After seventy years of age, what aspects are the most afraid of, only the elderly who are at the corresponding age can say why.
Ms. A, 71 years old, the people who were most afraid of giving birth to me were all gone. My father left forever many years ago, and now my mother is still alive in the world, but with my age, my mother is getting older, and my body is getting bigger and bigger than before, it is simply living today, do you know if there is a tomorrow, my mother is now living a day, counting a day, earning a day.
As long as one of my parents is still alive, I feel as if I am still a child, and I feel that I have not grown old. I was afraid that when my mother really had to leave me, my life would declare that there was no way to come, only a desolate way back. There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure, it is not so much to serve the parents well to fulfill the parents, but to say that it is to complete oneself. In the world, parents are the second closest people, and no one dares to become the first close person. My mother's departure may be joyful in the eyes of outsiders, but it still hurts my heart. I am afraid of losing my mother, so I will do it and cherish it in my mother's lifetime, after all, the mother-daughter relationship is already very little.
Mr. B, 75 years old, I am most afraid of experiencing a life and death parting with my wife, whether I go first or my wife goes first, it is a sad and painful separation. Decades of marriage, encountered ups and downs, cried, laughed and quarreled with each other, and then look back as if they were young yesterday. It's almost like they both get old in the blink of an eye, and they can only sigh where time has gone.
The life of losing my wife is neither willing nor dare to think, I think my wife will still feel the same way. Therefore, I rarely talk about life and death with my wife, but the sky is not what people want, and my wife's body has taken a sharp turn in the past two years, and I am afraid that my wife will never say goodbye to me in the near future. At that time, I can only live alone, I can't say a few words all day long, the frequency of going out is less, the time away from home is shorter, and I will still be wrapped in emptiness and loneliness at home, and I can only live without a wife for the rest of my life.
Ms. C, 80 years old, I have no wife, the rest of my life can only count on my children, I am afraid that my children will say unfilial words, do unfilial behavior, although I can go against the grain, but I am afraid that my children will be laughed at by outsiders, and my children are not good people.
My body is already weak, plus I am old, I can not do without my children in front of the bed, if the children are afraid of trouble, or even abandon me, there is a situation of losing filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, it will be the last scene I want to see in my lifetime, which shows that I have failed to raise my children, but also shows that my children are white-eyed wolves.
Conclusion: Appropriate fear is to think of danger in times of peace, appropriate fear is to take precautions, and appropriate fear is to have a sense of crisis. Mental preparation in advance can not only comfort yourself in advance, but also enlighten yourself in advance.
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