In one show, Wang Weinian talked about his marriage to Xiao Xiangyu, and he accused Zhu Jun: "Every time we quarrel with husband and wife, why do you go to her?" If you hadn't messed around, we wouldn't have been able to do it! ”
"Every time in a crisis of feelings, it's not me that you're appeasing, it's the person next to me, and then I don't know!"
Zhu Jun could only smile and say, "Who made me a fellow countryman with her?"
In fact, Wang Weinian is also joking, the reason why he and Xiao Xiangyu really divorced is because he is busy with work and ignores his family.
Born in Taiyuan, Shanxi in 1959, Wang Weinian was admitted to the Xiqu Academy at the age of 14, and after graduation, he was assigned to work at the Shanxi Jin Theater.
Here, he met his first wife, the two were about the same age, the door was right, and they soon married.
In 1983, Wang Weinian entered the entertainment circle and starred in TV series such as "Yang Jiajian" and "The Legend of Di Renjie's Case", and his career was on the right track.
Just when he was about to continue sprinting in his career, his wife was pregnant, and Wang Weinian actually felt that this child was a burden.
Not only did he not ask questions when he was pregnant, but he did not come home even when the child was born.
The wife really could not stand his irresponsibility, the two had been separated for a long time, the feelings had long since faded, and when the son was 12 years old, his wife still divorced him.
Later, Wang Weinian said: "I have always felt indebted to my son, but I think my son has a particularly great mother.
She always said to her son, your father is not easy, he is a competent father, let me and my son have a very good relationship, I am very grateful to her. ”
In 1994, in a show, Wang Weinian met Yu opera actor Xiao Xiangyu, at that time, Wang Weinian was already a famous director and host.
And Xiao Xiangyu is at the low point of her career, and it is the time when she needs comfort.
Xiao Xiangyu wanted to open an art academy, but the formalities ran for a long time and did not work out.
After Wang Weinian heard about it, he used his personal connections to complete all the formalities in only one morning.
The school was short of money, and he not only helped pull a large amount of sponsorship fees, but also took out 1 million savings to help Xiao Xiangyu.
Such enthusiastic help made Xiao Xiangyu very touched and felt that he was a particularly capable and reliable person.
Soon, the two fell in love, but Xiao Xiangyu thought more about Wang Wei than love, but dependence.
Xiao Xiangyu said: "I chose him at that time because it was more cost-effective, and it can be said that the purpose was not very pure." Because he's excellent and can help me do something, he can top 6 people, 8 people by himself. ”
The two were in love for 6 years and married in 2000.
After marriage, Wang Weinian wanted to do everything for her in order to save Xiao Xiangyu's heart.
At that time, Wang Weinian would take over the Spring Festival Gala of four or five TV stations, and if he was on CCTV, the workload would increase sharply.
But even if he is busy, he will write the script of the troupe, arrange the program of the whole troupe, and even rehearse for Xiao Xiangyu.
In the school, Wang Weinian also worried about it.
Once, there was a single girl in the art school who could not afford to pay the tuition, and Wang Weinian secretly helped her pay the tuition.
When Xiao Xiangyu heard about it, he had a big fight with Wang Weinian and accused him of breaking the rules and regulations of the school.
Wang Weinian himself was very tired and irritable, and Xiao Xiangyu made a big fuss, making him feel that this woman was not at all reasonable and spoiled.
Xiao Xiangyu had a bad temper, and even once scratched Wang Weinian's face.
Every time there was a quarrel, Xiao Xiangyu went to Zhu Jun to complain, and later in a program, Wang Weinian accused Zhu Jun:
"It's not me that you appease every time, it's her."
Zhu Jun smiled and said, "Who made us two fellow countrymen?" What's more, Xiao Xiangyu coaxed it well, and this matter passed. ”
The two were married for 4 years, or divorced because they always quarreled, Wang Weinian went out of the house and gave all his property to Xiao Xiangyu.
He said this about how he felt when he was divorced:
"It was an unforgettable past, I often drove aimlessly in the third ring road, unconsciously I burst into tears, how long the road of the third ring road, how long my tears were."
After the divorce, Wang Weinian was depressed for a long time, until the host Wang Fang invited him to record the "Who Is Talking" program, and he gradually perked up.
Later, he and Wang Fang hosted the emotional program "Big King And Little King", and slowly became an "emotional master" and "China's first male red lady".
After Xiao Xiangyu divorced, she quickly married a rich husband, a few years younger than her, the two were sisters and brothers, and gave birth to a son after marriage.
The family of three was very happy.
Today, the 63-year-old Wang Weinian is still single, and his parents are always urging marriage, but he feels that a person is not bad.
Once, on the show, a woman came to him with a bag and said that it contained 980 million real estate certificates and said that she wanted to marry him.
But Wang Weinian still refused, he was not looking for a rich woman, but a soul mate who was connected with his soul.
Marriage is not blindly giving, but also to learn to "take" from the other half, family relations are like a balance, the more one party pays, if the other party does not know how to cherish.
Then once the balance is broken, it will only lose everything.
Wang Weinian was too good to Xiao Xiangyu and touched himself, but he did not move the other party, and finally turned the small problem into a big trouble.
I still hope that Wang Weinian can also find his own happiness as soon as possible!
