Text/Wei Chen
There is a word in the Chinese idiom called "people speak softly". This means that people of low status will not be valued when they speak.
This society has always been very realistic, no one wants to listen to a loser to say the truth, everyone is more willing to listen to the success of the bragging.
Since ancient times, those who speak and are valued have always been rich or expensive.
Because everyone has inextricably linked interests with him, no matter what they say, they will clap their hands and praise.
Human nature is born to seek advantage and avoid harm. No one wants to offend a person of high status.
People want their way wider and wider, so they are more willing to add icing on the cake, because it is not easy to make mistakes.
When people are down, there are disasters hidden all over their bodies. Nature is shunned by others, so the sober downcast does not try to get close to others, but keeps himself silent.
The truth of this world is always cruel.
The feelings between people can not withstand careful consideration, and do not ask for people when they are down.
People who are willing to help you will take the initiative to come over, and people who are unwilling to help you are useless to ask.
Once life falls into a trough, you must be prepared to start again, and everyone will be rejected by others in this life.
If you can't prove your strength in a short period of time, please manage your emotions and say less about it to accumulate strength for the future comeback.
People should learn to be silent when they are in the trough, do not complain to others when they are down, no one will be willing to be your ferryman.
The only thing that can cross you in this life is yourself.
If even you have to give up on yourself, then no one in this world will really want to believe you.
The ancients said: "Walk to the bottom of the water, sit and watch the clouds rise." "Only with a quiet heart can people survive the ups and downs of life in indifference."
Be sure to be quiet in the trough, no one wants to listen to the chatter complaining.
There are even many people around you waiting to see your jokes, and the most important thing they want is to hear you cry out in pain.
There is no word "easy" in the adult world, if you are not strong and do not work hard, there will be no one to help, if others can not see the investment point, do not see hope naturally will not classify you as the same kind.
Everyone in life will encounter setbacks, the difference is that some people are stagnant in setbacks, and some people cultivate themselves in setbacks.
There are no absolutes in the blessings and misfortunes of this world, and those things that do not seem very good may be the turning point for a person to go to the top from then on.
You must have heard the saying: put to death and reborn.
There is never a real hopeless situation in this world, as long as life does not reach the end, the way forward will not reach the end.
Ups and downs are life, going around is life, success and failure, wonderful and down is everyone can not escape.
People in the trough are suffering deeply, but at the same time they have the opportunity to see themselves and the people around them.
Setbacks in reality give us "golden eyes of fire", as long as you are positive enough not to be depressed, one day you can see everything in this world.
Silence often brings us wisdom, because there are many truths in this world that cannot be expressed in words.
People in the trough are like moving forward in the dark, and only by keeping quiet can they "hear" the surrounding environment.
People are doomed to encounter a long period of difficulties after falling, and at this time, the best way to deal with the world is to let yourself be careful in your words and deeds.
No one is born with good luck and can have a smooth sailing, and lows are part of life.
It is not a shameful thing for a person to fail and fall into a low, but it is only those who cry in the low that will be ridiculed.
A person falls because they don't pay attention to the road under their feet, or they may be due to running too fast in the early stages.
Whatever the reason, you shouldn't stumble after you fall.
Be a person must have sunshine in your heart, when you are in a low valley, do not try to borrow light from others, reality is always disappointing.
Some people may think that emotional catharsis is the best way to solve the problem.
But in fact, the people around you are not necessarily willing to listen to a bad thing.
Sometimes when you speak out about the pain you have endured in the trough, you will not only not be understood by others, but also surrounded by malicious attacks.
As the saying goes, the wall is pushed by everyone.
Once a person loses power or encounters setbacks, there is a high probability that they will be attacked by many people.
This is not because of how much evil this person has done before, but because the jealousy that others have accumulated for many years has finally found a breakthrough.
When people are down, they must not only guard their hearts, but also keep their mouths.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.