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Your own posture,
Determines how the world will behave towards you.
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Human nature is a complex proposition
When my cousin first entered society, he always felt that people's hearts were complicated and the world was complicated.
He said that where there are people is a complex river and lake, sometimes it looks calm on the surface, but in fact, there is an undercurrent surging behind the scenes.
Everyone is like a "killer" hidden in the corner, eager to kill the opponent without leaving a piece of armor.
He also said that in the past two years, he has seen all kinds of villains, some people are jealous of the ability of the sages, some people are inclined to be inflammatory, some people see the wind and make the rudder, and some people calculate everything. In short, in his eyes, human nature is inherently evil.
His remarks made me laugh. My cousin has always been cynical and likes to spit everything out.
I told him that human nature was actually a complex proposition, neither so good nor as bad as he thought.
Even the best people have a dark side of human nature, and even the worst people have a warm side. The key is how you approach others.
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Make a good quality bowl
There is a story that everyone is familiar with: a young man went to buy a bowl, he picked up a bowl and gently touched the other bowl.
In his experience, if the sound of two bowls touching each other is crisp, it means that the bowl is of good quality; if the sound is dull, it means that the bowl is inferior.
But he tried many times, and each time he heard a dull voice. The boss looked at him and handed him another bowl and said, "You try it with this bowl!" ”
He did as his boss had asked him to do, and found that the bowl made a pleasantly crisp sound when it touched each bowl.
Seeing the young man's doubts, the boss calmly said: "The bowl you took at the beginning is itself a bad defective product, so it will make a dull sound when it touches any bowl." ”
"Now the bowl in my hand is a high-quality product, and it will of course make a crisp sound when it touches the high-quality product."
Young people suddenly understand that if you want to get a high-quality bowl, you must ensure that you get a high-quality bowl.
This story is intriguing: make one good bowl and you will meet another good bowl.
You first have to be a warm person before you meet a warm person. Make a good bowl, show the good side of life, and others will give back to you.
It is a very interesting thing to get along with people and the world, just like you face a mirror, your crying and laughing, the world will be truly and completely feedback to you.
Your own posture determines the attitude of the world towards you.
Source: Farmers Daily
Image: Visual China
Author: Wang Guoliang
Anchor: Li Yuncong
Editor: Ni Yang Jinzi
Design: Cui Pengjia
Planner: Du Lanping
Producer: Li Chaomin
Anchor | Li Yuncong