A few days ago, Uncle Oxygen was brushed by a god-level beauty.
Wei Huixiao, the first female captain of the Chinese Navy.
You think she's admirable enough as a female captain that she'll be even more jaw-dropping after watching her other experiences.
Inaugural Huawei, Miss Universe Contest Top 10, Tibet Volunteer Teacher, Female Doctor, The First Female Captain of the Chinese Navy...
These single-fold and successful experiences all appeared on her alone like a buff.
Even Peking University was still in Sabanes when she interviewed her, and there was no way to continue Versailles.
From Gu Ailing, who predetermined Ziwei Star, to Wei Huixiao, who did not let her eyebrows be shaved, Uncle Oxygen really found that a female force that was difficult to ignore was emerging in society.
They can either encourage young people to move forward, or they can set an example and become the "female role models in life" in their populations.
And haojie, a female middle school like Wei Huixiao, is also using their stories to tell every girl:
If you want to become an "open and hanging beauty" like them, you only need to stick to three points.
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Open hanging type beauty cultivation manual one
"U-turn" and reboot, no big deal
Wei Huixiao and Gu Ailing have a big opening point: they can not only excel in a certain field, but also do anything, and they can do ANything.
Gu Ailing, a 14-year-old elite representative who won 50 gold medals and developed mathematical, physical, chemical, intellectual, physical, and aesthetic development, needless to say.
Wei Huixiao's experience, which is closer to the starting point of ordinary people, may be better substituted.
Wei Huixiao was born in Baise, Guangxi Province, to an ordinary family that was not wealthy.
At the age of 19, she was admitted to Nanjing University, and after graduating from university, she immediately entered Huawei with excellent results, and in three years, she went from an ordinary employee to a senior vice president secretary of the company.
Predictably, she will be greeted next by a rookie in the workplace, a smooth journey, and an annual salary of millions.
But because she couldn't forget her modeling dream and couldn't give up the academic road, she rushed to the steering wheel and opened the first major "U-turn" in her life.
He gave up the smooth road, left his job, and went to the beauty pageant and graduate school at the same time.
The beauty pageant won the top ten, and the examination took the first place
In the years that followed, she went to graduate school without stopping "tossing".
First he ran to Tibet to support education, and then went to Wenchuan to volunteer.
Later, he became a volunteer for the Beijing Olympic Games.
Rich social experience, excellent performance, outstanding achievements all the way to The Doctor...
Born beautiful, born to be a bully, work smoothly... For ordinary people, one thing is "hard-won, I have to cherish", or, "enough is enough".
But just as Wei Huixiao was filling up the skill points on the road, she suddenly made it clear that compared to the stable future, I still hope that I can "know what I like" in this life.
What she likes is to be a selfless, fearless, disciplined, and strong soldier.
When she took the college entrance examination that year, the school she most wanted to go to was the military school, but she failed to get in
Yes, Wei Huixiao began a second "big U-turn": refusing all the olive branches that were stretched out and volunteering to join the army.
Everybody thought she was crazy because it was really a complete and utter start from scratch.
There was no way to help her pass the Astronomical Navigation Exam with a high degree of education in different majors, and she only scored 62 points in the first exam.
As a navy, she didn't know how to swim, and when she learned to swim, she began to get seasick again.
She didn't even know that the soldiers needed to salute on stage, and she bowed before introducing herself, almost being laughed at for half a year.
What to do? Then learn.
Use 24 hours as 72 hours, consult comrades-in-arms, overcome fear, since it is a "stupid bird", it should fly first, this flight, flew to become China's first female captain.
Huawei executives, top ten beauty pageants, teachers, students, soldiers, Wei Huixiao's every abandonment is not a fantasy, a momentary impulse, or a "poor toss".
Her reboot was based on "doing her best in everything and being the first."
It was difficult to enlist in the army in middle age, and her first thought was not to back down, but to ignore it and first hand in a 200-page cover letter...
"Is a reboot that bad with a U-turn? If you really believe that you will do your best. ”
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Open Hanging Beauty Cultivation Manual II
Time and age, no big deal
Realistically, for women, they dare not turn around in life, mostly because of age concerns, which is nothing wrong, because it is an old problem left over from society.
But the difference between open-hanging beauties is that they don't seem to care about this.
If it is said that doing the right thing at the right time and completing the progress step by step is "excellent", then Wei Huixiao is undoubtedly inferior in this area.
After a roundabout in the workplace, she did not succeed in her graduate school until she was 27 years old.
The maximum age for enlistment was 34, and she was 32 when she decided to make a big U-turn.
When he officially joined the army through inspection, 34-year-old Wei Huixiao belonged to the card point and caught up with the last train.
At that time, the other recruits had just come of age, and she did not have a good foundation of seventeen or eighteen children from scratch, so she often humbly consulted her comrades-in-arms while laughing at herself as an "old man".
And what about marriage?
Wei Huixiao, who has never been married since she was 45 years old, said, "I am married to a warship."
But does age really matter? "Past the best age", is it really too late, or is it an excuse for fear of failure?
Training a good captain usually takes a training growth cycle of 15 to 20 years.
And Wei Huixiao paid a hundred times of effort, from enlisting in the army - getting excellent cadets - to becoming a captain, it only took 6 years.
What about after the age, the open and hanging beauty can manually shorten the gap, "can't reach, just jump a little higher."
What is time and age? Who rules that at a certain age, you should do something?
Some time ago, my uncle saw a news that a 30+ netizen re-chose to go to Japan to go to high school, to relive youth, and re-learn.
This act seems to be deviant, but only after doing it does it, it will not be excluded and questioned by any classmates.
TVB Dahua Dan Chen Huishan, once a hot actress, was later pulled out, and between 2012 and 2017, she switched to an education and training institution to work as an English teacher.
At that time, some people mocked her, saying that she was downcast and that the actress had changed careers at an older age.
But Uncle Oxygen does not understand: a person has a hidden skill in middle age, which can support her to change careers, continue to shine and emerge at work, is this not a very enviable thing???
Age will definitely be the first factor that these open-hanging beauties will abandon on the road to growth.
The 50-year-old aunt can still throw away the identity of "housewife" and travel freely by car.
Actresses who are middle-aged can also chase the roles they want and shape the beauty they want.
All this is "enough to think", it is not a big deal.
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Open hanging beauty cultivation manual three
It is better to echo beauty than to lead beauty
Uncle Oxygen also found a very interesting point in Wei Huixiao's story: the understanding of "gilding" by open-hanging beauties.
Wei Huixiao once said that she knew that there were two values: "One is to wear a very expensive watch to show that you are worth a hundred times." ”
This kind of value is more like Song Zhiya, her idea is to use luxury goods to "gild" herself, so that luxury goods give themselves more value.
Another value is: "A watch that is not expensive, because I have worn it, so it is worth a hundred times." ”
Wei Huixiao agreed with this theory.
In the world of open-hanging beauty, echoing beauty can only be defined, and only by leading beauty can you define your own value.
And this kind of undefined also includes the world's finger-pointing of women.
In "Let's Talk," the warriors are wondering why she didn't get married and when.
She used an analogy: there was a news that there was a global call for people willing to settle on Mars, and even if everyone knew it was a one-way ticket, there were many people who signed up.
And whether I get married or not is like asking me if I'm going to Mars, maybe others want to go, but I think the earth is good.
Vernacular: I'm willing
She said, "I was a soldier first, then a soldier in the ship's unit, and then a female crew member." ”
She said, "I have to compare not only with women, but also with men, not only with domestic, but also with the strongest in the world." ”
Why can't women be the first, can't be open, can't enjoy achievements and honors?
Why is it that a successful woman who appears in a profession where women are rarely women is necessarily questioned?
Really, really, never underestimate the wisdom and potential of women.
There are too many such examples.
Because the stronger the bondage, each "U-turn" they made, the more resolute and powerful they became.