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Remember a poem:
Last year, in this door, the faces of people were peach blossoms. People don't know where to go, and peach blossoms are still smiling in the spring breeze.
Reading it will make people's hearts flood with layers of tenderness, and many regrets will rise.
Last year, the two men looked at each other by the fence, and the shy face of the girl touched the poet's heart, making him unforgettable for a year after he turned around. So, today, he came to the girl's door again, but he could no longer see the girl's figure, so he watched the peach blossoms bloom and remembered the smile of the girl who used to be...
However, if you taste it carefully, you can feel that, perhaps, on that side, they have also felt that the two people are indeed touching each other's hearts and feelings for each other. However, the man finally returned to loneliness without the slightest confession, and the woman was likely to have married someone else in the year of separation.
In this year, the man did not have any expression of love, but a year later, with a pen, he ran to the girl's door and told his deep feelings.
Isn't it a fateful miss?
However, if you love with your heart, how can it be a year before you remember that you are attached to the woman?
It can be seen that love is really not just talking, nor is it just a heartbeat, but it is really done.
So, the man who really loves you, he will use "action" to prove his love for you, not just a heartbeat, not just a "flirtation".
-02-
There are always some people who love one person, regardless of whether two people will have a future, please first and then say, but after they get their hands on it, they don't know how to cherish it.
And, there are always some people who love calmly and love indifferently, but they can eventually rely on the person next to them until they are old.
Only because, in love, the most feared is that one person thinks that it is sincere, and the other person is simply playing, so the more one loves more deeply, the other loves more and more annoyingly, and the one who finally pays more, or can't warm a cold heart, so he has to choose to quit.
The lonely years, the life of ink painting, always need two people to paint the ordinary days with brilliant colors, so that people have a little expectation and a touch of brilliance.
Therefore, the person who brings you the brilliance of your life must be the one who gives you a throbbing heart, gives you a cool time, and takes you out of the lost way. He illuminates your night, he has been silently accompanying you, with his love, protecting you, warming you, and making your heart blossom into a beautiful flower.
Therefore, some love, seemingly "sweet words" are very few, but in his actions, everywhere, hidden "true feelings"; some love, seemingly "not vigorous", but in his love for you, everywhere, through the "true heart".
True love, not so complicated.
True love is a person who is not "picking you up", not "coaxing you", but using his "actions" to tell you: time is like flowing water, and my love for you will never change.
When you are in danger, there will be "protect you" actions
Love needs to be protective.
If a man doesn't want to protect you, but longs to get protection from you and get your care, then most of the time the man is either "mommy" or "selfish".
The man who truly loves you, he must have a lot of courage in life, and wants to protect you, even if you are in difficulty.
In the TV series "Know It or Not", the little grandfather is charming, which provokes many women to "follow the former servants", but he has a unique Minglan in his heart, but unfortunately, he finally strangled his love with Minglan in the cradle.
Only because, although he loves her very much, he forgets that loving someone needs to put himself in her shoes, so that their love can continue, and being able to "protect her" is what she needs most.
On the contrary, Second Uncle Gu seemed to be reckless, seemingly a warrior, but every time he opened his mouth, he understood Minglan's situation, and whenever Minglan encountered danger, he secretly protected, especially after Minglan was abducted by Liu Kou, he did not openly and honestly follow her behind her and escort her home, but secretly followed her and the old lady all the way back to Beijing, lest her reputation be damaged and her being criticized.
Love, really is not a sentence of "I must marry you", "I will definitely let you live a good life"... Just talking, but really protecting her, giving her a sense of security, and making her feel at ease.
Women want not much, in fact, there are not many, but there is that person by her side, from now on, her life is no longer afraid of a person to resist the difficulties of life.
When you are wronged, there will be a "soothing" action
It is said that loving a person begins with appearance, falling into talent, and being loyal to character.
Perhaps the so-called "character" is that the person is measured in doing things, serving people righteously, and can love you carefully.
Whenever you are wronged, he will not laugh at you, will not laugh at your weakness and incompetence, but will try his best to relieve you of the predicament, make you feel comfortable, and soothe your impetuous heart.
Life is difficult, everyone walks in the trivialities of life, it is inevitable that they will encounter some rotten people and bad things, and will be entangled in some dog blood... And this person, no matter how much trouble you encounter, he will help you become a "small thing", no matter how hateful and hateful you meet, he will let you get rid of the evil person's troubles, let you get rid of the bad environment, and protect you thoroughly.
Love is like this, no big deal, but everywhere is permeated with "not easy". Perhaps, he is not so handsome, nor how talented, but in the things he does, he is carefully comforting you, so that you can enjoy the gift of time happily, let you sleep peacefully, and live a steady life.
He will never be perfunctory to you, and will not blindly follow you, but will seriously help you analyze, seriously teach you how to get out of the predicament, he will not give you a superficial comfort, and will not let you silently digest emotions alone.
He sincerely wants to do your "emotional garbage can", and will sincerely want you to release the unhappy things in your heart, rather than suppressing them in your heart.
He loves you, that is, he will use his heart to understand you, to understand you, to meet you with a tacit understanding of his heart, and what he longs for is that you can be by his side and find the quiet years in ordinary days.
When arguing, the action of "giving softness" to you
Many people will yearn for that kind of unintentional love, meet at a glance, and fall in love from then on.
However, in the end, love will unveil the "mystery", the two people from the initial full of wind, "fresh" addiction, to see all the shortcomings of each other, a lot of mutual unaccustomed, so the quarrel will follow.
And, a person who truly loves you, although he will also have different opinions with you and will also argue with you, but he will not let the relationship between you, anytime and anywhere, because a word is not dealt with, an action is not accustomed, it will be a big fire, it will argue endlessly.
He will follow your temper and be soft on you, no matter how "steelmaking" he once was, after meeting you, he became "soft around the fingers".
Perhaps, you ask a girl, where is this person's most impressive place for you?
Most likely, she would say many answers, but the reason she was most addicted, the one who would have been able to want to be around him for the rest of her life, was gentleness.
Gentleness is not exclusive to a woman, but the best proof of a man's love for a woman.
Because of love, it will turn its own hardness into gentleness; and because of love, it will cherish you and care about you; he will be reluctant to let you get angry, reluctant to be angry with you, so he will be soft on you, and when quarreling, he will immediately admit defeat and calm your inner anger.
His weakness is not that he concedes defeat, nor is it unprincipled, but simply because he feels that you are the person he is most distressed about, and he makes you sad and makes yourself uncomfortable.
On the contrary, the kind of man who has always preached great truths to women, and who can't move to fight cold wars with women, women don't admit defeat, they dump their faces... He can't love anyone, because in his heart, the desire to win or lose is greater than the love for you, his happiness needs your compromise, and the people he loves, only himself.
-03-
True love, in fact, is not so earth-shattering, weeping ghosts and gods.
There were only two people, eating breakfast together in their pajamas at sunrise in the east; curling up on the couch watching soap operas at sunset; and sleeping together when the night came.
Everyone, from falling to the ground to growing up, is from having the care of their parents when they were young, to being an adult and a lover to resist the wind, frost, rain and snow together.
And whether you live happily or not, it is inseparable from the pillow person, the persistence of love, and the persistence of love.
Therefore, a man who really loves you, must be reluctant to just "touch you", when you indulge in his love, he will turn away, let you fall into the abyss of love.
Instead, he will continue the sweetness between you, erase all the regrets between you, and he will come into your life with the heart of "redemption" and "healing" in the world, bringing warmth and happiness to your life.
How much love, an encounter, but the last heartache, only because, some people, he just want to love you for a short time, to accumulate "love experience" for themselves.
Therefore, women, love should be slower, know more about him, understand him more, look more at his dedication to you, and see if he has these three "actions" for you.
Finally, may every pair of lovers be able to love and true heart at the same time, and can carry out a love to the end in the desolate years.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, the strong affection! Thanks for your attention!