For everyone, feelings are an indispensable part of life, and this period can be said to be bumpy.
I used to like "one person" and now I like "one person", "I have to say that the Chinese words are broad and profound", and a simple sentence can explain multiple meanings. I don't know how many people, like the author, have met a person, left a person, and been alone, still thinking about a person in their hearts.
I have heard people say that people will have about three opportunities to contact love in this life. Together at first, they are ignorant, simple likes, an unforgettable, but there is no end, and a plain, tea rice oil and salt love.
I also like the saying that "it is better to be single than to be single" and the weather at this time is also very unusual. It was raining lightly outside, and others were waiting for umbrellas, while I was waiting for the rain to stop.
When I like you, the air carries a hint of sweetness, and when I love you, I have this non-repetitive surprise every day. It's as if you're the first sip of ice cream in the summer, the sweetest spoonful of watermelon, and fluoxetine (an antidepressant) that I can't live without. And now, you are the pain in my heart, the whispers after drunkenness, the tossing and turning in the middle of the night, and I can no longer touch it.
Nowadays, my insomnia alone, the space of one person and the thought of another, the picture of two people is frozen in my mind, so that time slowly sanitize. Heartbreak on the ground, perhaps on our list is a "stranger" who knows each other but does not connect. But you don't want to delete it, and you won't mention it to anyone, but you also know that she still exists in a corner of your heart, and occasionally thinks of it, but it only exists in your occasional thought.
It's like mentioning in Gu Cheng's "Avoidance" that "you don't want to plant flowers, you say, I don't want to see it wither a little bit." Yes, in order to avoid the end, you avoid the beginning of everything. "It's like now that I've finally learned to protect, I'm no longer going to let my fragile heart wreak havoc at will." Because a person can truly experience the pain of loss as long as he has had it, I choose not to love at will, and I no longer choose to have illusory feelings again. It was as if this failed relationship had given me a superpower, which was: I would no longer actively like someone!
With the maturity of age, slowly have become accustomed to a person, a person to work, a person to work, a person to eat, once saw such an interesting street test on the Internet, what can you afford to live alone to do? I remember: eating, reading, shopping, traveling, etc. There are many things that a person can do in life, although it seems lonely, but many people have now slowly become accustomed to a person's "life".
And I am also used to commuting alone, quietly in a daze in the park, walking on the street when I am alone, quietly enjoying the time of a person, in the eyes of others, I will feel that this person is so lonely, but I enjoy the comfortable loneliness.
It is not that they do not like two people, no one likes to be alone, who does not want to have a person who can accompany themselves forever, boo cold and warm, when sad there is a companion who can chat together, happy when they share this "joy".
When we are young, we will like a person, we will not be able to suppress sharing happy times with people, our mouths will always think of him, we will always miss him, we will always miss him, we will be eager to become a conjoined baby forever, in addition to feelings, we will also find someone to share when we encounter things, spitting, good and bad at the same time to tell their own experience.
"Solitude! In fact, if you want to find a better state of life, you don't completely depend on the perfection of others. Settling ourselves is an ability that allows us to regain our inner strength and embrace life in a new way, when we are alone, but quiet and abundant.
As "Settling One's Time" says: A life alone can be bland, boring, stagnant, or a fulfilling, wonderful, and exciting adventure. So no need to miss, no need to insomnia, a person is very good!
Because of this, the longer the time of slow experience, slowly our hearts will become more and more powerful, slowly from being afraid of loneliness to being able to bear loneliness, slowly becoming strong enough to not need the company of others, and sometimes because they are mature and sensible, know not to bother others at will, and understand that everyone has their own things to be busy with.
We like a person because we are used to that person, and we like a person because our minds have matured a lot. Life is far more aggrieved than we imagined, and each of us is far more powerful than we imagined, experienced more, and slowly we will eventually become the powerful object that made us once envious, who used to like a person, and now like a person.
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