Regarding the emotional mentor, everyone must first think of the sharp-tongued teacher Tu Lei, but there is also a teacher who has helped many couples solve emotional problems, and he is known for his strong empathy ability.
It is such an emotional mentor who is good at cleaning up the housework but it is difficult to heal himself. He had two failed marriages and refused to remarry his ex-wife, which caused his son to hate him.
Even after his ex-wife's divorce, he said in public that Wang Weinian married her more as a kind of exploitation than love. On TV, wang Weinian, who says that men should be sincere and love women well, has received such an evaluation, and then we will tell the story of Wang Weinian, the emotional mentor.
Well-known emotional mentor Wang Wei nian
Wang Weinian was born in a family where his parents were high-level intellectuals, but he did not inherit the genes of his parents, but he was very naughty from an early age, and he did not love to study, and his grades were a mess, which could make his parents sad and did not know what to do.
Once, when Wang Weinian sneaked out to play, he happened to be filming next door. The mischievous Wang Weinian accidentally knocked down the lights of the crew, and the crew asked Wang Weinian to call the adults to compensate, but he did not expect that the young Wang Weinian did not have the slightest fear after making a mistake.
Instead, he said like a little adult: "This is the mistake I made, I will definitely compensate, now my parents are at work, they are not free to come, I can talk to you, change the amount of compensation, I can write an IOU, you don't believe it, I will write your parents' address to you." If I don't bring the money tomorrow, you will go to the unit to find my parents. ”
The people in the crew looked at this little boy and thought it was funny, but they didn't expect that the next day Wang Weinian really brought the money. When the matter came to an end, the parents felt that they could no longer control the mischievous Wang Weinian.
This time, I ran into a disaster again, lost money, and when my parents were upset about their sons, I didn't expect that the director of the crew had found them. Parents think that their children are in trouble again, and after listening carefully, they know that there is a lack of a small actor, so wang Weinian will try it.
Not to mention that Wang Weinian, who has not acted in drama, is still very talented, only Wang Weinian embarked on the road of learning art, and then was admitted to an art school to study, and after graduation, he went to a drama troupe to become an actor.
The first marriage married a young plum bamboo horse and had a son
After becoming an actor, Wang Weinian listened to his parents' advice and played with the girl next door until the eldest got married. Wang Weinian thought that everyone knew the roots, it would be very happy, and as a result, he did not expect that the two could not say that they could not go together, and Wang Weinian had not always been a person who liked to be stable, and his life was only tepid.
Later, the introduction of a friend made Wang Weinian completely move the idea of leaving the small troupe in his hometown. At that time, it was just in time for the filming of "Yang Jiajian" to start shooting in Beijing, just lacking actors, friends remembered Wang Weinian and asked him to try, wang Weinian immediately left as soon as he heard it.
In fact, at this time, Wang Weinian's wife was pregnant, but she still supported him in pursuing his dreams and waited for him to return.
Wang Weinian, who went to Beijing, was like a fish in the water and threw himself into filming. Busy, he also rarely calls home, and relatives next to him say that Wang Weinian is indifferent, his wife is pregnant and goes out to shoot dramas, and he does not take time to come back to see, and the phone calls are also small. Whenever this happened, Wang Weinian's wife always spoke for him: "He is busy, it is hard to have a chance to shoot a scene, and he will come back after filming." ”
What is chilling is that until the day his wife gave birth, Wang Weinian did not come back, and the mother's family was quite critical of this, but Wang Weinian's wife did not care, and told the family that it was said that nian was making milk powder money for her son, so desperate.
Later, Wang Weinian returned to his hometown, took a quick look at the child, and then went to film again. In the days to come, Wang Weinian almost all filmed in Beijing, occasionally returned to his hometown, when wang Weinian's son would believe that his father loved you, but he was busy earning money, but after he began to understand things, he began to remember his father, leaving him and his mother at home, regardless of it, and the phone call was very small.
The son's resentment toward Wang Weinian was even worse after Wang Weinian and his wife filed for divorce. Wang Weinian, who was working alone in Beijing, still decided to divorce, and his wife pleaded bitterly for a long time, but still did not get Wang Weinian's change of heart, and refused his ex-wife's multiple requests for remarriage.
The second marriage was not happy and dispersed
In fact, as early as before Wang Weinian's divorce, Wang Weinian was moved by the young and beautiful Xiao Xiangyu, but he already had a family, and there were many suitors for Xiao Xiangyu, and he did not take any action in the end.
Now that he is divorced and has become the host of an emotional show, his career has improved slightly, and he feels that he is finally qualified to stand in front of Xiao Xiangyu. So he began a long pursuit of the road, he can be said to be meticulous to Xiao Xiangyu, every day to ask for warmth, as soon as he has time to accompany Xiao Xiangyu to watch the play.
Every time his son Wang Ao called, he also hurriedly said a few words and hung up, although Wang Ao hated his father, but he watched his mother cry every day, he wanted to help his mother save this marriage, so he often acted as a red bride between his parents, and at this time Wang Weinian offered courtesy in front of Xiao Xiangyu.
However, what Wang Ao did not expect was that his efforts were in vain, and what he was waiting for was the news of his father and Xiao Xiangyu's marriage.
Wang Ao was not reconciled, hoping to stop all this, so he ran to Beijing alone to find his father, but his father only said that this was his choice, and said that even after marriage, he would love him. Wang Ao begged his father to get married, which also completely disappointed Wang Ao, and he never contacted his father again.
It was such a marriage that made Wang Weinian desperate, it ended in just a few years, the two divorced because of personality discord, Xiao Xiangyu did not have a high evaluation of Wang Weinian, and said that he was just trying to use his fame.
epilogue
Perhaps Wang Weinian finally loved himself more, and loved his career more. Neither his son nor his wife, nor even the person he truly loved, was the most important thing in his life.
Now that he is more than half a hundred years old, he is still alone, which can only be said to be caused by his personality. Marriage is never something that can be said clearly, and even as an emotional mentor cannot make a very happy marriage.