"Today, are you Liu Qihong?" While working out together, you may wish to learn his parenting scriptures

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Liu Qihong was on fire

It's still a mess

Since he was quarantined at home in Shanghai, he launched the live broadcast of fat burning gymnastics on time five days a week, making him a "phenomenon-level" blogger in the live broadcasting industry.

The simple and easy-to-learn aerobics have triggered the whole network to follow the trend:

It turned out that everyone met and said to each other, "Did you do nucleic acid today?" ”

Now the greeting to meet has changed to

"Today, are you Liu Qihong?"

But before that, Liu's well-known label was...

Jay Chou's good friend

and

Little Puff's Dad

Especially in the "Where Does Daddy Go" program, Liu Qihong and his daughter Xiao Puff Circle fans are countless, and they cooperate with tacit understanding, even if they encounter difficulties, they will easily get it done.

At that time, some netizens bluntly said that Liu Qihong's ability to take a baby was really fantastic and worth learning from all fathers.

When participating in the show, although Little Puff is only 4 years old, she is not afraid of hardship, not only well-behaved but also warm-hearted, she will express her emotions very accurately, which really makes netizens envious.

If you think that Liu Ruihong just brought a small puff, it is a big mistake, because the other two children he also brought very well.

Today, let's not talk about fitness,

Instead, let's talk about Liu Ruihong's parenting experience.

Instead of teaching children to succeed, it is better to teach children to be kind

A few days ago, the entry #Liu Qihong's son had long hair for three years rushed to Weibo's hot search. Many netizens exclaimed, and thought that Liu Qihong's family was three daughters!

Although, the faces of Liu Qihong and his wife's three babies look like "copy and paste". But Yu Eun, who once had a long hair and is now in front of the public, is indeed a boy.

That day they told the story behind their son's long hair for three years during the live broadcast...

It turned out that Liu Qihong and his wife often took their children to do charity, so the eldest son Yu En also always thought that it was right to help the weak.

Once, when he met a homeless man on the street, Yu Eun wanted to ask his mother for money to donate. Wang Wanfei feels that directly giving money to her son to donate to others cannot make her son truly appreciate the meaning of "help" or the meaning of "giving".

So she suggested that Yu Eun could do what she could and experience the joy of trying to help others. Therefore, the project of long hair donation for children with cancer was selected. Yu Eun readily agreed and began to grow long hair.

In the three years of growing his hair, Yu Eun also experienced a lot of incomprehension and ridicule.

While swimming, he was considered by his aunt to be a girl who laughed at him for being "shameless", and was asked to leave the men's toilet to go to the women's toilet, etc.

These things made Yu En feel aggrieved, and he also had the idea of not wanting to insist on it anymore, but he insisted on it with the encouragement of Liu Qihong and his wife.

In November 2020, Yu Eun finally donated the long hair he had left for many years.

A Wharton professor once gave parents this advice:

Instead of teaching children to succeed, it is better to teach children to be kind.

Cultivating children's courageous persistence and kindness qualities is indeed a big test for parents. This requires parents to set an example, to guide them wisely, and to have a little "fierce heart".

In this regard, Liu Qihong and his wife are undoubtedly wise.

Many parents always want to give their children what they think is the best, so the way they love their children is to do their best to fight for expensive educational resources for their children.

In fact, the values of parents are the best educational resources for children. Because the values of parents largely determine the child's present and future.

Teach by example and be an example for your children

At the end of each live broadcast, there is a "Liu Yan Fei" session, and they encourage every audience with sincere words:

"Hold on, don't give up, you're the best!" You'll see the effect! ”

This infects people, both physically and mentally.

In an interview with Xinhua News Agency reporter Liu Qihong was also asked whether he would continue after the heat, Liu Qihong responded that the best thing is to insist, a word made people touched and full of positive energy, he said that he did not have to go to my live broadcast room, can go outdoors to the outdoors, to enjoy their lives.

It is their persistence and positive energy that not only spread to the audience in the live broadcast room, but also deeply affected their children.

It is said that parents are the first teachers of children, and children are also a "mirror" of parents, and Liu And his wife know this well.

On a variety show, Liu Lihong once told his story in the form of a speech about his journey from not wanting children to becoming an "imperfect" father.

"I was working out at home, and he (the eldest son, Yu Eun), followed me, learned my movements and exercised with me, whether it was me singing, playing the piano, playing guitar, dancing, he would imitate. I found that what I said and did affected his personality and behavior, and I had to be a model! ”

Some parents are elite in the workplace, always bright and well-behaved, but when they return home, they are lazy and sloppy, and even often shout. Although home is the most relaxing place for people, it is not known that these behaviors of parents are in the eyes of children, no matter how high the achievements outside, children see their parents at home.

In fact, from the moment we become parents, we are subtly influencing the growth of children, so parents must always remind themselves, "You are the child's role model", pay attention to their own words and deeds, face the child in the best state, and guide the healthy growth of the child with words and deeds.

Don't be an "invisible" dad

We all know that the father's position in family education is very important.

Because the father cannot just be a family role that provides material conditions for the family, but should take the time to set a good example for the child, provide the child with a sense of security, and lead the child to explore the world together.

As the psychologist Fromm said:

Fathers are the ones who educate their children and show them the way to the world.

Liu Lihong knows the importance of father to the growth of children, so he has been working hard to be a father who belongs to the family, not an "invisible" father.

Many people say that they are too busy at work and have no time to spend with their children. In this regard, Liu Qihong said: "As long as you want to do it, you can definitely do it." And, it doesn't have to be a lot of time, but it has to be quality. ”

Colleagues knew that as soon as he returned home, he should never call him unless it was a matter of great urgency. Because the moment he enters the house, he will put down his mobile phone and spend time with the baby. In order to accompany the baby, he resolutely abandoned the gym and took the baby to work out at home.

Although Liu Lihong spends far less time with his children than his wife, it is precisely because of his special efforts that the children love him. The children regard Liu Qihong as their own role model, in the eyes of the children, he is handsome and hardworking, hard working and caring for the family.

As we saw on the show, his daughter Little Puff always admired him and thought that Dad was the best, and her favorite words were: "Daddy, I love you so much." ”

The best family education is that dad loves mom

In Liu Qihong's Weibo, he records his wife's love, and in the article "20 Years of an Ordinary Couple..." that is at the top of the Xiaohongshu, he can see his gratitude and understanding for his wife's dedication to the whole family.

It is based on this understanding and gratitude that he tolerates all of his wife's behavior, the family is full of laughter because of love, and the family is thriving because of laughter.

Family therapy specialist Satya once said:

Husbands and wives are the architects of the family, and the loving family of parents is like a warm nest, giving the child enough security.

Liu Qihong knows that if you want to be a good parent, you must first be a good partner, in short, the best family education is that dad loves mom.

Many parents feel that the relationship between them will not affect their children. But in fact, the mode of getting along between parents will directly affect the child's cognition of intimate relationships.

In order to create a "loving" family environment for children, Liu Qihong and his wife Wang Wanfei never hesitate to express their love for each other in front of their children, and even call each other their treasures.

Occasionally, when the children jealously said that they were the treasures of their parents and mothers, Liu Ruihong would patiently tell the children:

"Of course you are our baby, but Dad and Mom are going to go hand in hand for a lifetime." When you grow up, you will also have your own lover, separated from your parents and go down with him. ”

It can be seen that it is precisely because of the harmonious relationship between parents that Liu Qihong's children will develop a good character and have the ability to love others and enjoy being loved.

No one is born to be a parent.

As Liu Saidhong said in his speech, "Although I am not perfect, I am willing to work hard to learn to change, and I believe that I will become better." ”

Good family education is a two-way rush, is the common growth of parents and children.

I hope that parents can be like Liu Qihong and his wife, in the common growth with their children, continue to learn, positive guidance of children, choose their good and follow it, take love as the starting point, teach by example, and water the child's growth path with patience and companionship.

Part of the source: Nine Schools of Education One Good Teacher Education Reader

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Editor: Zhang Qiuying

Editor: Liu Zhijun

Editor: Hao Bin

Final Judgement: Wang Yu, Su Jinzhu, Bao Danhe

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