Text/Wei Chen
Most of the troubles in life come from the deepest concerns in the heart.
Because I care, I care about my stomach, because I care, I feel lonely, because I care, I am lost and painful.
Caring is a person's weakness.
The Herdsmen's Advice reads: "Do not discipline yourself, the law of man." "It tells us that we can't ask others by our own standards.
Everyone has their own code of conduct, and we can only demand that we are not qualified to ask others.
Truly powerful people have always lived only in their own world. Other people's lives and other people's joys and sorrows are all other people's, and it cannot determine its own life trajectory.
People always realize after experiencing many things: the more you expect, the more disappointed you are, and thinking too much will only make you sad.
On the road of life, everyone is lonely, and we don't have to worry about ourselves.
The joys and sorrows in life are determined by themselves, and you don't have to care too much about things that have nothing to do with yourself.
There will be many people in this life, and many things will happen every day.
When I get old and look back, I find that there are few things that are really meaningful, and there are few people who are really worth worrying about.
The world is too big, and the gap between people is also very large.
We have no way and no qualification to change the minds of others, instead of struggling, it is better to be ourselves and let everything develop naturally.
Everyone should have a strong heart, otherwise they will not only be tired but also very broken.
The younger people are, the more they care about the evaluation of the outside world, and they always feel that others hide irony of their own behavior inside and outside their words.
So I always feel uneasy, and over time I will fall into a strange circle of anxiety.
In fact, some people's words can not be ignored, we must understand that not all people will always live in our lives.
The person who should really care about a person in this life is the person who can accompany him for a long time.
As you get older, you'll slowly discover that we'll never be able to meet everyone's expectations.
In the eyes of different people, you should have different appearances, but you only have one own body, since you can't take care of everyone's feelings, it is better to simply be yourself.
A person's time and energy are limited, and they should not be wasted on meaningless people and things.
In fact, there is nothing worth remembering in our lives. Entangled in the emotions of the past for a long time, if you are not careful, you will lose your future.
There is no need to pursue too much in life, and keeping the current years is the most important.
There is nothing that no one can forget, nothing that cannot be put down. Some people have seen it, and some things have happened.
Keeping your heart sealed in the past for a long time is unfair to both memories and dreams.
You must understand that if Heaven closes a window for you, it will open a door for you.
People should learn to be content and not to be manipulated by dissatisfied possessiveness.
We must only move forward so that we will not be defeated by time.
Life is a long road. People walking on the road are lonely, but some people are awake enough to endure, and some people are muddy and just enjoy.
All the sufferings eaten in the first half of the journey will be converted into happiness in the second half. And muddy, the final speech is useless in addition to loneliness and suffering.
On the road of life, there will always be one or two people who are not good to you, they are either hypocritical or treacherous, using the economy or involving emotions, as long as you have survived this layer of tribulations, you can see the most beautiful side of life.
Sometimes life has to learn to look down, too real will only make yourself lose the square inch, so that life is tired.
Life is an experience. Whether it is easy or heavy, joy or sorrow, depends on your own heart.
No matter how much trouble there is, as long as it is opened and looked down upon, it will naturally disappear.
Maslow said: "If the mentality changes, the attitude changes; the attitude changes, the habits change; the habits change, the personality changes; the personality changes, and the life changes." ”
Change is a series of actions, and the success of any one person is driven by details.
Being able to live for yourself in this life is the greatest success.
Cut continuously, the reason is still chaotic is sad, as long as it does not let it on the heart, it can not be raised.
Life is very tiring, and there is really no need to waste energy to compete with people and things that make us unhappy.
As a person, you must live the way you want to be, stay away from the people who make you unhappy, and let go of the things that make you entangled.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.