In the eyes of many mothers, pacifiers are like flood beasts.
After the baby is born, the sucking action is innate, and they don't need anyone to teach them, as long as the nipple or the mother's nipple is put in their mouth, they can suck naturally.
Such behavior occurs not only to meet one's own physical needs, but also partly to meet one's own psychological needs. Satisfy the needs of the mouth through sucking movements in order to get a sense of security.
Pacifiers have long been seen as a flood beast
After giving birth to a child, Xiao Gao wanted to quickly return to his job, after all, before giving birth to a child, he was the senior leader of the company and played a pivotal role in the company.
Therefore, after he has left the confinement, he is ready to start adapting to returning to work, storing breast milk in advance with a milk storage bag before going to work, in case he can't come back on time to feed?
Even if he tries his best to balance the relationship between work and breastfeeding, Xiaogao finds that the child's attachment to himself is very strong, although at this stage he still does not recognize that he is his mother, but according to his various performances, he can detect that the child is really extremely insecure.
After asking other experienced mothers, Xiao Gao learned that he could use a pacifier, and when he could not always accompany the child, put the pacifier in his mouth, so that they could reduce some fear and uneasiness.
Since he got the advice, Xiao Gao immediately placed an order, bought a lot of pacifiers, and thought of trying them all for the child to see which type of pacifier the child prefers.
But just when she tried for the child, the mother-in-law saw it and immediately grabbed it, and said angrily: Why do you want to use this for the child, and what if you don't drink milk after using it? Is this thing of good quality? What if it breaks for my grandson?
Xiao Gaoyi saw the mother-in-law's such a big reaction, and immediately felt very inexplicable, although the mother-in-law's starting point was good, worried that the child would be hurt, but such an exaggerated clamor, who can bear it!
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After 3 weeks of breastfeeding, a pacifier can be used normally
Many people will think that after the child is accustomed to using the pacifier, he will refuse to touch the mother's nipple, and even resist the breast milk, so that the mother and the child are in pain.
This situation occurs mainly because of the baby's sucking habits. If your baby is stuffed into a pacifier just after birth, they will mistakenly think that the pacifier is the mother's nipple and slowly become dependent on the pacifier.
When they touch their mother's nipples again, they will feel that they are other exotic species, which will destroy the attachment and trust between them and their mothers, and they will naturally resist very much. On the other hand, if the baby is in contact with the mother's nipple first, wait until 3 weeks later to become accustomed, and then contact the pacifier, the acceptance level is higher.
Therefore, grasping the accurate time to use a pacifier for the baby can fundamentally solve the problem of breaking the rumor, not only will not affect the baby's drinking breast milk, but also increase their sense of security.
After the age of 1, help your baby quit the pacifier
Babies will come up with a lot of teeth after the age of 1, although at 6 months, there are six-year-old teeth that grow out, but after all, the number is not very large, it will not cause too much impact.
If your baby has to wear a pacifier for time other than drinking breast milk normally, this will cause a certain degree of adverse effects on the baby's oral development, such as damage to gums, teeth, and lips.
Even if your baby doesn't use a pacifier regularly and doesn't use it for more than 1 hour a day, it will be much easier to correct their behavior. Especially after your baby is one year old.
After all, if a child often uses a pacifier after the age of one, it is the most intuitive impact and damage to the development of teeth. The second is the influence of psychological needs, you can't use your own sense of security to pin on the small nipple.
After the child has needs, the first thing is to solve the problem of the parents, and the second is to help the pacifier
When the child appears insecure, wants the mother's embrace, or cries incessantly, the mother must not put the pacifier into the child's mouth at the first time, trying to appease them in this way, but first rely on their own strength to solve, less than last resort, must not let the pacifier replace their position.
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