Tintin and his mother played in the playground all morning, and when it was almost noon, her mother took Tintin to the supermarket to buy some dishes to eat at noon and prepare to go home to make lunch.
After arriving at the supermarket, my mother took Tintin straight to the vegetable area, but it took time for my mother to choose dishes, and Tintin couldn't stay at this time.
Because Tintin had too much fun in the morning and sweated a lot, he calmed down at this time and felt more and more thirsty.
Tintin originally wanted to talk to his mother, but seeing that his mother was choosing dishes, and seeing that there was mineral water, drinks and so on the shelves not far away, he felt that there was no need to talk to his mother again, and he went directly to get water to drink, and when it was time to check out, he would check out together.
So Tintin ran to the drinking area by himself, took a bottle of mineral water from the shelf, unscrewed the lid and drank it.
Because Tintin was so thirsty, he drank the mineral water in a short while. After drinking the water, Tintin came to his mother's side with the empty bottle, and then put the empty bottle into his mother's shopping cart.
When my mother saw Tintin come over with an empty bottle, she asked very doubtfully, "Where did you get the empty bottle?" ”
"I'm very thirsty, so I took a bottle of water from the shelf over there and drank it" Tintin looked at his mother and saw that her mother was not ready to scold herself, so she owed her head and continued: "Don't forget to pay when you leave for a while." ”
Although the mother saw the child's behavior, although she could not help but be a little angry in her heart, she saw that the child did not steal the drink, but only drank it when she was thirsty, and also told herself to check out, and it was not easy to say anything.
After choosing the dishes, he took the child to the cashier and prepared to pay and leave.
However, a surprising thing happened, when the cashier saw the empty bottle, he did not immediately scan the code to collect the money, but called the manager of the supermarket, who said to Tintin's mother: "Your behavior has been suspected of stealing, and you need to pay ten times the fine." ”
Tintin's mother was a little angry when she heard the manager say this. However, Tintin's mother did not make a big fuss, but calmly expounded the facts from an objective point of view:
"We were not prepared to steal, although we drank water in the supermarket, but we were not prepared to evade the order, but took the initiative to check out, which shows that we have no intention of stealing."
"So, subjectively and objectively, you say we steal, and that's not true."
Hearing Tintin's mother say this, the manager replied: "Our supermarket is so stipulated, your situation is theft, you will be fined ten times." ”
Tintin's mother heard the manager's tone a little unfriendly and continued, "You can think clearly, if I really gave you ten times the fine, what would happen to you." After a pause, Tintin's mother continued, "A bottle of mineral water is only two yuan, ten times is only 20 yuan, but you have fined it privately, but it is an illegal act of encroachment." ”
The manager heard Tintin's mother say this, and her face was a little hanging, "You stole our things, why can't I fine it?" But it was clear that he was a little underwhelmed when he said this.
Ding Ding's mother saw that the manager was not good at speaking, so she said: "You have no administrative law enforcement power, so you have no right to fine, and the fine you have imposed on me, although it does not constitute a criminal punishment, has violated the public security management regulations." ”
The manager heard Tintin's mother's words and knew that Tintin's mother was a "knowledgeable person", so he no longer insisted on his "ten times compensation".
And Tintin's mother naturally knew that her child was not doing the right thing, so she asked Tintin to apologize to the supermarket manager for her behavior.
Since the supermarket did not have any losses, and Tintin's mother was also the main child of "not annoying", the supermarket manager did not dwell on anything, so he let Tintin and his mother leave.
Although Tintin's mother used her knowledge to cleverly solve the current problem, Tintin's mother knows that the emergence of this matter is itself a mistake, and to avoid the occurrence of this error, it is necessary to pay attention to the following points:
First of all, cultivate the child's sense of order and principle, let the child know that the corresponding regulations need to be observed everywhere, so as to avoid some mistakes, and at the same time, obeying the rules is also a necessary moral behavior.
Secondly, when a child is found to be wrong, it is necessary to stop the child's wrong behavior in time to avoid the child from expanding the mistake. Moreover, sometimes if parents find their children's mistakes and do not stop them, it is likely to lead to their children having a wrong understanding and thinking that their mistakes are not wrong.
Finally, it is necessary to help children recognize their mistakes in a timely manner, let them know why they are wrong, where they are wrong, and how to correct them, so that they can get effective experience and avoid being wrong next time.
Of course, while educating children, parents also need to let their children know that they are wrong, and if others use mistakes to infringe on their legitimate rights and interests, it is not okay. Therefore, parents also need to do:
Let the child build a basic sense of self-protection and know what the basic rights and interests they have.
Exercise the child's self-protection ability, such as some relevant self-protection knowledge, some legitimate rights and interests protection methods, and the child's own physical fitness.
In this way, when children encounter violations of their own rights and interests, they can use knowledge and behavior to protect their rights and interests.
Therefore, after Tintin's mother returned home, she also conducted a unique education for Tintin, which consolidated the child's cognition of order and also strengthened the child's awareness of self-protection.
Tintin naturally knew his mistake and said that he would never make the same mistake again.
epilogue
In fact, many of the "violations" of children when they are young are due to parents' neglect of education, or supervision errors, as long as parents carefully teach their children, children are still very quick to correct.