Uncle Lover's Introduction:
People often say: "It is difficult to be a man, it is even more difficult to be a man", this sentence is still very reasonable in today's society, not only is it difficult for men to do it, but it is even more difficult for 30-year-old men.
We all come into this world to suffer, otherwise we would not have been born to cry. Seemingly nonsensical words, in fact, also contain a thousand flavors of life.
When men reach the age of 30, they actually enter a new stage, and it is more difficult for men at this stage. The three major difficulties of 30-year-old men, women must understand, if no one understands, then men will live really hard.
Mortgage Car Loan
If a man does not have a good family background and relationships, then his life will really be particularly difficult, not all people are born in Rome, many people are not born from a high starting point, and they need to constantly work hard to obtain basic material conditions.
People have desires, and the most basic desires are derived from life, and now in this society, we all need cars and houses, which are also basic material security. When these cars and houses become a necessity for marriage, the pressure on men does increase. Many people just graduated from such pressure, it is indeed suffocating, especially men to 30 years old, this age of car loans and mortgage pressure, can really crush men.
If no one understands, if no one helps, then it's really hard for men. So when you choose a man, women must not force him to buy a big house and buy a luxury car, as long as you meet the needs, and do not give all the pressure to the man alone. If you choose love, then you have to accompany him to work hard to grow, so that you will be happier.
Job competition
30-year-old men not only have to face the economic pressure of car loans and mortgages, they also have to face their own work, 30-year-old men His work is the rising period, this time his pressure is also very large.
But all men who have pursuits hope that they can be promoted and raised, and at this time they usually force themselves to pay more. Women must not become a drag on him at this time, nor become a stumbling block in his work, and must encourage him to accompany him more, so that men will have a smooth ride.
Women play a very important role around men, and if you do this role well, then your married life will be happier and happier. Women must learn to be considerate of men, not to make men more difficult, and not to let men be overwhelmed by work, because he still has a home behind him that needs his support.
Family relationships
It's really hard for 30-year-old men because they have to handle not only the outside work well, but also the family relationship. These are very difficult, a person is exhausted from working outside, if you go home and have to deal with complicated relationships, it will really make your heart tired.
Women must give men more understanding and understanding, men's pressure comes from family relations, many times the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and children's problems can become the last straw to overwhelm men. Women should not underestimate the pressure of family relationships, if the pressure given to men by family relationships is too great, men may lose motivation to live.
Uncle Epilogue:
Most people in this world need to work hard to live a good life. Men play a very important role in the family, and men around the age of 30 need to be responsible. They are under financial pressure and need to deal with family relationships. No one is easy, so women's understanding and tolerance of each other is especially important for men.