Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Whether you admit it or not, the objective garbage people and garbage things encountered on the road of life, as long as you can stop the loss in time, you can largely turn the difficult into the easy.
In this life, it is not easy to be heavy, instead of hating and complaining about the lack of benefit to themselves, it is better to wipe their tears and use the belief of "desperate life" to create opportunities for themselves to hold hands with luck.
There are some things that, as long as we do them, we will not regret them. In the process of doing it, it will continue to burst out of potential and try to make your own people live to the satisfaction of yourself.
In fact, people, most of the difficulties in life come from themselves. Especially, for women, this is even more true.
It is often said that whether a person is blessed or not does not have to look at what he has, but to see what he satisfies.
It is precisely because of this statement that too many people do not want to make progress! Emptiness takes being content with the status quo as a good state of mind, so that in the middle age, the misery begins, and then the evening desolation comes.
For women, if they also have such a "good mentality", I am afraid that they are doomed to have no luck with happiness!
Whether a woman is blessed or not, do not look at what she has in the first half of her life, but look at what she still has at any time in her 40s.
A 40-year-old woman has already passed the first half of her life and has just begun the second half of her life.
For reasons of age, the functions of the body begin to decline negatively, and if there is no real sense of security to support, it is not related to happiness! Whether a person is blessed or not in this life, the decision is in the time after the age of 40.
Blessed are women, at the age of 40, can be seen through at a glance! The following three details are key:
First: Have you chosen a lover who is worth staying with for the rest of your life?
Women marry wrongly, and live in vain! Choosing the wrong lover, you will have to pay for the decision of that moment for the rest of your life.
Some women, in the face of the wrong lover, can stop the loss in time after trying their best to manage the relationship failure. But some women want to interpret the stubbornness of "hanging a tree" in this wrong person.
Every woman is a delicate flower. The right person will make women bloom beautiful and fragrant all the time in all kinds of nourishing years. The wrong person will only let the woman fall in advance, and even the branches and leaves will break.
Marriage and love, occupying about two-thirds of a woman's life, once the choice is wrong and do not know how to stop the loss in time, what else is there for the rest of life in addition to being miserable?
Speaking of blessed, I have never seen any woman who has chosen the wrong lover and does not know how to let go, is happy.
Especially at the age of 40, I don't know how to stay away from the wrong people, and the second half of my life is gray and dark!
No matter how happy and splendid life was in the past, once the marriage with the wrong person stepped into the marriage, the blessing will be driven away by the wrong person.
If the woman is 40 years old, the lover around her takes good care of herself, and she can have a cute child, a family of three and a beautiful family, even if the life is poor, it is also a happy companion.
Second: whether there is the ability to survive!
In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun was once envied by everyone. Because, she married a husband Chen Junsheng who loved her so much. The promise to raise her, but also the promise of raising her was fulfilled.
However, with the two people together for a long time, Luo Zijun, who had never participated in the work after graduation and stopped growing, suffered betrayal. At that moment she was broken, disintegrated.
Because, Luo Zijun lost to an old woman whose appearance was not proud, and at the same time, he had no ability to survive except dependence and attachment.
At that time, Chen Junsheng said to Luo Zijun: I fell in love with her uncontrollably...
Chen Junsheng proposed a divorce, and Luo Zijun had no room for rebuttal! If there was no great help from his girlfriend Tang Jing and the congratulatory letter at that time, luo Zijun would have had the "day to turn over"?
If a woman places her happiness entirely on a man and does not have the slightest ability to survive, then her blessings are only superficial.
In this life, there are too many emergencies. If you don't have the ability to survive independently, it means that happiness depends on taking. And what to ask for, the initiative is never in their own hands.
So, you say, can she still be happy?
Third: whether there is a certain amount of savings!
Some of the 40-year-old women are already wives and mothers, and some are still single. No matter what kind of situation, you must have the ability to make money and the ability to save money.
Some women, who used to be extravagant, or blindly follow the trend of vanity, are the spokesmen of the "Moonlight Clan".
Money, we must not take too seriously. Otherwise, you will do something against morality and break the rules for money.
Money, we have to understand its importance. Because, without money, we can't survive.
In the rule of "a gentleman loves money and has a way", we should summarize making money and saving money as the most important part of life.
If you don't have the ability to make money and don't have the ability to save money, you can only become a parasite for others. So who has the right and the obligation to be responsible for you all the time?
The only constant in the world is change.
Have money in hand and live without panic. Don't spend a lot of time to make money, first learn to enjoy, wait until you are 40 years old to know to plan for the rest of your life, you have long lost the advantage of fighting!
Money is not omnipotent, but do not turn no money into the biggest unsolvable problem when facing problems.
40 years old is a watershed for people.
Before the age of 40, happiness and unhappiness are superficial phenomena. After the age of 40, what you can live is the real, grounded truth.
Never feel like you're just a woman and don't have to work so hard. You know, it's because you're a woman that you have to do your best for the rest of your life.
Whether a woman is happy or not depends on whether she can stay with the right person under the correct self-perception at the age of 40, have the ability to survive independently, have the ability to make money and save money.
Don't underestimate these few things, they are the capital for your true happiness! However, while fighting for capital, don't forget to take good care of your own health, you are the big winner in life!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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