The French sculptor Rodin said: "Beauty is everywhere, and for our eyes, it is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of discovery." "The beauty of nature is like this, the beauty of life is like this, and so is the feelings between husband and wife. For couples, it is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of eyes to find beauty. Love, marriage, family, is the scenery that husband and wife face together, how to appreciate this scenery, how to get emotional satisfaction from appreciation, get spiritual pleasure, this is a problem that couples must think about.
The marriage of Lin Huiyin, a talented woman of the Republic of China, and Liang Sicheng, a great talent, is a good story to appreciate each other. In Liang Sicheng's eyes, Lin Huiyin is a beautiful woman in the world with outstanding talent, especially appreciated, doubly pity, and lifelong care. In lin Huiyin's eyes, Liang Sicheng is knowledgeable, mature and stable, open-minded, and has a man's sense of professionalism and responsibility. The two of them, in this way, discovered beauty from each other and admired it with their hearts, thus obtaining physical and mental pleasure and satisfaction. It is precisely because they have the eyes to discover beauty and they have the emotion of appreciating beauty that they make their lives happier, make their lives more satisfying, and make their careers more successful.
Discovering beauty, appreciating beauty, is an ability and a kind of wisdom. In real life, couples who often quarrel are not good at discovering beauty and do not know how to appreciate beauty, so that feelings become more and more distant, so that life becomes a chicken feather, chicken flying dog jump. In fact, it is not difficult to find beauty, as long as you are careful, as long as you use affection, you will find traces of beauty from the bits and pieces of life. Jiang Defu in the TV series "Parental Love" married a young and beautiful daughter-in-law, on looks, on culture, on cultivation, the contrast between the two people is too big. However, in the years of married life, after experiencing the experience of life, the feelings for each other are getting deeper and deeper, and the appreciation of each other is becoming more and more obvious. This is the benefit of discovering beauty, this is the happiness and joy of appreciating beauty.
Discovering beauty, appreciating beauty, needs to have true feelings, needs to have true love. Whether it is a man or a woman, whether it is a superior or a subordinate, the appreciation between each other must have an emotional basis, must be out of truth, and must have sincerity. Only with such a premise can we discover beauty, appreciate beauty, and enjoy beauty. People are emotional animals, people and people are intersecting, whether in society, or in the family, people deal with people, people get along with people, if you want to achieve harmony, if you want to get happiness, you must know how to appreciate, you must learn to discover. Only in this way can we achieve the harmony of life and we can achieve the consummation of life.