Are you a "Liu Ruihong Girl"?
Liu Qihong, who recently exploded, must be no stranger to everyone. In fact, not only "Liu Qihong Girl", but even "Liu Qihong Boy" have appeared.
Liu Qihong, who is isolated at home in Shanghai, is nearly 50 years old, and he is quickly out of the circle because of teaching netizens fitness.
Some people say: Liu Qihong's action explanation is very detailed and professional, avoiding his own injurious exercise;
Some people say: The movements taught by Liu Qihong can burn fat all over the body, and adults and children are suitable, suitable for the whole family to exercise;
Some people also say: Because of the isolation, I can even accept the guidance of more than 100,000 personal trainers for free, and make a lot of money!
All right, but Guo Mama also wants to say: Liu Qihong's parenting is the ceiling of the parenting world!
The first time I knew Liu Qihong was when he took Little Puff to participate in the variety show "Where Did Daddy Go". In that issue, Guo Mama originally went to see Chen Xiaochun, but she was fanned by Liu Qihong.
It can be seen from the live fitness broadcast that Liu Qihong is very attentive, and the explanation of some action details is very in place, and he will also "correct homework". It's just that what's more attentive than doing fitness is his parenting style. Therefore, I would like to take this opportunity to talk about the topic of "father parenting".
01 Be a "high quality" dad
Moms and Dads, try asking their children, "What does your dad like to do?" "Look at how your child answered.
I saw a teacher ask the class students what Dad likes to do.
Smoking, working overtime, playing on mobile phones, playing games, going to the toilet, drinking, etc., these answers accounted for the majority. When the children answered, the look in their eyes was painful, some unhappy, some indifferent, some disgusted.
One of the boys and 2 girls replied, "Dad likes to play with me." ”
At that time, there was a netizen's comment in the comment area that was eye-catching: Children with high-quality accompaniment from their fathers, when it comes to their fathers, there are stars in their eyes!
How can a father, as one of the child's closest relatives, be absent?
How to be a good "high-quality" father is a compulsory course for every father.
Guo Mama watched "Where Daddy Went 5" has a particularly impressive clip, the program team arranged to choose a house, Liu Qihong and Xiao Puff are the worst "sea view rooms".
The house that the father and daughter found for the first time was Chen Xiaochun and Jasper's, and the second time they found it, it became Wu Zun's. Eventually, they finally found their own "sea view house": the smallest, farthest, and most broken house.
Liu Qihong said to the little puff, "That's the lucky house." ”
I don't say it to be in front of the camera. Because when she didn't find her house again and again, little puff didn't cry and insisted on continuing to walk with her father. It was only when he observed that the little puff was tired, thirsty and hot, and the smile on his face gradually disappeared, that Liu Qihong used the "lucky house" to comfort his daughter.
The effect was good, and the little puff was strong and brave to continue to move forward. Liu Qihong's education has taught Little Puff to face it optimistically.
Unlike many entertainment stars, Liu Feels That As Long As You Want to Do It, You Can Do It. The company he gives to his children is really high quality.
Under his influence, his three children also liked fitness.
In addition, he will also accompany the child to get close to nature and participate in the growth of the child!
The father's parenting style can encourage the child to face the outside world alone, and when encountering difficulties, the child can show strong endurance and repair.
"Low-quality, missing" fatherly love will make the boy feel that the father can be missing, and when the boy grows up, he will repeat the role of his father;
"Low quality, missing" father's love will make girls lack a healthy "opposite sex view", easy to lack courage, easy to get along with the opposite sex when they grow up, easy to worry, future objects, easy to meet scumbags, and not good at handling family relationships.
"High-quality" paternal love is one of the important factors in a child's future happiness.
02 Being a quality partner is more important than being a good father
Friends said that she danced with Liu Ruihong for 1 hour a day, and there were still half an hour left, and she was "reluctant" to close the live broadcast room, and would wait until they broadcast it themselves.
Isn't that hard to understand?
In fact, friends are learning how to get along with their husbands and wives. A friend said: "Their husband and wife have been married for so many years, Wang Wanfei's eyes are always smiling and bright. ”
Liu Qihong was on fire and also had a lot to do with his wife Wang Wanfei. The couple in the live broadcast room, not only teach fitness, but also, they convey a "positive" positive energy, from time to time will show love.
My friend's husband said to his friend, "If you are like Liu Qihong's wife, smiling every day, I will be happy." This sentence made my friend particularly upset.
However, the management of marriage can only rely on women's change and understanding?
In fact, marriage is mutually accomplished, not only to gain, but also to pay and change.
The love between Liu Qihong and Wang Wanfei seems romantic, Wang Wanfei, as a Miss Universe, does not abandon him, even when he is so poor that he is reluctant to sit on the 1 yuan bus, Wang Wanfei did not leave him.
It's just that, like many men, he has also ignored this woman who does not abandon him.
One day, Liu Qihong suddenly found his own problem in a photo: when friends gathered, he was always with his friends, while Wang Wanfei always shrank in the corner. Even if he is ignored by himself, he never complains about himself.
For his behavior of only treating Wang Wanfei as an "appendage", he suddenly woke up.
Then, the road of "spoiling the wife" began.
The feelings between two people, a word, an action, a look, a smile, can be seen. But this tacit understanding and emotion, what is needed is that the two people are constantly close to each other and operate each other.
Emerson said: The family is the kingdom of the father, the world of the mother, the paradise of the child.
If the father does not protect and manage his kingdom well, then the mother will lose the whole world, the paradise of the child, and will no longer be happy.
Parental love is the best education for children, which is not false at all.
03 Staying "Awake on Earth"
How many people, after an overnight hit, "floated"?
I feel that I have reached the peak of my life and can deserve better. It's just, what's the best?
For the explosion of popularity, the reporter of the news agency asked him: The popularity is so strong, so popular, so explosive, what do you feel?
Liu Ruihong replied: "I am already at the peak of my life, I have three children, a wife who loves me, and healthy parents, isn't this my peak?" ”
Yes, he already has a kingdom of his own, and what could be more proud than that?
Sober Liu Qihong in the world.
Some people have lived all their lives and may not understand this truth.
Most people who understand this truth early will live happier! They know how to cherish the family, cherish the other half, and they are more willing to spend their minds on parenting.
How is the family that Dad is running with his heart unhappy?
How can the children that dads use their hearts to educate are not excellent?
So, dads, really come back to family!