Text/Wei Chen
The less experienced people are, the more they can't let go of trivial things.
Only after experiencing great winds and waves can people understand that this life is not a matter except life and death.
Nan Huaijin said: "Three thousand years of reading history, no other fame and fortune, ninety thousand miles of enlightenment, and finally return to the poetry and wine pastoral." ”
Life is a huge reincarnation, and many seemingly different things end up with the same ending.
In life, the most rare thing is to cultivate an ordinary heart.
Life comes and goes, and no one can stay in one place for long. We will eventually grow old, but time will remain the same.
Along the way, no matter how much suffering and grievances you have suffered, you don't have to tell others. There are indeed many people with empathy ability, but there are really not many people who are willing to empathize.
Everyone has their own things to be busy with, and they no longer have the strength to take care of the desolation of others.
When a person becomes more and more silent, it proves that his heart is becoming more and more mature.
Silence is a manifestation of maturity, because I have looked down on many things and seen many people clearly, so I have chosen to stop making noise, no longer being loud, and silently walking the road for the rest of my life.
Life is a mirror, and any picture you see is the light and shadow that life has specially pushed for you to see.
Su Dongpo said: "People are like Qiu Honglai with letters, and things are like spring dreams without a trace." ”
Only when people can let go of the past can they better embrace the future.
After all, the past has gone away, and why bother.
Let yourself be relieved, look forward to the future with joy, and maybe one day life can really be as you expect.
In the end, life is just a big dream. Whether the dream is happy or sad, one day you will wake up.
Some people only have one dream in their lives, so that they can be immersed in it for a long time, physically and mentally exhausted.
Some people are smarter, and they wake up quickly when they can't dream their favorite scenes, and then look for the next dream.
Since ancient times, it has been a sacrifice to have it. Letting go does not mean losing, it is just an ordinary turning point. Some things seem precious, put down and then look back, to see that it is not too perfect.
For most people, the pain of this life comes from attachment and the inability to let go of the troubles.
When a person draws his life as a prison, he no longer knows what is beautiful.
A life that knows how to let go is a life of ease. Wise people are always far-sighted and calm.
Some people may feel that letting go is a terrible thing, but in fact letting go is not terrible, a person's life is so long, choose a mood, can not experience other types.
When people are young, the biggest problem is that they know too little and think too much.
If a person always thinks a lot and his brain is very chaotic, it is easy to enlarge the original small things infinitely, thus tying himself to a troubled life.
A good mindset is to go with the flow and not think too much about it.
Life is like this, thinking too much will only make you miserable.
There are some things you accept or don't accept, it's all there and can't be changed.
Some people you recognize or do not recognize, the other party will not leave, this is the reality of helplessness.
The reason why a person feels tired and painful is because there are too many ideas and they cannot be realized.
Life is not complicated, what is really complicated is the human heart. You can't be too persistent, and being too persistent will be a disaster.
Mo Yan once said: "Deliberately pleasing people, what is damaged can only be the dignity of the self." "Each of us lives for our dignity.
People who are willing to get along with you will not be embarrassed for you, and people who are unwilling to get along with you will not be accustomed to you in everything.
Too many people are unhappy because they expect a perfect result, yet there is never perfection in this world. Accepting flaws is not only tolerance for the world, but also letting go of oneself.
Only when people let go of the past first, can the world let you go.
We are already in an equal exchange with life, and if you love it, it loves you.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.