"Read to your children and give them a warm and happy reading time."
From now on, the Jiangxi Family Education Guidance Center will select a classic story picture book every day. With the fragrance of books as a companion, with wisdom, let us enjoy the parent-child reading time together, and accompany the children to grow up happily.
Parent-child reading works today
"It's Okay to Be Angry"
His face was red like Guan Gong's, a big fire dragon erupted from his nose, and his heart was pounding, fluttering, fluttering! You're angry, aren't you? Take a deep breath, exhale slowly, and think quietly, why are you angry?
Because Mom is nagging?
Originally, I only wanted to rub for a little while, but my mother nagged me, so I would be a grinding ghost. It's you who have too much fun and forget the important things! Your mother reminds you that she is afraid that you will waste time and that she wants you to develop good habits.
So don't get angry, think about it, you forgot to do what you should do.
Because mom compares you to other kids?
When you are compared, everyone will be angry, but does your mother really think that you are inferior to other children? No, no, not really! In mom's heart, you will always be her favorite child, and mom does this because everyone has their own strengths and wants you to learn more from other children.
So don't get angry, think about it: "Mom wants me to learn what the strengths of children." ”
Because it is ignored by adults?
Of course, adults will be angry, maybe adults are talking about important things, hearing you talk without reaction, in fact, pretend not to hear, because some things do not need children to know.
If the adults are not talking about important things, when they are ignored, please boldly step forward, smile at the adults and say, "Hey, I want to talk to you." ”
Because friends are saying bad things behind their backs?
When encountering this kind of thing, everyone will be angry. Please bear with it first, go to the person concerned, maybe it is a misunderstanding or not. If he admits it, you say to him seriously, "The next time you think I'm at fault, tell me in person." ”
Because younger siblings are too naughty?
You want everything to go well and beautifully, but the little baby makes a mess of the room, maybe she is naughty and cries endlessly. Wouldn't you think it would be nice if you didn't have a baby?
At this time, you may wish to think about it from another angle: "If I were a baby, what would I want my brother to do to me?" ”
Because of being bullied by children?
If you are really angry, you should let them all know, even if you are afraid to tremble, you must be brave to say: "I am angry, you can't do this in the future!" ”
Because the teacher misunderstood you?
If you don't do anything wrong, but the teacher criticizes you, of course, he will be angry and sad. Did the teacher do it because he hated you, or did he get things wrong for a moment?
Although I was very angry at this time, I also had to say to the teacher: "The teacher is not what you think..."
Because Dad didn't keep the agreement?
He said he would buy you toys and accompany you to the playground, but Dad didn't do it. It's Dad's fault for not keeping the agreement, and it's normal for you to get angry. But Dad didn't want to do that either, and sometimes work would be very busy.
So baby, don't be angry, believe in Daddy's love, be considerate of Daddy's hardships, smile and say to Daddy: "Daddy, when you are free, you must make up our agreement!" ”
"Am I an impatient child?"
"Am I a kid with no stomach?"
Don't doubt yourself just because you're angry.
Whoever has been wronged or encounters something unpleasant will be angry, mom and dad are the same, teachers and other children are the same, angry is actually okay.
When you are angry, it is inappropriate to blindly tolerate it! When you're angry, be sure to tell the other person.
If you suppress your anger and endure it, the flame in your heart will swell, and maybe the next second you meet someone, you will spread your anger on others.
So when you're angry, be honest and tell the other person, "I'm really angry right now!" ”
Then calm down and think about it, why am I angry? Think clearly about the problem first, and then work hard to solve the problem.
If you are angry, you can't throw things away, you can't find someone to be angry, you can't let others be affected, that will only hurt your feelings. Here's a good way to do it: Get out of the scene quickly.
Sometimes, the anger in my heart is difficult to extinguish, and although I try to restrain myself, because I am too angry, I still can't help but lose my temper.
What other good ways to curb anger? The best thing to do is to forgive the person who made you angry, and forgiveness is a miracle eraser to eliminate anger!
It's okay to be angry!
It's not a big deal to be angry, it's not a big deal to be angry, and the emotion of being angry is actually really normal.
Source: Xinjiang Youth Publishing House
Founded in 2014, Jiangxi Family Education Guidance Center, as a non-governmental enterprise sponsored by Jiangxi Daily and Jiangxi Provincial Women's Federation, has long been in various cities, counties, villages and communities to carry out a series of family education lectures, and is committed to guiding parents to bring babies and raise babies scientifically according to law, helping children grow up safely, healthily and happily, and promoting the healthy development of family education in Jiangxi Province.
On June 4, 2021, lecturers from Jiangxi Family Education Guidance Center held a special lecture on "Caring for Girls and Caring for Growth" at Xinchang Seven Primary School in Yifeng County, Yichun City
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