A noble heart should bear the calamity rather than avoid it, for to bear the calamity shows the nobility of the will, and to avoid the calamity shows the cowardice of the heart. — "Really Reliable" Jonson
Yu Dan said: Children who have lost their parents may grow up healthily, but the pain in the hearts of parents who have lost their children will always exist, and the pain behind them cannot be cured by time.
Children are the hope of parents, but also the inheritance of their parents' blood, and the pain of every family that loses a child is extremely sad.
The poor child has not yet come to this world to take a look, and he hastily leaves, leaving his grieving parents with a wound in his heart.
Although you may have other children, the debt in your heart to the child you have lost cannot be described in words.
Parents who have lost their children, maybe your life is still bright and beautiful, your career is thriving, seemingly a good life, but it is actually flawed, maybe the next second you will fall into deep self-blame because of something.
Star Ying'er, now married to her husband Fu Xinbo is also a good life, and the husband and wife have also worked hard in the entertainment industry.
But such two decent people also hide indescribable pain in their hearts.
Why is Ying'er afraid of heights?
Ying Er and her husband Fu Xinbo both participated in the "Wife's Romantic Trip" program, and the combination of handsome men and beautiful women made them a big concern.
Although the two have been doing well when recording the show, Ying'er's performance in participating in the show to challenge extreme sports is extremely disappointing.
An actor who is actually afraid of heights! I am afraid that this will bring many obstacles to the deductive route!
After all, when filming, hanging Weiya's role is often encountered, if you give up because you are afraid of heights, no director may dare to ask you to shoot.
Those who pay attention to Ying'er know that Ying'er has hung Weiya before filming, so why is the performance in this extreme sport so abnormal, is it deliberately designed to win sympathy, or some other reason?
In the face of everyone's doubts, Ying Er talked about her inner pain for the first time, and it turned out that she had lost a child in order to hang Wei Ya for filming.
For a mother, the pain of losing a child is devastating, especially if Ying Er still causes her to lose her child because of her work, and she has more guilt for her child.
So that although time has passed for so long, Ying'er's heart still has not let go of this matter.
Even when you are in a high-altitude environment, you will trigger inner fear, and you will also draw out the great nostalgia for the loss of your child.
Mother's love is like water, with a long history, and the mother's love for her children is the purest and selflessest.
Every mother wants to protect her child, so when they learn that they are pregnant, many mothers also choose to rest at home for the health of their children.
But after the star is pregnant, if she starts to rest, her career will be in jeopardy, because the entertainment industry has never lacked any star, you are gone, she will come.
When pregnant, they were twins, but only one survived
Ying Er was pregnant when filming the play "Autumn Cicada", but at first she did not know it, and the intensity of filming was very large.
And there are some difficult movements, which is taboo for people in the first trimester.
Later, the hardships of filming led to Ying'er seeing blood when she went to the toilet, but in the play "Autumn Cicada", Ying'er still had more scenes in it.
If you give up for personal reasons, it is likely that everyone's hard work will be in vain.
Therefore, in order to live up to everyone's hardships, Ying Er insisted on filming, and ignored the pain of the body.
What Ying Er did not expect was that she would lose a child because of this play, and in the home where she saw Fu Xinbo's parents, there was a situation of heavy bleeding, and finally irreparably lost a child.
Now Ying'er's daughter has fallen out of peugeot cuteness, but the pain of losing her child because of filming will always exist in her heart.
The reason why stars can become stars is not only because of their good looks and changeable talents, but also because they have worked much harder than ordinary people, and even pregnancy cannot have the slightest slackness.
There has never been a shortage of stars in the entertainment industry, and even one more is not more, less than one.
The requirements for female celebrities are even more demanding, and it is normal for people to be pregnant and have children, but the risk of losing their careers is also very large.
People in the workplace should feel empathy for this, their own position, but because of pregnancy rest, they have been taken away by others.
It is not easy to get pregnant and have children, but some people easily get pregnant 8 times and miscarry four children just to get a boy.
The idea of son preference is deeply rooted
Since ancient times, there has been a thought that boys can be born to old-age children, girls must marry out sooner or later, and the daughter who marries out is the water that is spilled.
Society is progressing, and this idea is gradually being despised by everyone, but there are still some families who are obsessed with the matter of having boys.
Zheng Peipei, the old predecessor in the entertainment industry, is such a son-preference person, saying that mothers are great, whether boys and girls are meat that falls off their bodies, how can they be treated differently?
Why is Zheng Peipei herself a woman, but she is so obsessed with the matter of giving birth to a boy, she has been pregnant 8 times and miscarried 4 times, just to have a boy.
The deep-rooted feudal ideas deeply affected Wu Peipei, and the tradition in her bones made her think that it was useless for women not to give birth to boys.
But giving birth to boys and girls is a matter of probability, and some people love girls but give birth to boys.
On the contrary, there are people who ask for a man and can't help it, so that they don't hesitate to hurt their bodies and conceive again and again, just so that a boy can "pass on the generations".
Zheng Peipei finally achieved his long-cherished wish, gave birth to a boy as he wished, and became a great hero in the family.
Logically, the future life is also "mother and son expensive" because of the arrival of the boy, but Zheng Peipei ended in divorce.
Originally, Zheng Peipei thought that after giving birth to a boy, he could do whatever he wanted, and his desire to control everything big and small in the family was also getting bigger and bigger.
Even the management of the husband is breathless, and in the end, the husband can't stand his behavior and chooses to divorce.
It seems that Zheng Peipei's birth to a boy is not a good thing, not only hurt his own body, but finally became a loser of marriage, really sad and lamentable!
In fact, boys and girls are the same, parents should not be favoritistic, they are pregnant in October to let them come to this world, do not hurt the child at will because of personal selfishness.
Gladly accept the arrival of the baby, parents only need to protect the child with love, so that the child grows up healthy and strong, which is the responsibility that parents should fulfill.
Some people do not have the right to be mothers for the rest of their lives, so every woman should gladly accept her child, and the joy of becoming a mother is a substitute for any joy.
For the sake of their children, mothers usually need to sacrifice more, so I hope that parents in the world will not taste the pain of losing their children, and it is the responsibility of parents to protect their children.