Many boys in the pursuit of girls, always can not help but be good to girls, trying to get the other party's good feelings by sending gifts, sending red envelopes, etc., but they do not know that most girls will not accept the good of boys for no reason, so they are often rejected by girls on the grounds of "no merit", and the meaning of this sentence girls wants to express is "I have not done anything beneficial to you, can not accept your kindness to me." "In this case, the atmosphere is not to mention how awkward it is. So how to reply to resolve the embarrassment?
1. What is merit? What is Lu? Kick her in the face and get her answers.
2. This is the cause, and it is my cause.
This is my little bit of caution and does not mean what I think of you
3, who said that you have no credit, you let me stand in front of you and see your beautiful face is your greatest credit.
4, thousands of rivers and mountains are always love, give a chance to do it. Explain that this girl should be quite realistic, it doesn't matter, you can be nice to her, and then she may also make up the makeup and come back, this is also a kind of communication, but you don't want to be too good to her, so that she will be stressed.
5. Yes! No one can attack without hesitation. That's why you're so domineering! Definitely attack!
6, you have merit, you appear in my life is your work.
7, every day when talking to you, I am very happy, you bring me happiness, every time what do you add, you are the hero in my heart, how can there be no merit, send you, I will find you every day to play Oh!
8, it may also be that girls are not casually greedy and cheap people, you say that there is something to ask her to help, as for what, is it counted as dating with you?
9, there are two possibilities, one is that she does not accept you, feel uneasy about taking your things. The second is that she is very hypocritical, wanting to show that she is very independent, but in fact she wants to indulge. How to answer it depends on what the girl means.
10. What am I going to ask you for help? I'm embarrassed to say that. (Girls will ask you what you want her to help you, you are free to play, in short, let her accept your heart)
You know, except for some green tea scum women, no girl will accept a boy's goodness for no reason, and it is easy to expose the sense of demand for the girl for no reason, so that the other party has a withdrawn psychology, so that the scene at that time becomes very embarrassing. Therefore, when facing a girl who rejects your goodness with "no merit", you may wish to try to use the above replies to resolve the embarrassing situation.
It is often heard that some boys say that they don't know what to call when they talk with girls, and the scene was once very embarrassing. Here are some personal advice for gentlemen:
What to pay attention to to avoid awkward chats:
First, don't talk about colorful passages
It is that the occasional meat paragraph between friends can indeed increase the fun of chatting, and can also make each other happy, but this practice does not work when chatting with girls, because most girls are more reserved, and they do not want others to feel that they are a very casual woman. If you often talk about some very meaty topics in the chat, she will often choose not to chat with you because she is not embarrassed.
Second, learn to listen and be an audience
The perfect chat atmosphere is that both people can participate in the topic of conversation, if you are alone there talking non-stop, and the girl can not interject, she has no desire to talk to you. So when chatting, try not to talk about yourself, learn to guide girls to talk more, when you find that she is talking to you, you can also appropriately reduce the number of times you speak, be a qualified audience, than non-stop more useful.
How to chat with girls:
First, talk about food
Most women have a foodie heart, especially no resistance to food with full color and flavor, if you can explore her taste, it is the icing on the cake, which can give women great enjoyment.
Second, talk about emotions
Women are inherently more emotional, and emotions are very touching for women. Even if you watch TV, cry when you watch it, and laugh when you cry, it's because women are particularly sensitive to emotions. So you, talk about your emotions, her emotions, your emotions with her, and your feelings later on.
Third, talk about pets
Women mostly have little resistance to stuffed animals, such as cats and dogs. This weak and cute pet can stimulate the motherhood of the woman herself, and she can't help but want to spoil it well. Go to her with your little pet, she strokes the pet's head, you stroke her hair.
Of course, these points I said can only be used as a reference, in short, it is necessary to be shrewd. First of all, to understand and know some of her hobbies and interests, and then to find some topics to talk to her, if she also has good feelings for you, she will be very willing to talk to you, otherwise, she does not have a good feeling for you. I don't want to talk to you off and on.