There is no doubt that Ying'er is definitely one of the outstanding actors who suffer from a lack of emotional intelligence. This young man, who has shown outstanding talent since he was a child, has achieved remarkable results in both singing, dancing and recitation, and has won the support and love of his parents.
It is a pity that her emotional intelligence growth rate is obviously insufficient, which has undoubtedly become a huge obstacle to her career development, making her encounter embarrassing difficulties again and again on the road of life.
Even after her career gradually got on the right track, she participated in many high-profile TV series, and won the warm love of the audience, she is still frequently involved in the whirlpool of public opinion because of some meaningless remarks.
From the conflict with the popular little flower Yang Mi, to the tension between her relationship with Liu Shishi, and then to the unconsciously involving her husband Fu Xinbo, it is no exaggeration to say that Yinger's sluggishness in verbal expression has always been a major bottleneck in her career development.
When she frankly revealed that she and Fu Xinbo's lifestyle adopted the "AA system" in a variety show, most netizens flocked to Fu Xinbo's Weibo to lash out at him and accuse him of lacking a sense of responsibility.
In the face of the loss of control of public opinion, Ying'er had to stand up to defend her husband, but her explanation only deepened the misunderstanding, making the problem more difficult to solve, many people sighed about it, Ying'er's low EQ is really anxious, and even Chen Xuedong, who has worked with her, unabashedly pointed out that she has deficiencies in EQ and IQ.
However, it is gratifying that in recent years, Yinger's acting skills have been significantly improved. Her wonderful performances in "Growing Up with Children" and "Hearts Like Jade" not only successfully won back the public's love, but also put her career back on track.
As long as Yinger can make more efforts to improve her emotional intelligence, with her excellent acting skills, she will definitely be able to really get out of the circle and realize her parents' expectations.
2. The arduous process of Beipiao and being admitted to the Academy of Drama
Ying'er has been the pearl of her parents since she was a child, and they poured all their hopes into this only daughter. When Ying'er was three years old, her parents began to sign her up for various interest classes, covering music, art, hosting, calligraphy and other fields, and they did their best to cultivate this talented baby.
Ying'er's father is an engineer and her mother is a civil servant, although the family's economic situation is not very good, but it is also a well-off family. However, in order for Ying'er to pursue what she loves, her parents would rather cut back on food and clothing, rather than spend a penny.
His father worked as a dedicated engineer during the day, and at night he became a loyal guardian of the safety of the cinema to earn extra income, and his mother chose to visit the rustic but affordable street stalls every time she bought clothes, and every penny she saved was unreservedly used to pay for Ying'er's various training courses.
When Yinger was 11 years old, she successfully passed the Hunan Provincial Children's Music Grade 9 exam and won the award, and at the same time, she was favored by Changde TV and became its contracted actor.
Her eyes were full of antiquity, as if she couldn't wait for her own moment of glory.
Subsequently, when she was 15 years old, Yinger won the "National Special Newcomer" award and the Excellence Award of the national group with her outstanding performance.
Already a teenager, Ying'er has a strong desire to become a public figure, so she holds her mother's hands tightly and dreams of crossing the ocean to the bustling capital of Beijing.
Although there are many opportunities in Beijing, the competition is equally fierce, Ying'er and her mother are busy between the major crews, Ying'er's eyes are full of loss, and her mother is full of helplessness, and in the confusion, an exciting good news finally came.
That is the Hunan Entertainment Channel is about to hold a high-profile star sister election, which is undoubtedly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for Ying'er, who is eager to become famous.
She devoted herself to this fierce competition, and finally with unremitting efforts, she won the fifth place in Asia, successfully signed a contract with Tianyu Media Company, and became a high-profile artist, Yinger's eyes once again flashed with hope.
3. Family background and juvenile experience
Yinger was born in 1988 and her hometown is located in Changde City, Hunan Province. Her father was a conscientious engineer and her mother was a hard-working civil servant, and although the family was not very wealthy, it was enough to be called well-off.
As the only daughter in the family, her parents care for her meticulously, and they expect Ying'er to become a phoenix soaring in the sky.
In 1999, at the age of 11, Yinger successfully obtained the Hunan Provincial Children's Music Certificate Level 9, which was a great achievement at that time. She stood in the center of the stage and received the certificate with great energy, and her parents were excited and tears welled up in the audience.
Immediately afterwards, she became a contracted actor of Changde TV in her hometown, laying a solid foundation for her future artistic path.
After four years of hibernation, the National Newcomer Contest finally opened in Beijing, the capital! Ying'er, who is only 16 years old, accompanied by her mother, has traveled thousands of miles to the stage. Although the long journey took them a full 25 hours, Ying'er won the "National Special Newcomer" award of the host group and the honorary winner of the national group with her perseverance, which instantly attracted the attention of the national audience.
At this moment, Ying'er held the trophy high, smiling proudly and brightly at the camera, and her mother applauded and cheered warmly on the side.
With an endless yearning for her acting career, Ying'er, with the support of her mother, dragged her suitcase and embarked on a journey to Beijing with her dreams. They rented a modest basement in Beijing, where they were determined to put down roots and create a new world of their own.
However, Beijing, a city full of opportunities, is also fiercely competitive, Ying'er and her mother are busy between the major crews, Ying'er's eyes are full of loss, and her mother is full of helplessness and anxiety.
However, at this moment, a major turning point quietly came.
Fourth, his career is thriving but he is framed
Just when Ying'er and her mother were feeling confused about their future development path, the god of luck favored them again. Hunan Entertainment Channel has launched a high-profile talent show - "Star Sister Election".
For Ying'er, who is eager to become famous, this is undoubtedly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
Yinger seized this opportunity without hesitation and threw herself into this fierce competition. After layers of screening, when Ying'er's name was announced and she won the fifth place in Asia, she was so excited that she burst into tears, and her mother was also ecstatic.
In this way, Yinger successfully signed a contract to become a member of Tianyu Media Company, which is one step closer to realizing her dream.
Since then, Ying'er's career has begun to rise steadily, and she has been given some opportunities to perform in roles and supporting roles, which has attracted the attention of the famous director Yang Zi at the time.
Yang Zi showed great enthusiasm for the arrival of this newcomer, and did her best to match her and provide her with rich resources.
Among them, the role of Princess Xiangxiang in the costume drama "Book of Swords and Enmity" co-starring Zheng Shaoqiu and Liu Dekai is an important role that Yang Zi won for Ying'er. However, this move made Yang Zi's wife, Yang Mi, an innocent victim.
Surprisingly, it turned out that the initial setting of this role was Yang Mi, but Yang Zi operated in the dark, and the news spread like a boiled frog in warm water, which eventually led to the situation getting out of control, and public opinion fermented wildly, accusing "resource coffee Yinger of plundering Yang Mi's role"!
Before Yang Mi could react, Yang Zi's ex-wife Huang Shengyi stepped forward, and she had long been aware of this kind of trick. Realizing that his position in Yang Zi's mind was in jeopardy, Huang Shengyi decided to take action to rectify Ying'er.
So, at the press conference of the new film "Pirated Love" written and directed by Yang Zi, she skillfully arranged a striking "marriage defense battle".
On the same day, Ying'er dressed up to attend, dressed elegantly and charmingly, and walked to the press conference with a smile on her face, but was suddenly blocked by several burly security guards.
Ying'er patiently reveals to them that she is the heroine, but the security guard coldly questions why she does not have an invitation.
This call finally caught Yang Zi's attention, and he hurried to the scene to rescue Ying'er from the dire situation. In the face of this sudden change, Ying'er had a hard time, and afterwards she said with emotion: "This is the helplessness of a small actor, if it is replaced by a big-name star, she will never encounter such a predicament."
However, the truth of the facts may only be truly understood by the person concerned. However, after experiencing that incident, Ying'er, who was "convicted" by Yang Zi's ex-wife, could no longer gain a foothold in the company, and she had to find another way.