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I wasn't born an actor, so why should I act with you?
Acting on the spot has never been my interest, nor has it been my interest. Not before, not now, and not in the future.
How to say it is your business, how to do it, is my business, and has nothing to do with you.
Happiness must be found by oneself, pain must be borne by oneself, demons must be overcome by oneself, and what one wants must be fought for by oneself. After all, many things can't be helped by others, and some things have to be experienced by yourself to have a taste, not to mention how many people are really willing to help you?
Many times, we are chasing in the footsteps of others and forgetting what we were in the first place. In fact, it is not how good others are, nor how bad we are. It's just that we are all too blind, and if we are not careful, we will lose that excellent and unique self in the vast sea of people.
01. Man can only be himself when he is alone
In the eyes of most people, loneliness is often closely associated with unsociable and strange loneliness. However, I don't think so.
In my opinion, a person who loves to be alone is not incapable of getting along with people, he just doesn't like to play tricks. After all, each of us is unique, we are all the protagonists of our own lives, so why always be a supporting role for others and accompany others to act?
The time spent alone should be cherished. After all, what we lack is not the worldly bustle, on the contrary, what we lack is only a time alone.
Let the world be quieter, put your head a little empty, go to the heart to experience, and feel your own time. To communicate with the most authentic self in the depths of the soul, to accompany the most vulnerable self, to find the self hidden in the "deep sea". Cherish it, there is not much time to be alone.
We often show the best side in front of people, but hide the most authentic self. I even forgot to accompany myself, the one who lived under the cloak of invisibility.
I like to be alone, it's not intentionally out of the group, but it's really fun to be alone, and being alone brings me feelings that others can't give, and what I can't get in the group.
When you are alone, you can see the most authentic self, you can better find your own direction, and along it to seek your own things, to chase the light in your heart, to become a better self.
02. Non-indifferent is unambitious, and non-tranquility is far-reaching
In fact, we can all become better selves, but some external ideas are blocking our progress. Originally, we had a lot of time and energy to do what we liked, but because it was difficult to refuse the temptation of the outside world, we pushed back and forth, or even gave up.
Have you ever wondered: How many people in this world want you to be well?
If you think about it, there aren't many.
There are the vast majority of people in this world who want you to have a bad life, and there are many people who sincerely want you to be good, but there are very few people who really want you to be better than them. After all, they just want you to be good, but not better than them.
So why should we spend so much time on ineffective socializing? You are not good because you are afraid of being alone, and your fear of being alone is nothing more than fear of other people's gossip, or you have become accustomed to living in groups, and suddenly become a person and will be at a loss, completely unaware of what you are going to do.
In fact, being alone is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you do not have the courage to be alone. People who have never been alone do not know the benefits of being alone, which is a major regret in life.
When you try to be alone, you will slowly discover that the time of being alone alone is so beautiful. We can't do it "in the human realm, without the noise of cars and horses." Q. How can you do it? The realm of the heart is far away from the self-deviation", but you can occasionally find a quiet place to meditate and think, to help yourself out of the confused situation.
When we are alone, it is easier to find that unique self, to better see the world, to recognize reality, and to be good at ourselves.
Find your own direction in solitude, set your own ambitions, work hard, and go all out to pursue your own poetry and distant places.
03. Loneliness is the carnival of one person, and revelry is the loneliness of a group of people
Loneliness is a compulsory course in life, and everyone will experience it, but sooner or later. There is no need to force others to be like me, nor do you have to turn yourself into others, life is your own, of course, you have to live in the way you like to live in order not to waste this life.
As Mr. Yang Dai said: "We were so eager for the waves of fate, and in the end we found out that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calmness and calmness of the heart... We looked forward to the approval of the outside world, and finally realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others! ”
A solitary, maverick person has no sense of loneliness. Truly lonely people are particularly afraid of being called lonely, so they behave particularly socially and empathetically. However, this not only did not hide his loneliness, but also exposed his inner loneliness.
Most people think that loneliness is the helplessness of not being able to get along with others, but I think that loneliness is a kind of strength, the ability to overcome loneliness, and the motivation to help yourself succeed.
Fall in love with loneliness and enjoy loneliness. Let us keep our original intention in the noisy and noisy world, listen to our own voices, and find our own joy in loneliness.
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