The circle of friends set "three days visible" people, not general, nine times out of ten are these types of people

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In recent years, WeChat has gradually entered our lives. Chatting on WeChat and sharing your thoughts and ideas in the circle of friends has gradually become the daily operation of modern people.

In the circle of friends, there is such a function - setting the circle of friends for a few days is visible.

Some people are not afraid of anything, and want to show others their full picture, then they choose to be completely visible. And some people don't want others to see the whole picture, so they choose to see it for half a year. Of course, setting the most recent month visible is also the choice of some people.

The most confusing thing is probably those who set "three days visible". What does this mean by letting people see your circle of friends, but also not letting people see your circle of friends completely?

It can only be said that setting up three days of visible behavior is a particularly "contradictory" approach.

According to the average person's idea, either I let you see it completely, or I directly closed the circle of friends and did not let you peep. Acts of compromise like this seem to be a bit "outlier".

It can be said that the more heterogeneous the phenomenon, the more people will have a curious psychology, what are these people?

I think that the circle of friends set up three days to see the people, nine times out of ten are these types of people.

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The first type of person: "polite" social people.

In the social arena, there is such a word, called "politeness". That is to say, everything I do is for the purpose of "courtesy", no matter who I am, I cannot be offended, but I am not flattered.

To put it bluntly, it is "going through the motions".

Once met such a person, he rarely sent a circle of friends, basically a few months to send one, but he is set up "three days to see". In his own words, it is polite and polite, so why reveal so much to others?

The circle of friends is just a space to record the trajectory of personal daily life, open to others, which is not a matter of you and me. The setting of three days visible is the choice of the individual after considering the profit and loss.

Many people think that it is better to set up three days to be visible than not to set, what is the point of this?

The meaning is that if you don't set it up at all, you will be told that you don't know how to be a person, you don't know how to interact with people, and you don't know how to deal with others. And a little setting is just respect for others in the "scene".

It can only be said that people who are accustomed to polite social interaction tend to do the ultimate in superficial kung fu.

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The second type of person: people who want to hide their secrets.

As the saying goes: "The parrot has many words in front of it, and the villain must be cautious around him!" ”

In front of the parrot, we should not say so much, lest the parrot learn our words. In front of the villain, we should not speak at will, and prudence in words and deeds is the king.

Offline, we must have the principle of prudence in words and deeds, and online, even in our own circle of friends, we must also have the principle of prudence in words and deeds. Because this is the foundation of ordinary people's "survival".

People, always talking too much, or showing their secrets "at a glance", is not a good thing, it is precisely the beginning of trouble.

There are some people in life who look at other people's circle of friends when there is nothing to do, and gossip about what others have done. In particular, some people who have ideas about you and have bad intentions are more accustomed to attacking your circle of friends.

Sometimes, the person who sets up three days of visibility is not an outlier, but a shrewd person who "preserves" himself. You can look at things within these three days, but you can't look at things that have happened in the past. And all these things that can be seen will also fade with time, and no one will ever see them again.

This is the wise choice of ordinary people.

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The third type of people: people who don't like to be lively.

Why would a person open up all of his circle of friends? One reason is to hope that others can understand themselves, and the other reason is to hope that the circle of friends can be lively.

For the hilarity, in fact, this is the pursuit of most people. Especially people in the group, in order to satisfy their self-esteem, they want to be lively; in order to make their circle of friends more popular, they also want to be lively.

The source of the hilarity is that you open the circle of friends and others see it, so that there is an opportunity and space for mutual discussion.

On the contrary, those who do not love to be lively often close the circle of friends. I will send a "three-day visible" circle of friends, whether others see it or not, the time has passed, then forget it, do not provoke the prying eyes of others, provoke too much trouble.

Especially in today's era of complex human nature and impetuous people's hearts, all the "hilarity" needs to be paid by people. At this time, choosing to be an outlier and not loving to be lively can often save yourself.

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The fourth type of person: people who fade out of the circle of friends.

In the first few years when the circle of friends first appeared, many people were particularly interested, and felt that sharing their lives in it was a style and trend.

However, some things are done too much, people feel tired, and at the same time feel that there is no meaning.

Eating with people is a truth. If you eat the same dish every day, then if you eat too much, you will feel tasteless, and even "nausea" will appear.

The circle of friends sent more, it felt like that, no big deal. Gradually, people rarely send circles of friends, or even fade out of the circle of friends.

Nowadays, there are too many people who fade out of the circle of friends. In their opinion, I don't want to know your life, and I don't want you to know my life. In this way, "three days visible" can be.

Respect yourself and respect others, that's all.

Wen/Shushan has deer