adults go to work in the fields, they are always wild, but the children are kind and innocent, they see Zhang Haidi sitting alone in a wheelchair, willing to chat with this sister. So, an idea came into being.
Zhang Haidi proposed to his parents the idea of volunteering to teach their children to read and recognize, which was praised and recognized by their parents. Zhang Haidi carefully prepared the lesson, she went deep and simple, storytelling teaching methods, let the children wander in the ocean of knowledge; without a music teacher, Zhang Haidi taught herself music and became a music teacher.
Under Zhang Haidi's professor, the children in the village were literate, and several changed their fate by taking the exam after the college entrance examination was resumed. In addition, Zhang Haidi also taught himself medical skills, learned acupuncture, and helped villagers see a doctor. In the eyes of the villagers, Zhang Haidi is a very good girl.
However, Zhang Haidi knows very well that it is the sincerity of this land and the kindness of the people that makes her feel her own value, she is no longer depressed because of her mutilated body, no longer self-abandonment, she must work hard to help more people.
3. Disabled
Even if he only has a pair of hands that can move, Zhang Haidi has not given up the idea of learning. She began to teach herself English and read foreign literature, after which she began to translate, millions of words of literary works, so that more readers can appreciate foreign literature, but also let Zhang Haidi's fame increase greatly.
When many readers know that these sunny words come from a woman who has been paralyzed for many years, people's surprise and admiration are too full to fit, so more and more people know Zhang Haidi. However, Zhang Haidi hopes to live as low as possible, because in her view, she still has a lot of things to do, and there are still many dreams that have not been realized.
Now Zhang Haidi is the president of the Chinese Disabled Persons' Federation, the president of the Paralympic Games, enjoying state subsidies, her husband is considerate and patient, Zhang Haidi frankly said that it is her husband's company that has made her girl's dream come true.
Zhang Haidi, who seems to have a double harvest of career love, has not stopped his pace of progress. Not long ago, she also passed the driver's license test for the disabled, becoming the first disabled person in China to obtain a driver's license, and it is no longer a dream to realize freedom of the road.
However, people also find that Zhang Haidi is becoming more and more distant, she no longer appears frequently at various small meetings of the conference, and we can only understand through a few words about her reports that this behavior that seems to be deliberately diluting propaganda is out of Zhang Haidi's will, or is it the inevitable result of social progress?
The 66-year-old Zhang Haidi is still the most perfect textbook learning model in the face of difficulties, but there is a reason for her fading out.
From a certain point of view, Zhang Haidi's self-esteem is definitely stronger than others, after experiencing hardships, she only wants to enjoy the moment calmly and help more people in need, especially in recent years, many netizens suspect that Zhang Haidi has joined a foreign nationality.
Zhang Haidi was overwhelmed, personally came out to clarify this kind of baseless black material, but in the end did not calm the jealousy in some people's hearts, and finally, Zhang Haidi let herself try to keep a low profile, she understood that the sharp edge is too obvious, in fact, it is not a good thing. Being serious and doing everything well is the most important thing.