Compared with the short ethics drama in the previous parents, the hit drama "A Year Without a Job" has just been updated to the fourth episode, and it has already gained a lot of iron fans, and the plot starts from multiple dimensions such as the workplace dilemma, life choices, money pressure and emotional tests in the new era, and accurately projects into the real life picture of young people at present, which resonates with countless people.
Seemingly witty and humorous drama, but contains too much life, workplace and emotional philosophy and survival knowledge, through the analysis of the roles in it, written to girls who also have ambitions and pursuits, they understand that both career and feelings are beneficial.
There must be enough love for money
He Yu, played by Yoko Spicy, is a capable workaholic who abandons her birthday boyfriend in order to sign a bill, but the long-term coldness and neglect also allow third-party green tea colleagues to take advantage of it.
Encountered betrayal and breakup, 10 years of feelings in vain, pain and sadness are inevitable, but in the end, in addition to her own good attitude, there are friends and ways to relax around her, but all this, without money, nothing can be done.
So at any time do not give up making money and promotion because of love, and do not fish for three days and dry the net for two days because of interest, and invest different energy and time to think that the results of making money must be different, which is not to let everyone see money as fate, but to pay attention to its importance and invest a certain degree of concentration.
If you have money after falling out of love, at least you can go to the distraction, even because of your excellence or wealth, attract better people closer, but if even the most basic savings can not reach then there is really nothing.
A small rich woman, compared with a poor woman, is more likely to be accepted and appreciated, after all, the maintenance of many relationships needs to be based on economics to achieve. As the rain said, whether it is interest, dreams, trust or freedom, it is all based on economic foundations, otherwise stray dogs will take a detour when they see it, who will dare to approach it.
You can work hard, remember to calm the backyard
"Desperate woman" He Dayu has been firmly and persistently guarding his feelings, desperately fighting for the big house to provide himself with marriageable conditions, but he is getting closer and closer to the goal, and his boyfriend of 10 years has also been snatched away by her female colleagues of green tea.
A woman is positive and deserving of heartache, but she is not completely without problems.
Stubborn dead duck mouth hard, no matter how sad to beat the teeth to swallow alive, even if you hear the heartbreak of the breakup, but also pretend to be calm and put on a cool and indifferent momentum, improper communication, indulging in their own world, which also leads to the accumulation of estrangement between the two sides.
Therefore, if you can, you should also give appropriate explanation and gentleness in the relationship between the sexes, and the self-righteous sacrifice and tolerance may not be the same under the perception of the other party.
Whether it is a man or a woman, there is really nothing wrong with working hard, and it is worthy of respect, but if you want to be happy yourself, then you must remember to appease your own "harem"
After all, home and everything, that person feels respected and loved, and becomes your best comfort and encouragement, so that you can add wings, rather than dragging your feet.
Put down your face and ask for the inside
He Dayu was calculated by the workplace struggle to lose his job, it can be described as a difficult step, in order to get a job opportunity, she seems to be dead skin and faceless, let people see not simply the hardships of life, but also the great wisdom of this woman.
Adults' blow tests may appear at any time, it is easy to be proud when it is smooth, and the courage and attitude after defeat determine whether they can review their lives, fight generously, get the opportunities, and earn the money, which is the dignity of adults.
Low posture is not to not have a face without shame, but to properly put down the so-called face, it is possible to win their own Lizi.
Don't underestimate anyone around you
Jin Chengwu and He Xiaoyu, one is a property employee who spends all day to pay off debts, and the other is the unemployed vagrant daughter of the vice captain of the mother's dance team, two seemingly worthless peers, but will play a big role in future life and career.
Jin Chengwu knows that girls need to promote self-media, so he has found his own good buddies to help, and has become a very important link in the future realization and career foundation, he will be more responsive, agree to be an exclusive video male lead.
Don't underestimate anyone who appears around you, he can bring you more value than you think, and become the shareholder who helps you at any time.
Sad can be, don't be too long
You can be unhappy about unhappiness in the workplace or unemployment, you can also be angry and bitter because of the betrayal of love, sadness is OK, but remember not too long.
Eat a big meal, drink late at night until you get drunk, remember to cheer yourself up after venting, the sun will not stop rising because of anyone's sadness, and the days will not stagnate because you are sad, but will be because of the loss of too long.
Riding the speed of sadness, I decided to start with a new life, and not to stay in place for too long, because no one really likes it, and no one will really feel sad.
Making money from rich people can help you make a lot of money
No one does not want to make more money, live a better life, and get along with better people, and the most critical way is not your stubborn efforts, but the effort to the right direction, you have to admit that to make money from rich people, it is easier to make a lot of money, and customers like Jin Chengwu, even if it is difficult to get commissions, once there is a problem, they will be entangled in daily life.
Therefore, sometimes making money also requires planning circles, and the direction is right, in order to make yourself more successful.
Girls should "pretend" to pretend
Tang Rui is a standard green tea woman, she can pretend to be weak or even falsify evidence of being slapped in order to get a man's heart, of course, these behaviors are disgraceful.
Compared with the heroine's honesty and sincerity, it seems to be somewhat unpleasant, strong, domineering, and sharp, and no one can see that she is a victim.
A woman's biggest weapon is not strong, but innate gentleness, women who are good at using softness, women who know how to self-groom, and can always get more love and care.
Girls should "pretend" to pretend, that is not hypocrisy, but a strategy for getting along, and it is only when it is properly manipulated that they can get more control over the relationship.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.