The earth elephants' desire for external control is actually not strong, and their desire to control is based on their own gains and losses, a cost balance. What they ultimately want is the effect of 1+1>2, the only thing they can control is that your burden and your problems do not drag them down, in fact, the most fundamental thing is to control themselves.
The fire elephant's desire to control is often the most obvious, because they need feedback from the outside world to fill their own spiritual gaps, and they need the affirmation, attention, and recognition of others to maintain their own balance, whether it is interpersonal relationships or romantic relationships, so they will more or less hope that the other party can have a part of the time around themselves, and the deeper the feelings, the more they may ask for.
The wind elephant's desire to control... The most fundamental thing about the wind elephant is that I hope that you don't control him, everything else is good to say, control your mood, maybe when the mood is good, it will come back to life for you to love, you can only paste with me, the mood is not good, I can't wait for you to quickly find someone else to play, and it is not very stable, but fundamentally the wind elephant actually wants to be on the basis of a sense of security, and the two people can maintain a comfortable distance.
Water elephants actually do not like the word "control", they also know that many things can not be controlled, water elephants want your "initiative", "conscious", "attraction", "cooperation", take the initiative to ask for or through the control of what you get, even if they get it will feel very hurt, very uneasy, into a kind of paranoia and extreme. So the water elephant's desire to control is not a good thing for them, indicating that they have lost their balance.
Twelve zodiac signs control the desire to rank the leaderboard
Twelfth place: Aquarius wind elephant
When the water bottle encounters people with different views, they will take the initiative to avoid it from afar, and when they encounter the same three views, they will also be afraid of the other party leaving and deliberately maintain a certain distance to get along.
When it comes to Aquarius's desire for control, it is necessary to say that what people like Aquarius hate the most, the most disgusting thing is that someone points at them, someone asks, or wants to control what they do. After all, in the Aquarius mind, everyone is independent and free, so outsiders have no reason to tell them what to do.
In the same way, do not do to others what you do not want, and it must be a principle that Aquarius pursues as always. They are even less likely to punch themselves in the face, allow themselves to go to orders, and force a man to do something. To put it bluntly, if you spend a long time with an Aquarius, you will inevitably understand that they belong to the kind of people who have a very weak desire to control. It's also like, their dating principle, you have your freedom, I have my freedom, and then we attract each other, feel sorry for each other, that's enough.
To put it bluntly, in fact, you have been with Aquarius for a long time, and it is not difficult to find such a point. But all the friendships that exist in them, the interactions in them, are often more inclined to that kind, the friendship of gentlemen. They absolutely do not ask about your personal privacy, and they will not force you to do anything. Of course, unless you make a mistake, or when you are about to make a mistake, they are like a good teacher, standing up to give you guidance.
Eleventh place: Gemini Wind Elephant
Gemini and lovers care about happiness, too much control will make them feel very uncomfortable, or goodbye? Gemini's desire for control is manifested in what they ask their other half to do, or what they can't do, and whether they are bound.
Gemini's bones have always been rebellious. That's right, but whenever you get along with them, it's best to respect each other's wishes. Otherwise, the more you ask, the more you order Gemini to do, the more they resent it, and perhaps the less they will listen to you.
Don't try to bind Gemini, and don't look at geminis who rarely express any inner views, let alone be strong. But to be honest, the self-consciousness in their bones is often quite high, so how can they deny themselves and affirm others?
Even more often, Gemini is on the surface giggling with you, and on the surface you are only looking at you, but as everyone knows, they just feel that you are very interesting in their hearts, and then want to observe you. Therefore, you can't believe it because of their outward obedience, and in the end, you are the only one who will be deceived.
At the same time, the desire for control also makes Gemini feel tormented and bored, and it can only make them faster inside, away from you.
10th place: Libra wind direction
Libra's choice phobia has doomed him to have no desire to control, and once Libra needs to make a decision, he will definitely rely on the advice of those around him.
We never doubted that anyone who gets along with someone like Libra really belongs to that kind of, very comfortable category. This is not only because of Libra's appearance and temperament, but also in their emotional intelligence and cultivation. Of course, the important point we are talking about here is that Libra's desire to control outsiders has always been very weak.
It's like, but when you're with Libra, you can be your truest self without scruples. In the eyes of Libra, everyone is unique, no matter what taste you have, what kind of personality, as long as you don't hide it, it will be quite respectful to them. At the same time, one of the things you experience most when you're with them is that no matter how long you've known them, how deep your relationship is.
But their attitude towards you is always to follow this point, once you make a decision, they are bound to fully support. And definitely not say what is being demanded of you, pointing fingers at you. Especially if you are the object of Libra, you should not worry at all, and you will lose your freedom. Not only that, but they will give you absolute freedom on the basis of determining your feelings for each other, just don't ask questions, don't ask for anything, and give you absolute freedom.
Ninth place: Pisces water elephant
The reason why they are more possessive in their feelings is because they lack of security, and they need to firmly grasp and control the feelings of two people to make them more secure.
Once pisces are in love, they will care about each other very much, and the more they care, the more they are afraid of losing, so their possessiveness will become very strong, and once they find that the other party does not care about themselves, Pisces will worry about whether the other party has changed their hearts and broken up with themselves.
Pisces is also very controlling, but Pisces does not have the guts! I always want to control the people around me to do things according to their own ideas, but reality will still tolerate others.
8th place: Sagittarius Fire Elephant
The free and loose Sagittarius has a different reason for having the dominance of love than other fire signs, and they have nothing to do with control and possessiveness.
Mainly because they are too free-spirited personalities, they often shuttle between various party occasions, and seem to get along well with anyone, but it is difficult to enter their hearts.
Sagittarius in love likes to plan with his own pace of life, resulting in many people often unable to keep up with his footsteps, and can only silently wait in place to let Sagittarius take the initiative to guide.
Seventh place: Cancer water elephant
Cancer is sensitive and suspicious, and very emotional, some things that are small in the eyes of others will be infinitely magnified in the eyes of Cancer, small things will be large, perhaps because of oversensitivity leads to emotional irrationality, Cancer will take this unreasonable trouble, and will always end in farce.
Cancer people may seem to be bad at words, but their inner desire for control is still very strong, especially when facing lovers. Cancers want to be with each other all the time, but it's the case that sometimes problems arise between two people.
Because of the serious suspicion of the disease, Cancer's desire to control is extremely strong, requiring lovers to report their whereabouts in advance and get the sense of security they want, and they also like to manage their lovers' behavior habits.
If you are entangled all day long, it will bring a sense of depression to the other party, and a contradiction will naturally occur after a long time, which will affect the feelings of two people. Therefore, cancer in love, it is best to be able to control themselves and give lovers some free space.
Sixth place: Aries Fire Elephant
Aries's desire to control is not always so strong, but a whim, and the forgetfulness is very large, the temper is up, let you do anything, you must do what "do not rely on me perfunctory me, you will be cold."
Aries is the kind of person who will definitely fight if they want, they will not let themselves miss what they want, whether it is something or people, Aries is what they want to get, it can be said that they have a desire to control.
At this time, Aries usually has a lot of motivation, after having a goal, Aries will not give up easily, what is mine is mine, and no one can take it away is very domineering.
Fifth place: Capricorn Earth Elephant
Capricorn himself is very disciplined and leads by example, so he will feel qualified to ask the other party, but Capricorn only cares about his own people, no matter what you say, you are a stranger.
Although Capricorn is not the kind of person who is very strong and external, it is not possible to underestimate the oppressive force of this part of Capricorn, especially Capricorn men, or even a little machismo, and the control is naturally very strong.
Capricorns are people with a strong sense of purpose, so they will often make plans for themselves, and when they really care about you, you will definitely be in their plans, so they also want you to be able to keep up with their own pace.
Fourth place: Taurus Earth Elephant
On the surface, the clouds are light and the wind is calm, the inner waves are turbulent, floating through a line, but to the mouth of a sentence "Forget it, it doesn't matter, I'm fine" If you believe it, then it will finally give you a big outbreak.
Taurus, who seems to have a duty, is actually not weak in his deep possession. Although sometimes looking sullen without a word, there seems to be no opinion. In fact, Taurus in love likes to plan privately and arrange some things for the other half.
They feel that this is the performance of the lover, and they do not know that maybe their lovers are not acceptable, but after a long time, Taurus silently goes to the active side and firmly holds some dominance.
Third place: Leo Fire Elephant
The lion is not trying to control you, he is thinking that his advice is the best, "I care about you because I care about you for your own good, people who don't care, who cares."
Leo people are natural kings, always very domineering and very strong. Especially in love, the lion must be the dominant player in the two people, and want to know each other's dynamics anytime and anywhere.
Lions want their lovers to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, and they want their lovers to have only themselves in their eyes. Their desire for control is relatively strong, so they often eat some inexplicable flying vinegar, and sometimes even restrict the dress of lovers.
Second place: Scorpio water elephant
Typically, their own object others look at it more, think that it is robbing, always want to know, what you are doing, what you are thinking, if the Scorpion is not possessive of you, that is not so like you, do not take the initiative to report, you are dead.
Scorpio's desire to control is mainly due to their psychology, in the end, Scorpio's lack of security makes it difficult for them to achieve true trust and peace of mind, so being able to control you will make them more psychologically satisfied.
Suppose that when the scorpion knows that you are going out alone, it is actually difficult for them to believe that you really want to go out alone, or they will think about it a lot, so they will either control you from going out, or follow you out, so that they will be at ease.
1st place: Virgo earth elephant
Virgo is a very typical perfectionist, who will impose some of his own behavior habits on his lover, hoping that the other party can also become perfect. And they are not controlling, he is the control body itself, this control is the kind of inadvertent infiltration control, you fight with them, reason, then wait to be brainwashed, eventually you will identify with them, and even a little feel that it is your own unreasonable trouble, they control your thoughts.
They like to manage their lovers, although sometimes they will listen to their lovers' advice, but more often, they will ask each other to cooperate with themselves and follow their own living habits, otherwise they will nagging endlessly. It is very worry-free to have Virgo around, but at the same time it will feel very helpless.
Virgo, like Capricorn, is also the kind of constellation that does not look strong enough, in fact, there is a "mystery" hidden in the bones, and Virgo's desire to control is very strong, probably because of perfectionism, and it is particularly easy to worry about the reason, and the things that others do are always uneasy.
Therefore, Virgo is particularly easy to be like an old mother, pointing, wanting to control what you do, which many Virgos will have, and their obviously bothersome behavior is also particularly easy to be disliked.