Text/Flying Fish
Introduction: Write a paragraph to yourself, read the heartache.
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Since ancient times, the gods and immortals have no other way, only to be happy and not to be sad. The sky has unpredictable storms, people have bad luck, and no one can influence the arrangement of fate. Whether it is joy or sorrow, or gain or loss of cause and effect, just go with the flow. The sunrise sets in the East China Sea, and the sorrow is also a day, and the joy is also a day. Three thousand troubles, it is better to smile lightly.
I am reminded of a sentence written by Schopenhauer in The Wisdom of Life: Our happiness depends on our pleasant emotions, and the pleasant emotions depend on the health of our bodies.
It can be seen that mood affects health, and our views and attitudes about things determine our mood.
In fact, you have to tell yourself that what you have lived in life is the mood, and what you live is the mentality. A good attitude will make the mood good. Look at everything a little, don't think about it, don't get angry, and keep a good attitude to stay away from troubles.
If the mind is good, the heart is not tired, and the heart is quiet. The mentality is not good, and the heart is chaotic.
The best health in life is to maintain a good attitude, not pessimistic, not complaining, figured it out, and the mood will naturally get better.
How many people live in pain forever because of a bad mentality, and later understand that a person's heart, only optimistic, upward, always looking forward, keep smiling, in order to make themselves happy.
Happiness is actually very simple, simple life, contentment and happiness, is the true meaning of life.
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Life, to write a paragraph to yourself, to tell yourself, do not have to rely on others, you are also a landscape.
There is a saying that you are upstairs looking at the scenery, and the people who are watching the scenery are watching you on the boat.
In fact, everyone is a landscape, we do not have to envy others, do not have to rely on, you also have your own shining point, we have to have confidence in ourselves, do not have to live too humble, raise the sails of self-confidence, you can also reach the other side of life.
In fact, the more you envy others, the more you will make yourself unhappy.
We have our own lives, there is no need to imitate others, let alone envy others, you have your happiness, others have the happiness of others, if we only envy the happiness of others, then we will reduce happiness.
In fact, everyone has a difficult scripture to read, and what you see is often only the surface.
Instead of envying others, it is better to live your own life. As Mader said, "The landscape we often see is that a person is always looking up to and envying the happiness of others, and when he looks back, he finds that he is being looked up to and envied by others." In fact, everyone is happy. It's just that your happiness is often felt in the hearts of others. ”
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Write a paragraph to tell yourself that life is actually suitable for you, is the best.
Life does not have to be compared, nor does it have to be a decisive victory, life is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, the temperature is suitable for themselves.
Whether the shoes fit or not, it is not that others have the final say, but you have tried it yourself to know that the shoes are uncomfortable, not that you can see it by looking at it, but it is true to wear it to feel yourself.
Things that are not suitable for themselves do not have to be forced, and things that make them uncomfortable will not necessarily be, although life is not perfect, but what suits them is true.
In fact, if you have money and no money, you can live a good life, you have your own way of life, you have no money and no money, each of us has our own way of life, according to the way you like to live, in order to find the happiness that really belongs to you.
Life is full of flavors, life is a chicken feather, all kinds of unsatisfactory, unsatisfactory, everyone has their own unspeakable secrets, do a good job, adjust the temperature they need, and live comfortably.
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Write a paragraph to tell yourself not to overestimate your place in anyone's heart.
It's not that you think you're well-connected, it's really networked.
In fact, some people say, "Connections are not those who can help you, but people you can help."
It's not that the more friends you have, the more paths you have in life, because not everyone is really good to you, and those who need you to cater to, to please, to be courteous, are actually just playing tricks with you.
The person who can really reach out to you in your most difficult times can become your real network.
Don't overestimate your place in other people's hearts or you'll get embarrassed. Because in some people's minds, you are just an ordinary friend, it is not worth him to pay so much for you, and you think that you are the best friend, so after you give stupidly, in fact, others do not take you seriously.
When others look for you, you don't refuse anything, you are willing to do anything, but when you look for others, others always have an excuse to refuse, so not all friends are real friends.
In this life, people must always learn to digest themselves, learn to be alone, reduce expectations, do not overestimate, and do not underestimate, just do a good job.
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In the "Augmentation of the Sages", it is said, "Life is one life, grass is born in a spring, it comes like wind and rain, and it goes like dust." ”
Life is not easy, we must know how to cherish the present, live in the present, do not wait for loss to know to cherish.
Life is impermanent, the world is unpredictable, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the people around you, often many times, only the people around you care most about you, are the people who really help you, and are also the people who are really good to you.
You have to learn to be kind to the people around you, tell yourself that you know how to be grateful and cherish, and you deserve to have it.
There is a saying: "There are always regrets in the world, until we lose, we know how to cherish." ”
In this life, people are actually in the love and love of the people around them, we must cherish our family, lovers, and good friends, do not throw negative emotions to them, do not get angry with them, do not miss at an age that does not understand things, because they do not know how to cherish, resulting in regret and regret in this life.
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