Since ancient times, beautiful women love heroes, but in this era of peace, what qualities does a man have to become a "hero" in the hearts of girls? Why do some people look mediocre, or even less capable than you, but they are full of peach blossoms and hug beautiful people; and although you are very good, you are in your thirties, or a single dog? It's not just because of fate, but there may be certain traits missing from you, because the men girls like have certain common characteristics.
The first is to be responsible. The reason why a man is called a man is that he has an iron shoulder, can endure hardships, and hold up a piece of the sky, which is the true color of men, and it is also the basic positioning of men in traditional couple relationships. A responsible man, in the face of complex reality, difficult challenges, do not avoid, do not escape, actively look for ways, solve problems, give girls enough sense of security. A man, no matter rich or poor, as long as he has the spirit of responsibility, he must seize the opportunity at a certain time, a blockbuster, it is difficult to please girls.
The second is to be able to chat. As the saying goes, girls are to be coaxed. Women are more emotional, and their understanding of people is basically to check their words, observe their deeds, and distinguish their voices. Two people getting along is actually a kind of communication, a talking boy, can be good at observing the environment, through the chat details of the girl's psychology at all times, according to the girl's mind, the words to the point. Every time it comes to the heart, it will make people feel like a spring breeze. Most people like to enjoy this feeling. Many scumbags rely on sweet words to make girls happy, and finally succeed. Can chat, is a kind of ability, but also a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, talk about love needs, work, life is more needed.
Third, it will be considerate. Thoughtfulness is to stand in the girl's point of view and take care of the details. For most girls, it is not that you have to have a house and a car to choose you, but that you feel that you can rely on it and are willing to fight with you. This dependence is the meticulous consideration of life and spirit. This kind of thoughtfulness is first of all a kind of empathy, from the girl's point of view, treating her as an equal and beloved member, and relieving her of her difficulties. Such as a cup of hot tea when tired, a few words of encouragement when in pain, a reassuring listening when crying, and so on.
Fourth, it will be flexible. As the saying goes, men are not bad and women are not loved. This kind of bad is not really bad, but a kind of initiative and daring to act. Girls are originally reserved and conservative, and your initiative makes her feel that she is very welcome, giving him a sense of confidence. A man is too honest, does not know how to be flexible, will not be humorous, although people feel that there is no bad eye, reliable, but also feel boring. Because two people get along, the most fundamental thing is to be happy. Your "bad" is the process of actively breaking the boundaries of your previous life and psychology, integrating and expanding with each other.