Lin Daiyu entered Jia Province, which was the place where she would live for a long time in the future. I once heard my mother say that my grandmother's house was very different from other families. As for how it is different, of course she does not know. Now when I come to my grandmother's house, I should observe carefully and judge well. Through Lin Daiyu's eyes, the reader sees the magnificent appearance, exquisite layout, and luxurious furnishings of Jia Fu, as well as the golden plaque given by the emperor, the couplet of ebony and silver, the hierarchical etiquette, and the style of the rich and noble, which is indeed different from other families. Just as the so-called people look at the scenery on the bridge, they themselves have become a scenery in the eyes of others. So, what kind of person is Lin Daiyu? In the eyes of everyone, she "although she is young, her demeanor is not bad, and although her body and face are weak, she has a natural attitude." In Wang Xifeng's eyes, "There are such Peugeot characters in the world, I have only seen them today!" Moreover, this all-over style is not like the granddaughter of the old ancestor, but the granddaughter of a concubine." In Jia Baoyu's eyes, she is beautiful and affectionate, weak and windy, handsome and intelligent.
Based on such a fact, everyone knows that Jia Mu loves Lin Daiyu very much, so they all praise her with the greatest enthusiasm, real, false, real, blurry eyes, and amorous, in order to please the old ancestors. However, everyone wants to snoop quietly, look closely, see what kind of cultivation she has, and whether she can be in the company of the crowd and integrate into the golden jade splendid embroidery. Just imagine, a girl who is only a teenager, from a remote place, has never seen the world, and breaks into the Prince Zhumen, how much emotional intelligence and mind does it take to advance and retreat freely? We couldn't help but sweat for her, and cut her arms in sorrow. But Lin Daiyu is Lin Daiyu, although she is not a lady, nor is she a rich man, she has to show her skills and let people know that there is a little girl with different customs in Jia Fu, who is different from other families. She prepared her homework and did not allow herself to have the slightest mistake, unprovoked or for a reason to make people look down, that was not the result she wanted. Deep inside her, the air was high. And see how Lin Daiyu exerts her acting skills to the extreme. In a word: throwing out the sharp weapon of "love" and "wisdom", and using it wonderfully, it is breathtaking.
First, emotion is revealed in language. For example, Lady Xing stayed bitterly for dinner, and Dai Yu smiled and replied: "My aunt cherished the gift of food, and she should not resign, but she still had to go to see the second uncle, I am afraid that if I receive the gift, I will not be ashamed, and I will receive it again another day." I hope my aunt will forgive me. This time, Lin Daiyu's language was decent, the sound entered the ear, and the words entered the heart. It not only expressed respect and gratitude to Lady Xing, but also made it clear that she was a gift of taking the overall situation into account, and was extremely cultured, which was a concrete manifestation of "paying attention step by step". For another example, when Jia Muyin asked Dai Yu what book to read, Dai Yu said, "I just read the Four Books." Dai Yu asked the sisters what books they had read. Jia Mu said, "What kind of book is reading, but I only recognize two words, not a blind man with his eyes open!" Later, Bao Yu approached Dai Yu and sat down, and looked at it carefully, because he asked, "Has my sister ever studied?" Dai Yu said, "I haven't read it, I've only been in school for one year, and I have to recognize a few words." ”
Two answers to one question, judged like clouds of mud, very strange. The reason why she changed her mouth was because from Jia Mu's words, she quickly realized that Jia Mu was following the traditional concept of "a woman without talent is morality", Jia Mu did not like girls to read at all, Lin Daiyu immediately changed her mouth, answered, and in an instant, all kinds of thoughts came to mind. Jia Mu asked, of course, she must answer truthfully, should not and can not lie, honesty and integrity can not be polluted. And she is not frivolous, like Wang Xifeng's ability to compliment her in front of Jia Mu, it is absolutely not feasible. But Jia Mu is the Emperor taishang of Jia Province, she said that she did not like it, no one dared to say that she liked it, Lin Daiyu of course knew it; she did not want to disobey Jia Mu, it was not a wise move to annoy people, she would only eat and walk. Once this is the case, I am afraid that I will be cold to Jia Fu, cut myself off from Jia Fu, let alone be loved by others, even if it is false pity. Nervous thinking, repeated weighing, she did not move a single sleeve, did not show her face, relieved the embarrassment, which showed that she was intelligent and agile, young and heavy.
The second is that emotions and wisdom appear in behavior. For example, Jia Mu sat alone on the front bed, four empty chairs on the west side, Xi Feng hurriedly pulled Dai Yu to sit on the first chair on the right, and Dai Yu was very pushy. After a little analysis, it is not difficult to see that Jia Mu sits alone in the front, "front" and "alone" sitting, which has a lot to come, showing Jia Mu's special identity and supreme special status. The first of the four empty chairs on the left is the upper seat in order. Although Dai Yu is a foreign surname and a guest, she has her aunt and sister-in-law around, and she is willing to sit down, so she is "very pushy". After Jia Mu's explanation, he sat down. On the one hand, Lin Daiyu's cautious attitude is written here, and on the other hand, it shows her clear character of being polite, intelligent and sensible. It can be called a subtlety, and the interpretation is well-behaved and generous. Another example is that on that day, Lin Ruhai taught her daughter to cherish her health, and after the cloud meal, she waited for the grains to be swallowed, and then ate tea after a while, so as not to hurt the spleen and stomach. Now Dai Yu saw that many things here did not fit the style of the family, and had to follow them, and had to change them one by one, so she took the tea.
This move is even more valuable and extraordinary. We know that a person's living habits are formed by long-term experience, not that they can be changed, and it is very difficult to change. In order to recognize the current affairs and not to do anything different, she had a horizontal heart, biting her jade teeth and swallowing. She had read the Analects, which contained the words "I don't know the etiquette, and I can't stand up." It is said that people cannot stand on society without knowing etiquette. For Lin Daiyu, it was equivalent to her difficulty in surviving in Jia Province. She is also well aware that there are many rules and regulations in the high-walled and heavy courtyards, and the requirements are extremely strict. In this place, whether everyone is a bridesmaid, a small family jasper, or a person under the beard, they must abide by the rules of etiquette, and they must never make a mistake by raising their hands and feet. Therefore, Lin Daiyu turned around in an instant, and the etiquette that had been set but had great variables was vividly exerted, and the emotions and wisdom were integrated into the etiquette, and the water and milk blended. She defended her dignity and defended the honor of the Lin family on her own. Its super adaptability and adaptability are far above many experienced adults, which is so gorgeous and poignant.
Here, Cao Xueqin "observes everything with an attitude of not being lenient, calm in wisdom and compassion of fraternity (Romain Rolland). "Little Lin Daiyu, her body is thin but not weak, her character is lonely but not obscene, her soul is proud but not withered, her intelligence is radiant, and her demeanor is full.