Yesterday I received a private message asking how to warm up feelings and break through friendships.
On this subject, more than one brother has come to me,
I will carefully sort out the relationship between the brothers today, hoping to give the brothers a little enlightenment.
First of all, let's look at the key to this problem,
The point of the question the brother asked is actually to break through the friendship relationship,
The information contained in this sentence includes that you and the girl are already friends, and the two people have a certain intersection and contact.
But brothers should pay attention to the fact that different people have different understandings and definitions of friends.
To sort this out, you have to figure out whether the friend you're talking about is a friend or a good friend.
Or just what you think of as a friend.
We don't think about the second situation for the time being, now it's mainly about which level you have with your girlfriend.
I will now turn to this issue in two contexts.
Ordinary friends,
If you are in the stage of ordinary friends now, my first advice to you is to ask more girls to come out and meet,
If you like a girl who wants to develop further with him, you have to make her feel that your relationship with you is different from the actions of ordinary friends.
So asking her out to meet often is a manifestation,
Taking the initiative to show kindness can also give the girl the space to reverie, so that she perceives your likes and will respond to your likes.
Her feedback also determines how you take the next action plan.
In addition to that, my second advice to my brother is to say something ambiguous in a joking way while chatting,
Ambiguous situations can sometimes push your relationship forward in a confused way,
Brothers can refer to the earthy love story on the internet now,
When chatting, I use it a lot, for example, there have been a lot of super-hot stems recently,
Use these popular and playful love sentences more, so that even if the girl does not respond, it will not look awkward.
If the girl responds, she will take down her close friend.
If your relationship has reached a point of relative intimacy, if you know each other well,
At this time, it is actually possible to show off directly.
I know what the brothers are worried about at this time, if the confession fails, then maybe even the friends can't do it.
It will be awkward to even meet and say hello in the future.
Therefore, our confession at this time must pay attention to strategy, not only to bravely take a step, but also to leave a way out for ourselves.
I have here a set of statements for the brothers to refer to,
After this time together, I found that my time with you was quite happy.
All aspects of personality are also very consistent, and I like you very much, if I can I want to try to associate with you,
I hope you think about it, I hope you give me a reply after careful consideration, no matter what kind of answer I accept,
I don't want to burden or stress you, I will respect your choice, and it will not affect our original friendship.
After sending these words, don't say anything until the girl gives you a reply.
All you have to do in the meantime is to wait patiently,
Girls may be a little confused for a while, and may also be reconsidering your relationship and will not reply to you immediately.
Brothers don't wait for the girl's reply, just keep sending messages to the girl, which will not only make the girl feel oppressive,
It will also make her feel that you can't hold your breath, and it will also affect her judgment of you.
Well, today's sharing is here,