In the mother group, there are often different people who talk about supervising the child's homework to write to collapse, accompanying the child to write homework is equivalent to playing with life, accompanying the child to write homework is equal to experiencing disasters, some parents are angry with high blood pressure, and have heart disease and also commit directly entering the hospital.
Some children are more lively and active, often encounter problems when writing homework, often ask others for help, or write homework halfway through writing, will go to the living room to find something to eat, and will secretly watch TV for a while. As a result, the child did not finish his homework until eight or nine o'clock.
Some mothers urge their children to write homework, and find that the same mistakes are often made by children, and after teaching, they are still wrong. The mother feels that the child is too careless, or the repeated teaching does not change and is dizzy, and even hits the hand.
How do mothers who don't accompany homework educate their children?
Such a thing, children often commit in the family, what good way can parents avoid such bad habits of children?
Some mothers have mastered the essentials when accompanying them, not only making themselves less anxious, but also being able to complete their homework independently and their grades are rapid.
1. Let go and guide the child to sort out the learning task by himself, and prepare a special homework book for the child, so that the child can complete it one by one and then cross it out, so as to effectively avoid the child's bad habit of losing everything. Some children suddenly remembered before going to bed that they had not finished their homework and had to get up and do their homework.
2. Parents let children complete the homework according to the difficulty after listing the homework that needs to be completed, and the homework can be completed according to the degree of difficulty in advance, the child is from simple to complex, and the child who is afraid of difficulties can also actively do homework.
The child himself can make a difference by marking different marks according to the actual situation. Sticking to this will allow parents to understand their children's knowledge.
3. Guide the child to concentrate and do homework wholeheartedly When the child starts to do homework, you can let the child drink water in advance, go to the toilet, or eat something first. Avoid desertion in the middle of the middle of the day when your child writes homework. This habit, for children who are more active and like half-hearted, is more difficult, and you can give the child appropriate encouragement and get rewards after completion. Time can be segmented, or complete an assignment with moderate pauses and breaks.
4. Parents appropriately encourage children to make progress For positive encouragement, parents find that children have more knowledge than before, solve problems, and can convey your joy to their children. For your pleasure, this puzzle, you have found a solution. Today your essay is more vivid and interesting than before, and your writing is much more neat. For specific things, praise the child's performance, the child can better understand their own progress.
5. According to the child's difficult problems, some children are afraid of the problem itself, and parents should give their children the idea of solving, rather than being too hasty and directly telling the answer. Similar examples can be given, solutions, and then children can be transferred to their own problems. Parents encourage children to use more brains, children do not understand can give more examples to illustrate, by example, to practice mastering the method.
In this way, the same habit is adhered to for a month, the child's new habit is formed, the habit becomes natural, and the correct reading is also on the right track. After that, the child consolidates this method and constantly tests and corrects it. Xueba is such a step by step in the right way, improve the performance, parents are also easy to rest assured.
Children are different, so find the right and effective method, children will take fewer detours.
Accompanying a child does not need to start with checking homework
A mother with excellent academic performance once shared that since the preschool, the child did not accompany the child to write homework, and the child checked the homework by himself. If parents need to cooperate with the signature, the parents will sign.
She told her children that homework completion was a task she needed to complete. What homework you need to write on the day, complete and check it yourself, and if you miss it, it is also your responsibility to be criticized by the teacher. Because the mother did not help the child check the homework, in order to avoid missing the homework, the child took the initiative to make a record of the homework, and the completed tasks would be ticked.
The mother also let the child understand that if there are difficulties and difficulties in homework that are inevitable, you can consult teachers and classmates to think of a way to solve it yourself, rather than relying entirely on your parents. Of course, this mother is not completely indifferent. Her approach is to give the child the method, and the execution depends on the child.
She encourages children to face loopholes and does not advocate that children copy answers. If the child really has a problem that he can't do, he can put it aside empty. The benefit of this is to give the teacher a real understanding of the child's learning status.
She guides children to make appropriate use of learning tools after consulting others. The difficulty of the homework assigned by the general teacher is moderate, when the child consults the teacher and classmates at school, if he goes home, he still wants to solve the problem, and he can use the APP to find the solution idea. In order to prevent children from relying on direct answers, this APP is limited to 10 times in a semester.
When the child completes the homework, let the child check it by himself, and if he needs to sign, the parents will cooperate with the signature. On the one hand, trusting the child to be able to self-supervise. On the other hand, children are trained to check on their own, summarize the mistakes into a mistake book, and deepen their impressions. Children can overcome difficulties in a targeted manner, and they can also improve their learning. Therefore, the error summary check, or the child himself as a good.
In fact, the homework is the child's own, what should parents who do not accompany them?
For those parents who do not accompany their children to write homework, they do not approve of parents doing the work for them, nor do they approve of letting their children go, but advocate correct guidance, and children can complete their homework efficiently and achieve better results.
1. Estimate the time required before the child starts doing homework, so estimate the time spent on the homework, which can make the child more attentive to the homework and not easy to desert. It is also a pleasure to complete the homework with high quality within the limited time.
2. A good learning atmosphere promotes children's concentration
At home, you can set up a special place for your child to write homework, try your child to do homework, do not put on the TV, reduce interference, you can put on some light music, improve the atmosphere, and when the child rests for a while, the mood is also very pleasant.
3. Inject new vitality into the child's self-examination habit In order to set up different rewards for children to complete the task, children gain a sense of achievement by breaking through the game with limited time. When children take the initiative to complete tasks, such as after reading a book, they can try to repeat it, share their ideas, and turn the knowledge of the book into their own things.
In fact, accompanying children to write homework is a false proposition, such companionship not only makes children develop dependence on parents for everything, but also allows parents to bear the things that children should have done. Parents need to master good methods, give children more trust and space, let them learn to self-control, take the initiative to complete homework, do their own things, excellent grades, parents will be relaxed.