Text/Moran
In this society, many people may not reach middle age and live themselves as a greasy person.
Life, in fact, needs self-discipline, the more self-discipline you are, the more free you are, greasy ruin not only your own life, but also affect the people around you.
As an adult, although life is very tired, you must also have requirements for yourself, do not blindly let yourself go.
Only when a person maintains a good state will he have a good life. Therefore, in order to avoid middle-aged greasy, these suggestions must be remembered.
Don't be a fat guy who only plays with his phone
In fact, people are inert and don't want to work hard. But if you don't work hard, you will only be eliminated. Everyone longs to lie flat, to do nothing, to lie there.
Many people are so intermittently hesitant and ambitious, continue to eat and die, such a life, in the end, will only destroy themselves.
People must learn self-discipline, discipline themselves, regardless of gender, when you maintain a healthy body, you will find that your world is full of light.
And those who cannot control themselves are destined to be replaced. If people don't be cruel to themselves, then society will be more cruel.
In this society, people are not friendly to fat people, on the contrary, you maintain a good body shape and other people's attitude towards you may be different.
Although the image is your own business, but sometimes your image will affect your life, there is always nothing wrong with maintaining healthy self-discipline.
The more you know how to discipline yourself, the more life will be friendly to you.
Don't stop learning, stop improving
In fact, this life of a person is a process of transformation. It is said that living to be old and learning to be old, only by constantly maintaining progress, people are not good at being eliminated by society.
This society is very realistic, and if you don't work hard, someone will always replace you. Learning is not just reading books, but also learning all kinds of things that can make you better.
Only by staying in the best condition can a person live the way he wants to be.
The purpose of learning is not to show others, but a kind of precipitation in your own heart, and doing what you want to do is a way to enrich yourself.
People always have to do something meaningful to support a trivial life.
You can learn from others, and you can find a way that suits you through what you hear and see.
Therefore, only by maintaining progress will people get better and better. If a person does not learn for a long time, he will only be left behind, and eventually he will become the most hated look of himself.
Don't bother others
As a mature middle-aged person, at least learn to take responsibility for yourself. No matter what happens, first find a way to solve it yourself, no one in this society has the obligation to help you.
Knowing how to rely on their own strength to solve problems, not overly dependent on others, trouble others is a very unwise thing.
In fact, many times, when you go to trouble others, it is a kind of disturbance to others, but some people will not be so obvious.
As an adult, you must have a minimum of cognition, many things do not need others to say, do it yourself.
Maybe you're simply asking for help, or even just need to talk to someone, but don't bother the other person either.
Some people are not good at refusing, but you can't ask for anything, as a middle-aged person, you must understand the sophistication of people, try not to trouble others, and handle your own affairs.
In this world, there are not so many people who really want to be good for you from the bottom of their hearts, so try to do their own things and solve problems by their own ability.
Don't live in the past all the time
One is to live in the present and in front of one's eyes, not in the past.
You can reminisce about the past, but don't live in the memories of the past all the time, because when you immerse yourself in the past, you will lose the movement of the present.
The things of the past have passed, and no matter how beautiful the past is, it does not represent the present.
The past only represents the past, never determines the present, you live in the past, you will ignore the present time.
People must always learn to look forward, work hard for the present, the beauty of the past remains in the heart, appropriate memories can be, but do not affect the current life.
There may be people who don't like to listen and always like to come according to their own wishes, but memories are useless and can't solve your current life.
Therefore, the more you reminisce, the easier it is to sink, and only by living in the present and enjoying the present can you live up to time.
summary:
There are many things that need to be done and borne by people in middle age, but we must not lose ourselves.
No matter how hard and tired you are, you must keep yourself in a good state, and only those who know how to control themselves can control their lives.
Hopefully, each of us can live the way we want to be, rejecting greasiness and anxiety.