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Many times women in love, most of them are blind, and do not see clearly whether men are really in love with themselves.
When I was hurting my feelings, I found out that it was too late.
Women in feelings, do not easily be the giver; women in feelings, do not easily be the giver.
To judge whether a man is truly in love with you, when the two of you have gone to sleep, if a man will do these things, it means that the man really does not love you.
1. Lost contact with you
Before getting you, the man always takes the initiative to contact you all the time, and you can feel his gentleness and heart for you.
Men will swear to you at every turn, and it feels like if you want the moon in the sky, and men are willing to take you off.
In that moment when you are moved, you accept the man into your feelings, you accept the man into your life, you have an intimate relationship.
A man's attitude towards you has changed drastically, and now he will not take the initiative to contact you, it is you who come to him, and basically you can't find his person.
A man who is just trying to get you, after you've had an intimate relationship, will be completely out of touch in your life as if he never showed up.
2. Bad attitude towards you
Men treat you particularly well until you're in a definite relationship.
Whether you are acting in a straight-handed manner or ignoring him, men are still gentle with you and have not changed their attitude towards you.
You feel that such a man is truly in love with you, and you also believe that his love for you is indeed sincere.
It's just that the man doesn't reveal his true face to you at the critical moment, and when he gets you, he is not willing to be gentle with you.
His previous intentions for you were only patience, because he had not yet achieved his purpose, so in front of you, he changed into the appearance you liked.
Don't think that after a man gets you, his attitude towards you suddenly changes, he has always been with such an attitude to you, but you are not aware of it.
What kind of attitude men have towards you, women's feelings are actually very obvious, don't pretend not to know, and don't deceive yourself.
If in a relationship, you always do the humble person, you always do the perfecter, after being with such a person, it is actually very uninteresting.
Because feelings are originally two-way business, only one person strives for feelings, and the relationship will sooner or later lose balance.
A woman's self-touching style of giving too much, the man to you, without any feedback and reaction, in this relationship, you yourself live into a one-man show.
If in the relationship, you are always alone, what does it mean? Such feelings are doomed not to last long, and you are doomed to fail to reach a happy ending.
It is better to choose to leave decisively in the beginning, when you know the true face of men to you, no matter how long you have been together, time can not grasp a wrong person, become a right person.
3. Block his circle of friends
If you feel that a man has a lot of secrets for you, if after you have had an intimate relationship, his circle of friends is always blocked from you, then please believe in your feelings, men really do not love you.
The man who really loves you, even if he is not in a male-female relationship with you, he can't wait to introduce you to the people around him.
He wants the people around him to know that you exist, that he prefers family, that he knows the happiness of being with you.
At the company dinner, when friends gather, he will take you to the meeting, you can feel his respect and love for you.
This way to your man, is really to love you, but also to love you with his heart, he thinks every day is to marry you home, live a happy little life.
If a man, his circle of friends is closed to you, his social circle is also closed to you, you can only contact him alone, the rest of the circle of life, you have no idea, this is the man's ulterior motives for you.
Because he didn't think about being with you for a long time, he didn't feel that you were his legitimate girlfriend, and he was just with you just to get you.
When he actually gets you, his attitude toward you is like chewing wax, no tenderness, no pity, no respect, only indifference and cold war.
When a man really loves you, he will be meticulous to you, not willing to let you suffer a little grievance, when the man does not care about your feelings, of course, he will only focus on his own preferences.
You know, the man who really loves you, even after getting you, will be good to you as always, and even better for you, because he knows that you have no other, room for choice, in the relationship, you are left with him.
And the man who doesn't love you will do something very different to you.
The person who came over reminded the girl that after the two of them have established a relationship, the man who does not love you will do these three things: completely lose contact with you; there is a change in your attitude before and after; completely close his circle of friends, you do not have any information about his friends.
When you meet a woman who will do these three things to you, be sure to pay attention to it and don't let yourself do something that you will regret.
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