There is a saying that goes like this:
"Men are more dedicated animals, and no matter what age they are, they always like 18-year-old women."
Everyone thinks that men just like young and beautiful women, no matter when and where, put beauty first, and will sacrifice everything because of beautiful women.
In fact, sometimes what we see is not the real reason, the reason why a man is attracted to this woman, and has been attracted to this woman for a long time, not only because of this woman's good looks, but because of other reasons.
Professor Chen Guo of Fudan University said:
"Some people love more and more after they understand it; some people don't love after they understand it."
So in the eyes of men, attractive women are women with two brushes, and only such a woman can firmly grasp this man and let this man resist the temptation of the outside world.
And the attraction of a woman is nothing more than these two words: opinion.
01.
A woman with an opinion, a goal
If a woman has an opinion, then the woman has a goal.
Just like in ancient times, people always thought that girls should marry early, educate their children at home, take care of their husbands, and everything else does not have to be managed.
And there is such a sentence:
"A woman's talentlessness is virtue."
Most women feel that this kind of life is the life they want, however, in ancient times, there were also many opinionated girls, and these girls made themselves different from others through their own intelligence.
For example, Zhuo Wenjun, this person is not only a talented woman, but also a husband who has taken a leave of absence, and is really a woman with an opinion and a goal.
Nowadays it is no longer ancient, but the influence of ancient ideas on us is deep-rooted, at this time, the outside world's finger-pointing to us has also affected us, thinking that women should take care of the family, and women should put their husbands first.
However, many girls do not think so, this kind of woman does not listen to others, will position herself as a woman with an opinion, in the career also has its own goals, one day, when a woman struggles in the career, meet a man, two like-minded people will also be together, will also let each other look at themselves.
A woman's performance in her career can also attract this man, and it will also make some men who love their careers fall in love with this woman.
Therefore, it is very important to have an opinion and have its own goals.
02.
A woman with an opinion will do things
If a woman has an opinion, then this woman will do things, and when she encounters some difficulties in the family, she does not just expect the man to be able to stand alone.
This social pressure is very large, men not only have to work outside, sometimes also have to take care of their families, so if a woman has an opinion and can do things, she will solve problems for men, and will also become a man's help.
There are some women who have the initiative to do things, and have a good job, so this woman will also make a lot of contributions to the family, and will also reduce a lot of burden on the man.
So women sometimes have to be gentle, seem to be more obedient, but sometimes encounter important things, or to put up their own posture, when you put up their own driving, men will feel that you and other women are different, this is the so-called women who can go up to the hall and get down to the kitchen.
After you have an opinion to do things, you are with men, men will also give you three points, all things are not arranged by this man for you, you also know how to do it.
Therefore, girls should exercise their ability to do things from an early age, and everyone thinks that girls need to be rich, however, this kind of wealth should be a kind of spiritual abundance, teaching this girl the truth of how to deal with people.
We must also teach this girl how to live, and we must also teach this girl how to integrate into a strange big family in the future life, so that after the girl encounters some things, she cannot suffer losses.
If you think that the richness of a girl is only materially satisfied, let this woman spend flowers, then this girl will definitely suffer losses in later life.
Girls think that money is not important, they will find a poor boy, and even give money to men, do things without opinion, it is easy to suffer losses in the relationship.
03.
A woman with an opinion is not trapped by love
A woman with an opinion is often not moved by love, and these women are not trapped by love.
But these women are also flesh and blood, when they meet a person they like, they also know how to pursue each other, when they chase this man in their hands, women will also treat each other sincerely, and two people will also live happily.
Such women often know what kind of man they want, if after meeting such a man, women will firmly grasp, if they can't meet, this woman will also let herself live well, and will not be particularly stubborn to hang on a tree.
Such a woman is a woman who wants to be open, and after others encounter some things, they need a person to enlighten themselves, but a woman with an opinion, if she encounters some bad things, this woman has many ways to solve.
Although sometimes there will be a lot of psychological pressure, but there is always a time when things are solved, this kind of woman is not seeking people in her career, and she does not seek people in her psychology.
A good life only requires a woman to struggle alone, when you reach a certain height alone, you can match people of higher heights, and the story of Cinderella and the prince will always be a thing of the past.
And it is living in fairy tales, more distant than our current life, the adult world is not a fairy tale world, but chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, at the same time, but also grow into the sweet and sour in life.
Therefore, women must be sober, do not blind their eyes to love, so they give up everything, and even turn against their parents at home.
There are some people around me, and the people in the family do not agree to be with their boyfriends, and this girl stole the household registration book in the family, got a marriage license with her boyfriend, and finally was abandoned by others, which is a very tragic thing.
Women always hope to find a man with an opinion, because when they find a man with an opinion, they have something to rely on when they do things, and when they are confused in their hearts, there is also a person around them who silently enlightens you.
In fact, men sometimes have such a psychological state, but also hope to meet a woman with opinions, this kind of woman will make herself worry-free, but also let herself do more with less.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, you must have an opinion, when you are in the clouds, when you encounter some things and can't decide, when you have no goal and direction, your personality charm will be greatly reduced.