If you want a man to love you addictively, women have to learn to be appropriately cold

When a woman encounters love, it is easy to fall into love and finally lose herself. Whether it's in our lives or in the TV series we often watch, we can see this situation.

Perhaps at the beginning when women are pursued by men, they are very cold and arrogant, but once the relationship is confirmed, women will be very serious about managing this love and fantasizing about the future of the two.

Zhu Yaoxie once said: "In terms of love, women may be very strong, or they may be very cowardly." Either she loves others or accepts the love of others, and once she is in love, she will be willing to obey if she is ordered to drill into the fire. ”

Although this kind of behavior of women is very common, it is also a common human feeling, but in a love, if a woman loses her mind to love, without self-thought to manage a love, it is difficult to get a partner who is compatible with each other.

Because in the hearts of many men, they all have such an idea, that is, "what is not obtained is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear." "If a man easily gets a love, and in this love, women will take the initiative to sacrifice a lot of things, will often consider for men, over time, men will not cherish this feeling, and will not care about women's thoughts."

Joe Byron said, "Love is nothing but an external thing to a man, but to a woman is a whole life." ”

Since in a woman's heart, love is very important, then when encountering love, women should try to maintain their own sanity and use the best state to manage a relationship. If you are too enthusiastic about love, or are used to giving without hesitation and taking the initiative to sacrifice everything you have, the result is often counterproductive.

In love, women should remember that if they want a man to love you addicted, they must learn to be appropriately cold and learn to hide their enthusiasm.

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To love someone according to the regulations, this love is difficult to last.

When encountering love, we often feel that since two people really love each other and want to go down together, they should not calculate personal gains and losses, let alone who pays more and who pays less.

It is precisely because they are surrounded by such ideas, so in the hearts of women, what they care about is often love, and they will also feel that as long as they do well enough and pay more, men must be able to see, feel her heart, and cherish this feeling.

If a woman thinks like this in her heart, it is difficult for this love to have a good ending. Montaigne said, "Whoever loves according to the rules will not receive love." ”

In many people's marriages, we can see such a phenomenon, that is, the more gentle and virtuous, the more understanding women, often not so happy in married life. On the contrary, those families who are idle and many things need to be completed by husband and wife together, life is happier, and the relationship between husband and wife is more solid.

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In love, the more enthusiastic a woman's attitude is, the more cold a man's attitude becomes.

It is difficult for two people who love each other to be evenly matched, and to do this, it is necessary to balance the relationship between the two well. And in most love, love is actually a form of you strong and weak. The more enthusiastic a woman is, the more she gives, the more she gets as much as she wants, and she often encounters disappointments.

On the contrary, those happy women are often the one who enjoys in love. As long as the relationship is stable, even if the man pays more, this love will be happy and beautiful.

Roh Herrick said, "Fanatical love will never last." ”

Since love is stronger than you and I am weak, the more enthusiastic a woman is, the more cold the man's attitude will eventually become. As long as men grasp the hearts of women, their hearts will also be clear, even if they do not pay so much, women will not easily leave them.

03 Women are appropriately cold, but they will make men addicted.

Valery said, "It's impossible to 'love' someone or something you absolutely know." Love is always led to places where secrets are hidden. ”

When a man thoroughly understands a woman's mind, it is difficult to be infatuated with this woman all the time. For men, the woman they will always love deeply must be the woman who can often give men a sense of freshness, maintain their own sense of mystery, and make it difficult for men to fully guess their minds.

Knowing this, women must understand that if you want a man to love you addicted, you must learn to keep your own mystery and have your own secrets. To do this, women have to learn to be appropriately cold, not to show too much enthusiasm, and to fully expose their secrets to men.

Marlinsky said: "Inexperienced first love is charming, but love that can stand the test is priceless." ”

Good love is not only charming, but also testable. Only when men are addicted to women, this love will always go on firmly, and men will take the initiative to spend their minds for women and will manage this love well.