1. Why do we have the feeling of "Guanguan"? ——Perseverance from aesthetic taste!
Everyone's aesthetic taste seems to be able to maintain a relatively stable state throughout the journey of a lifetime. This stability comes mainly from the depths of the heart, a deep and unwavering preference.
Therefore, no matter how many love chapters we have gone through through a hundred battles, the person we love the most will always have similar appearance characteristics and unique temperament.
This kind of attachment to a specific aesthetic type is what we often call the "Guanguan class" complex.
Take the famous director Zhang Yimou as an example, in many of his films, the heroines he loves always have some similar qualities to others. For example, when Zhang Ziyi first set foot in the film industry, she was known as "Little Gong Li", although their appearance is not exactly the same, but in terms of charm and temperament, there is an indescribable tacit understanding.
Time flies, more than 20 years have passed, and Zhang Yimou's newly excavated Mou girl Liu Hao's expression, subtle movements, and even her tone of speech when she was interviewed have a striking resemblance to Zhang Ziyi in her youth.
From these details, we can clearly see that this brilliant director's pursuit of beauty has always remained the same.
In fact, it is not only the director who can show this persistent aesthetic plot when choosing actors, but also many male stars in the process of choosing a spouse. Their predecessors and presents, although very different, are unexpectedly similar, as if carved out of the same mold, which is amazing.
Taking the characters in the novel "The Legend of Zhen Huan" as an example, the male protagonist in the book also showed a complex of "Guanguan class" when he took a concubine. In his eyes, the women who were included in the harem were all Pu Yi's posture, light eyebrows, gentle and virtuous types, not so much the similarity of figure and appearance, but the deed of temperament.
This is the so-called fateful marriage, people's expectations for the ideal partner will be unconsciously deeply rooted in the heart, into an indestructible complex, affecting the image of several future loves.
Second, the current wife looks like her ex, which is a persistent and ordinary emotional phenomenon!
When it comes to the married life of Leung Kam-song, the richest man in Hong Kong, the first thing that comes to mind is undoubtedly his current wife Fu Mingxia. This former "diving queen" is beautiful and youthful, which is exactly the type that Liang Jinsong admires.
Looking at her gestures and gestures in her daily life, I am afraid that no one can connect her with the person who is over the age of sixteen but still has a good demeanor! However, the power of love is endless, and it crosses the age gap, so that these two men and women with a huge age gap are closely intertwined.
However, before that, Leung Kam-song's wife was Ms. Chan Wai Shan, who was born in a famous family. This talented strong woman also has an extraordinary temperament, and she is even more strategic and decisive in the shopping mall.
Although the two are slightly different in appearance, if you look closely, they also have beautiful faces, piercing eyes, and well-proportioned figures.
What's even more amazing is that before Chen Huishan, Liang Jinsong's first wife actually had seven or eight points of resemblance to them! It turned out that as early as his youth, Liang Jinsong had already developed a unique aesthetic concept of beauty.
Whether it is Tan Shufen, Chen Huishan or Fu Mingxia, the first impression they leave is all excellent temperament, intellectual elegance, it seems that the image of the ideal woman in Liang Jinsong's heart has long been deeply imprinted in his subconscious, eternal and unchanged.
3. The emotional journey of Lang Lang and Gong Xinliang: The "wild child" who was scorned by his father has achieved the complex of Lang Lang's life
Pianist Lang Lang once spent four years with Gong Xinliang, although he did not reach the end in the end, this relationship has undoubtedly become an unforgettable chapter in his life.
After all, Gong Xinliang is the ideal girlfriend image he dreamed of when he was young: tall, sexy and charming, she is definitely a stunning beauty.
However, the other side of Gong Xinliang made Lang Lang very worried. Her emotional intelligence is really worrisome, she often shows gaffes in front of the camera, and her speech and demeanor are vulgar and rude, which really can't be associated with words like "gentle and beautiful".
These situations naturally can't escape the sharp eyes of Lang Lang's strict father.
"This is the woman you love? It's just a wild girl! The old man unabashedly expressed his disdain, and his face showed obvious dissatisfaction. As a generation of piano giants, he naturally has high expectations for his son's future partner.
Soon after the breakup, Lang Lang met Gina Alice, a German-Korean pianist. Gina not only has outstanding appearance, but more importantly, she has a gentle and quiet personality, which is deeply loved by Lang Lang's father.
Since then, the image of "Lang Lang type" beauties has become more and more distinct and unique in Lang Lang's aesthetic world: beautiful appearance is just the foundation, and more importantly, they must have the quality of elegance and generosity!
This experience made Lang Lang deeply admire a female image close to the "aristocratic style", and this unique aesthetic complex profoundly affected his evaluation and choice of the person he loved in the future.
Fourth, from Chen Hong to Ni Ping, a strict father has always controlled his son's love path
In Chen Kaige's colorful love life, the most talked about are the two women, Chen Hong and Ni Ping. Chen Hong has been widely praised for successfully portraying classic characters such as Diao Chan and Chang'e, she not only has a stunning appearance, but also exudes a noble and elegant temperament, so she is known as "the first beauty in the mainland".
And Ni Ping also had a national and captivating posture when she was young, and her outstanding appearance made her once known as a stunning beauty in the entertainment industry, and even the famous comedian Zhao Benshan was obsessed with her.
Although the appearance of the two women is slightly different, they both have a mellow and atmospheric orthodox beauty, and their temperament is superior and elegant, which shows Chen Kaige's unique aesthetic vision for women.
In the end, only Chen Hong won Chen Kaige's favor and became his wife, while Ni Ping could only be sad.
The reason is that Chen Kaige's father has an extremely strict aesthetic for his daughter-in-law. In their family concept, elegance and generosity are the most basic virtues of women. Although Chen Hong sometimes seems a little lively and naughty, she is still a traditional lady in her bones; In contrast, Ni Ping is a complete "modern woman", and her words and deeds often reveal a hint of bohemianism, which is obviously unacceptable in the eyes of Chen's father, and therefore cannot be approved by him.
It is precisely under the influence of this concept that Chen Kaige's aesthetic orientation towards women gradually tends to be conservative and traditional, and he is obsessed with finding the typical image of a gentle and virtuous lady. This undoubtedly also determines his choice of the person he loves.
The five predecessors and incumbents are judged to be the same
Wu Yanzu can be called a generation of handsome male stars, coupled with his natural elegant temperament, so that the girlfriends around him are all talented and beautiful.
mentioned several magnificent aspects of Mr. Wu Yanzu's emotional journey, I have to mention his ex-girlfriend Li Meiqi and current wife Lisa S. These two ladies are as charming as the stars, but they also share some striking similarities.
First of all, let's talk about Miss Maggie Lee, who once topped Hong Kong, she is a fusion of five different ethnic origins - French, Canadian, Polish, Irish and Vietnamese, with angular and deep facial features, and a fiery figure and slender height, so she is respected by the world as "the dream goddess of all Hong Kong men".
And Mr. Wu Yanzu and Miss Li Meiqi first met on the set of the movie "The Naked Agent". At first, the relationship between them was limited to the working relationship between the director and the actor, but as time went by, the two gradually sparked a spark of love, and after years of love, they became the focus of attention, which can be called a "match made in heaven".
Good times are always short-lived, and the scandal between Miss Li Meiqi and her idol Mr. Edison Chen is spreading, which undoubtedly brings a heavy blow to Mr. Wu Yanzu.
According to rumors, after the breakup, Mr. Wu Yanzu was in pain and weeping in a dream, and it was difficult to hide the pain in his heart.
It wasn't until many years later that Mr. Wu Yanzu married his assistant Lisa. This Ms. Lisa is also a mixed-race beauty, with better skin, delicate face, and graceful figure, which is quite similar to her predecessor, Miss Li Meiqi.
It can be seen that Mr. Wu Yanzu seems to have a unique preference for sexy and charming women with hot bodies, and even his two lovers have a striking similarity, as if they were carved out of the same mold.
Perhaps, this is what people call the "aesthetic complex", which determines the common traits that he values when choosing a partner.
Sixth, the love of big-name celebrities is full of gunsmoke, and only the aristocratic complex remains eternal
Looking at the emotional journey of many celebrities, we can find an interesting phenomenon: although their emotional path is full of twists and turns, everyone's deep yearning for an ideal partner is the same, and they are all invisibly affected by some inherent aesthetic tastes and complexes.
For example, Mr. Lang Lang's father admired the "aristocratic lady" style of female image; Mr. Wu Yanzu's obsessive preference for sexy and charming and hot bodies; Director Chen Kaige has the traditional style of everyone; Mr. Liming's deep attachment to the sunny era of Shu Qi...... These aesthetic complexes that have long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people make them often involuntarily fall into the strange circle of "Guanguan class" in the process of choosing a partner, looking for those other halves who are highly compatible with their inner preferences.
They may have been enthusiastic about walking hand in hand with their ex, but they can't avoid a small conflict at some important moment, simply because there is a slight deviation in each other's ideals.
Once they meet a new soul mate who is more noticeable, they will not hesitate to make a choice from the bottom of their hearts to achieve the sublimation of their feelings.
For us ordinary people, this kind of aesthetic plot that is obsessed with emotional pursuit may seem a little overly sensitive and even a little pretentious. However, if we can think about the problem from a different angle, we will find that this actually reflects the incomparable enthusiasm and firm belief of the stars in love, and this deep affection deserves our respect and cherishment with the most sincere attitude.