Who else hasn't seen this set of comparison charts of Korean network hot discussions?
Female fans of male love beans be like:
Male fans of female love beans be like:
The expressions of the female love beans be like:
Who doesn't want to say that the male love beans are really too blessed.
Uncle Oxy found that although we have been saying that men also need to manage their appearance, compared with women, the cost of men's appearance is still very low and low.
Not only does society not impose strict physical requirements on men, but it even occasionally gives them some additional talent filters.
For example, an ordinary-looking CV will be blown "showbiz pearls" because the voice is very good; men who are not really handsome will be called "ugly and handsome" after becoming rappers...
Zico, Jiang Gary, you can say that their business capabilities are good, but the hardware is really not handsome
A few days ago, Uncle Oxygen talked to everyone about the scarcity of handsome men, and everyone's feedback was very intense.
Today Shu would like to continue to discuss an interesting question with you intellectually:
How many ways can a man get a handsome aura for himself in his life, cover up his natural ugliness, and achieve "painless plastic surgery"?
01
Music is the best medical beauty for men
Let's start with a job like rapping, why it gives men a look filter.
A law: Men who play music in their lives are very good at making beautiful girlfriends, and most of them do not have a "big handsome face".
Even Da Zhang Wei has this kind of body feeling: "Guitar bass drums must be the best medical beauty given to men in this world."
Here I think it can be added: like rock, band, rap, long hair...
The appearance of beautiful women is backward compatible, and most of them will appear in the group of musical men.
Let big S not forget Gu Junye in this life
Even female celebrities who have been in contact with countless big handsome men will not be able to control the magic of "ordinary-looking musical men", and will feel from the bottom of their hearts that "I am just beautiful in appearance, and they are handsome in the sense of personality".
Where does this tolerance of appearance, which is exclusive to men, come from?
I found that compared to the beauty process of women's real guns, the verb "play music" itself, although it does not bring any real appearance bonus to men, has a strong emotional rendering.
Big S falls in love with Gu Junye instantly after watching his concert
Music itself is a medium that exudes strong emotions, it can be sad, happy, wild, happy...
When the emotion conveyed by the music infects the audience, the audience will certainly give the performer a good emotional impression and add an aura.
One of the biggest differences between the sexes in judging the appearance of the opposite sex is that women value emotional values more than men.
Women have requirements for men's appearance.
But if when choosing a mate, the other party exudes talents that they do not have, and has talents that are as rare as their appearance, women will appropriately reduce the requirements for appearance to redeem this personality charm.
Singing out-of-tune women will be impressed by the charm of musical geniuses; rebellious and well-behaved women will also be madly obsessed with watching band men and rap men with a cool attitude.
Over time, some appearance labels that match the identity, such as: sunglasses dirty braids, long gold chain hair, guitar on hand and leather clothes on shoulders, will also become a kind of "handsome man camouflage" that belongs to musical men.
02
Double quotient, is the best skin care product for men
In addition to the appearance filter that men can get by engaging in music, they can also open up through the "high double quotient" persona.
And as long as they are "tall", any one of them can be shaped into a "handsome guy".
For example, if the IQ is very high, it will become a brain sex man, and Koreans call the brain sex man: a man who reflects personal charm by IQ or emotional intelligence, and lets the whole person exude charm.
The fan comments of this member of the Bulletproof Youth League are usually: "The national top 1% learning monster, IQ148, a language genius with perfect mastery of English and Japanese!" 1.3% of the national upper circle of social subjects outside the number of words, 850 to learn from the second year of high school, the hottest brain sex man of this era!
There are also some examples, such as very smart but not handsome male UP owners will have a lot of face powder, e-sports players, male game anchors because of their strength will also say "handsome".
Nei Yu casually blows the sword eyebrow star eye to the family but to mock
It can also be high emotional intelligence.
Men with humorous traits will be particularly popular even if they are ugly, such as cross-talk, talk shows, and a little flat head and a full face will become a super handsome guy.
Talk show top Pombo
Uncle Oxy has a friend, a station sister who works full-time as a certain not handsome cross-talk actor, and each small garden grabs the ticket in the first row to raise the cannon.
In her words, "The longer you chase, the more you will feel that his 'soul is handsome', and they are not so far away compared to the real big handsome guys." ”
In fact, the additional appearance filter on the "brain man" also comes from this.
In the long-term mate selection, most women like men with good appearance and double business.
Xuan Bin and Sun Yizhen, this is the most ideal combination
But the aesthetics in mate selection will also change because of what we need more at this moment.
For example, people who are intellectually introverted have an innate fascination with high-IQ people, and they don't care about appearance at all, which is actually a sexual preference, and the "beauty" they judge is "brain beauty".
Or, for women who will be anxious and insecure, although they love handsome men, they will feel unstable and too far away in the face of a partner with high looks, and the so-called handsome will become a red flag.
Nozomi Sasaki Mae Otokomo
The brain sex men, fully possess the characteristics of a sense of stability, they carry a high IQ, high emotional intelligence ability, but also stimulate Mu Qiang psychology.
The face that can't be pinched and the ordinary face that "makes me happy", many people are biased towards the latter in their actual choices.
Sasaki was later married
It is more funny that because they feel that they are still competitive despite their ordinary appearance, some brain men will not continue to optimize their appearance.
So we will find that the men in life are either very handsome or smart and ugly.
When neither type is disliked by the opposite sex, the best bipothlon becomes rare.
03
Say in the end: I will never agree with the appearance of a talented woman
Whether it is "music" or "double quotient", the kind of tolerance for men's appearance that we are talking about today can be summed up as: lang talent and female appearance.
Because since ancient times, people's expectations for men are not only about appearance, but also about their talents, so talent can become handsome.
But the same appearance plus doesn't work for women.
On the musical talent, the Chinese actor Okafina, became an Asian film queen and also a rapper.
But every time she appeared, she was still sniped at and ridiculed by her mother.
On high intelligence, some time ago, the Oxford genius girl achieved extremely high achievements by hard work.
But what followed was not congratulations, but "How can a girl get first in Oxford?" ”
As a result, she was suspected of her grades by netizens, was pickpocketed with life photos, framed as a micro-businessman, and was scolded as a "xueyuan".
We just said that the Internet will give male ES players a look filter.
However, a female e-sports player in Japan who has won the championship consecutively said that she will be criticized by netizens for her appearance every time she competes, and now she is afraid to take pictures.
Whether it is a musical man or a brain man, we certainly agree with the "appearance is not the whole theory", we hope that personality charm, talent and appearance are equally important.
But why does this appearance plus point belong only to men, but to women, it becomes a beauty priority?
In one rap show, the ugly rappers sneered at a handsome rapper, and the men seemed to be afraid of their relationship with the "vase".
On the other side, the Oxford girl replied in detail to the questions that netizens joked about, just to tell others that "beautiful can also learn well."
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Uncle Oxygen really hopes that since the emphasis on the appearance of the two sexes has never been aligned, then please at least in the talent filter, don't double standard.