Once in the show, Wang Weinian once angrily rebuked Zhu Jun: "If it weren't for you, Xiao Xiangyu and I wouldn't have divorced!" Every time the two of us quarreled, you went to her behind my back, what did you mix in with the two of us? ”
Zhu Jun was also very aggrieved, and said bluntly: "Later, I did not look for Xiao Xiangyu, and now you are not leaving." ”
As the host of the program, Wang Weinian was not good at arguing with Zhu Jun on the stage, so he had to change the topic.
Xiao Xiangyu is actually Wang Weinian's second wife, and she is also the eternal pain in Wang Weinian's heart.
Wang Fang, the host who has cooperated with Wang Weinian for many years, once revealed that xiao Xiangyu must not be mentioned in front of Wang Weinian.
After Wang Weinian and Xiao Xiangyu divorced, there were also rich women who openly proposed marriage to him, but he refused.
So, what has Wang Weinian experienced over the years?
Wang Weinian was born in Taiyuan, Shanxi in 1959, the son of a retired cadre and a famous calligrapher, and his mother as vice president of the court.
When I was a child, my mother would often tell Wang Weinian about some civil mediation cases, and Wang Weinian listened to it with relish, but also subtly, and had a preliminary understanding of human feelings.
At the age of 20, he married for the first time.
After marriage, he was busy with work and faced with the sudden arrival of children, and his heart was very entangled.
On the one hand, he felt that he did not have time to take care of the family, and on the other hand, he thought that the children were cute.
In this tangled situation, he still filed for divorce from his wife while running around the various crews.
Wang Weinian's ex-wife is particularly good, not only does not mind Wang Weinian neglecting the family, but also maintains their father-son relationship in front of the children, which makes Wang Weinian not affect his feelings with his son after divorce.
Out of guilt for his wife, Wang Weinian went out of the house.
After the divorce, Wang Weinian moved directly to Beijing, and entered CCTV to start doing behind-the-scenes work, participating in the recording of the 10th Spring Festival Gala.
During this period, he not only met his second wife, Xiao Xiangyu, but also became friends with Zhu Jun, the host of the Spring Festival Gala.
Wang Weinian himself is a scholar of Yu opera, and Xiao Xiangyu is one of the top Yu opera actors.
In order to pursue Xiao Xiangyu, Wang Weinian helped Xiao Xiangyu set up a Yu opera school and became Xiao Xiangyu's agent by the way
He also used his connections on the central stage to win many opportunities for Xiao Xiangyu to perform on the central stage.
Wang Weinian is worthy of being an emotional mentor, and he still has a very good set in chasing girls.
Xiao Xiangyu felt that Wang Weinian was really too good for himself, and he could not do without Wang Weinian.
So in 2000, the two people married happily.
At the beginning of the marriage, they were still very sweet, and it is not too much to describe them as Qinser and Ming.
However, after a long time, it is not the same as love, after all, getting along day and night, trivial things can lead to a family war.
Wang Weinian once blew himself up in the show, although he and Xiao Xiangyu said that they were working hard for a goal, but in fact, he was alone before and after.
Wang Weinian had to write the script, to help Xiao Xiangyu walk on stage, and to rehearse with the actors, and even Xiao Xiangyu's rehearsal was replaced by Wang Weinian...
In Wang Weinian's view, one person is busy, the other person is very idle, and two people are prone to communication problems.
Of course, it can also lead to psychological imbalances.
Because Wang Weinian and Xiao Xiangyu are both fiery tempers, especially Xiao Xiangyu, who has a very strong personality, every time he quarrels Wang Weinian is in the ascendant.
Wang Weinian once blew himself up in the show, and his glasses were often broken by Xiao Xiangyu and thrown out.
Later, after the two quarreled, he would ask Zhu Jun to help mediate, but he did not expect that Zhu Jun would not help himself every time he listened, but helped Xiao Xiangyu.
In this regard, Zhu Jun explained: "Who makes us fellow countrymen? Besides, as long as Xiao Xiangyu was discouraged, this matter would pass. ”
Xiao Xiangyu also told Wang Weinian: "Originally, I was not ready to leave with you, but after Zhu Jun talked to me, I decided to leave with you." ”
Wang Weinian said that the divorce from Xiao Xiangyu was a complaint against Zhu Jun, in fact, the two were just jokes in the show.
Wang Weinian himself once said that the real reason for their divorce was that both of them put work first, which led to many misunderstandings in family life.
After the divorce, Xiao Xiangyu turned around and married a wealthy businessman.
Many years later, Xiao Xiangyu recalled in the show: "I would have married Wang Weinian, not because of how much I loved, but because he was very good, capable, and could help himself."
I think this marriage is very cost-effective, and of course I am very grateful to him for giving everything for himself. ”
Wang Weinian, on the other hand, has always been difficult to get out of the shadow of the past because of his deep affection.
For a long time, he also stagnated his career due to emotional injuries.
After gradually coming out, he served as the host of the emotional program "Who Is Talking".
The appearance of talking on the screen is much liked by the audience.
Today, Wang Weinian, who is 62 years old, is still single. The love and past were deeply placed in his heart.
It can be said that heaven really loves Xiao Xiangyu very much, and she has met many noble people in this life, which makes her walk so smoothly and smoothly in this life.
When a marriage is broken, the person who suffers the most is often the one who gives the most.
One is blind giving, the other is endless taking, the imbalance of life, and eventually leads to the disintegration of marriage.
Wang Weinian and Xiao Xiangyu's marriage experience is actually the current situation of many people's marriages.
Many marriages today are mixed with interest considerations and are not so pure, and marriages that lack two-way travel and payment will eventually fail.
Therefore, in marriage, it is not only blindly giving, but also learning to "take" from the other half, which has nothing to do with money.
