Once, Yin Xiumei was a guest of "Art Life", zhu Jun interviewed her: "I heard that on the day of your wedding, you mentioned divorce? Yin Xiumei said: "Yes, I regretted it a few hours before I got married." ”
Zhu Jun was puzzled: "Then why are you still married?" ”
Yin Xiumei replied very calmly: "Because so many guests have been invited, it is impossible to cancel it temporarily." ”
In 1956, Yin Xiumei was born into a family of cadres, and was deeply influenced by the family environment since childhood.
Later, because of his great talent in singing, with the support of his family, he was admitted to the art troupe at the age of 14 and became a soloist.
In 1979, Yin Xiumei, who was only 23 years old, became popular with a song "Youth, Youth".
However, she was not satisfied with this, and she was not willing to accept the status quo, and later tried to enter the opera department of the Central Conservatory of Music and study bel canto.
After graduation, he made great strides in his career and also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times.
In 1984, Yin Xiumei stood out in the first Young Singers Television Grand Prix, using her unique singing voice and moving interpretation of each song, and singing "I Love You Snow in the North of Saibei" became a household name.
Yin Xiumei's first husband was named Cheng Zhi, who was also a famous tenor singer in the mainland.
Both studied under Shen Xiang, but Cheng Zhi was ten years older than Yin Xiumei.
Because they are brothers and sisters of the same door, and they are both from Heilongjiang, after the two have understood, they found that there are many common topics, and they have reached the age of marriage, so they decided to get married.
It was only when preparing for the wedding that Yin Xiumei panicked.
Until the wedding day, she looked at the man in front of her and finally understood that she did not want to marry!
However, at that time, it was too late to do anything, relatives and friends arrived, and Yin Xiumei could only go through the wedding process with a hard scalp, without any joy.
After some ideological struggle, Yin Zhimei said to Cheng Zhi:
"Let's break up! Since relatives and friends have come, the wedding is still held on time, and after the wedding, we will go to get the divorce certificate. ”
Cheng Zhi saw that she said so firmly, so he did not force her anymore, and he agreed to Yin Xiumei's "excessive" request.
In this way, Yin Xiumei and Cheng Zhi politely held a wedding ceremony.
After the wedding, the two people who returned home took the hukou and prepared to go to the divorce, at which time the parents of both sides did not agree.
Parents feel that the two are too impulsive, and since they are married, they will get along again.
Maybe after in-depth contact, the two can continue to develop.
But after all, life is not everywhere singing, more is chai rice oil and salt.
Yin Xiumei found that she and Cheng Zhi had great differences in personality, so it was easy to have differences in handling things.
She is a woman with a bold personality and is relatively neat in doing things, but Cheng Zhi is a chronic child.
Moreover, Cheng Zhi's personality is relatively calm, and there are not many words, and the big and small things in the family are all handled by Yin Xiumei.
As the two become busier and busier, there are more and more contradictions.
Regarding this marriage, Yin Xiumei later described it on the show as follows:
"I think sometimes there's a door, and everybody thinks they should go out through that door, but some people have to jump out of the window.
He must jump out of the window and won't walk through the door, so there is a big difference between the two! ”
So in 1988 the two divorced peacefully.
After the divorce, Cheng Zhi quickly found his own happiness and his career rose step by step.
His second wife was Wang Xiufen, 8 years younger than himself, and the only singer of the female general level.
After marriage, the husband and wife have a harmonious relationship and often perform on the same stage.
On the other hand, Yin Xiumei, who resumed being single, has been in a blank state for a long time.
Until 1996, Yin Xiumei met French businessman Philippe on the plane.
When the two talked, Philip was deeply attracted to Yin Xiumei, and he began to pursue Yin Xiumei, but Yin Xiumei did not think of marrying a foreigner.
Philip is not discouraged, in order to better communicate with Yin Xiumei, he learns Chinese, and often goes to see her performances, after each performance Philip will send flowers and invite Yin Xiumei to dinner.
Under Philip's fierce pursuit, Yin Xiumei and he fell in love.
In 1998, 42-year-old Yin Xiumei and Philip had a grand wedding in Lyon.
On the wedding day, Yin Xiumei saw many French celebrities coming to the wedding, and she knew that Philip was a famous family.
Philip is a mature and romantic man, and this time Yin Xiumei found the right person.
After marriage, Philip hoped that Yin Xiumei could live in France, and Yin Xiumei wanted Philip to come to China.
At first, Yin Xiumei lived with her husband in France for a while, but after a long time, Yin Xiumei could not stay, and she said to Philip: "I want to go back to Beijing." ”
Philip was a little puzzled, but Yin Xiumei said: "I am a native Chinese, you are busy every day, of course, you can't feel my mood." ”
In order to follow his wife, Philip refused to return to France for a promotion and salary increase, but stayed in China and settled: "My wife is in China, and I don't go anywhere."
Philip is very romantic and has great respect for Yin Xiumei, he never says "you" and "I" how to do, but says "we" what to do.
This made Yin Xiumei very moved.
The two have been together for more than 20 years, but they have never had children, although Yin Xiumei has some regrets, she also said:
"God has given me such a good voice, I have gained a lot, and I can't be too greedy."
In fact, if you think about it, Yin Xiumei and Cheng Zhi are lucky.
The two of them discovered the problem of marriage early, and peacefully let each other go, and they could generously pursue each other's happiness.
If you want to be happy, be sure to polish your eyes before doing a lot of things.
