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True friends are not to accompany you when you are successful, to accompany you to enjoy the glory and wealth, but to be able to not abandon you when you fail, and to be willing to give and help when you are lonely.
Friendship is voluntary giving, can bring laughter when you cry, soothe your heart when you are afraid, bring joy, wonder and fun to your life, and create a world for young and twilight people that have never been seen before.
True friends
The female psychologist has such a passage: True friends are not compliments on each other, but the courage to know each other in times of trouble; true friends are standing up when they are lonely, they are sincerely giving each other the strongest applause, not jealous of each other, and growing up to be a better self together.
Good friendship is to see through each other's vulnerability and vulnerability, still willing to hug each other, thousands of people passing by, people who come and go, he knows your feelings best.
The city is full of red and green lights, returning to the quiet place, the lights are dimmed, still talking with you about wine, and promoting knee-length conversations.
The three views are consistent
In thousands of worlds, we choose friends by the same measure.
On the surface, we may often quarrel and quarrel, but people who do not agree with the basic three views cannot become good friends.
So you don't have to worry about you being friends with someone who thinks differently from you.
You can urge the knees to put wine or join hands, real friends must be in line with you in the three views, just the so-called Tao is different and does not conspire, the so-called friendship is also this meaning.
For your sake
True friends have no selfish intentions, think about what you think, real friends will stand in your point of view to think about problems, is another you in another space. People don't have such friends all their lives, and it is not easy to meet three or two confidants.
The so-called friend value, friendship forgiveness, friendly smell. He has something to say, sees your problems, shortcomings and mistakes, and can tell you that the greatest trust between people is the trust of words.
True friends will not say flattering words to please you, but will say some contrarian advice. He understands that true friends are the ones who can bravely point out your mistakes when you are wrong, and make suggestions for corrections, so that you can become better and better.
Be yourself
True friends don't laugh at your weakness, and you don't have to pretend to be strong.
You don't need to drive a luxury car, hide your inner poverty by showing off in front of your friends, and you don't need to cover up your ignorance by using an unfathomable rhetoric to talk in front of your friends.
In the presence of true friends, we don't need to wear masks, we just need to have God-given sincerity and Heaven-given sincerity.
good fences make good neighbors
People who applaud you in times of glory and wait silently when they are lonely are all friends worthy of our deep friendship.
True friends, understand your difficulties, have a sense of proportion when they are with you, respect you and tolerate you, will not be difficult for others, can sing with you wine, and can also discuss the world with you.
Just as the so-called gentleman's friendship is as light as water, if you become famous, I will not climb with the trend, I will stand in the corner and applaud you. If you fail, I will encourage you, I will reach out and grasp you, and I will not abandon or give up on you.
You are always better than others in my place.
Author: Wu Zhen
Anchor: Joey
Photo: Wen Ting
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