1. The brilliance of youth withers with the tricks of fate - the love song of the childhood sweetheart that was interrupted by fate
In the eighties and nineties of the last century, in the old Shanghai, the sun was like a naughty child, between the crooked and narrow alleys, through the small gaps, the mottled light and shadow sprinkled on the bluestone pavement, bringing a touch of warmth to the city.
In this place full of historical charm, a pair of childhood sweethearts, boys and girls, meet, they gradually grow up in each other's company, and sprout an innocent and flawless childhood love song.
Gu Qingyu, a girl from a privileged family, has never cared about the true situation of Shi Yuan's family. And Shi Yuan, as a boy, rarely reveals his family's predicament to others. However, one day, Shi Yuan's father suddenly told him that for various reasons, the family had to leave Shanghai and go to distant Xinjiang to start a new life.
On the night before leaving, Shi Yuan came to Gu Qingyu's side with deep nostalgia. Under the moonlight, his eyes looked extremely determined, as if he wanted to say something important to the girl in front of him.
However, in the end, he only said three words: "goodbye" and Gu Qingyu only replied lightly "goodbye", so simply responded to Shi Yuan's implicit confession.
Time flies, time flies, and more than ten years have passed in a blink of an eye. Shi Yuan's family started their lives anew in Xinjiang. With nothing left behind, Shi Yuan had to give up his dream and start working as a tour guide, using his rich knowledge and friendly attitude to serve every tourist.
Second, the arduous transformation of the ten-year cold window
After leaving Shanghai, Shi Yuan's family started a new life in the unfamiliar Xinjiang. Everything had to be started from scratch, their homes were empty, and even the most basic necessities needed to be accumulated little by little.
Shi Yuan had to put aside his studies for a while and started his first career in life - tour guide. Although he did a great job and won everyone's appreciation, he was always anxious deep down.
He longed to return to Shanghai and rewrite the chapter of his lifeAlthough Xinjiang is also a frontier region of China, it is still a distant place for him, and there is no substitute for his hometown and ideals.
Ten years later, on a scorching summer day, Shi Yuan finally returned to Shanghai with his parents. However, the city he was familiar with had changed dramatically. The house they once lived in had become someone else's home, and now they were temporarily living in a cramped rental house.
A modest house in a remote suburb with low rents and a difficult environment. The windows in the room are cramped, the sunlight is difficult to penetrate, and the interior is dim and silent; There are a few blackened kitchenware and tableware scattered in the kitchen, giving people a shabby feeling; As for the furniture, it is just outdated and dilapidated items brought from the hometown.
Compared to the time spent in Xinjiang, the house is now more crowded and cramped.
Faced with such a bad living situation, Shi Yuan resolutely decided to take a desperate gamble and put all the little savings left in his family into the stock market. However, due to a lack of in-depth understanding and knowledge of the stock market, Shi Yuan soon fell into the quagmire of debt and could not extricate himself.
The loans of relatives and friends have matured, and the future is bleak.
Just when Shi Yuan was in despair, a chance chance rekindled the spark of hope in him. While participating in an outdoor development training activity held by a company, he unexpectedly met his childhood playmate Gu Qingyu again.
This encounter is not only a reunion of two old friends, but also the last road to success laid by fate for Shi Yuan.
In 2016, a high-profile costume TV series "Journey to the West: Daughter Country" closely linked two young actors - Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying. Before the filming of this work started, the director privately revealed that the reason why he chose Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying as the male and female protagonists was precisely because they had amazing similarities in temperament and character.
Sure enough, once filming started, the interaction between Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying was like a mellow tea, which was intoxicating and felt endless warmth.
Zhao Liying is not only a hot little flower girl at the moment, but also a beautiful, kind, lively and lovely girl. As a senior acting actor, Feng Shaofeng showed a calm, introverted, elegant and polite demeanor.
The two of them are a match made in heaven in terms of character, temperament and career.
During the filming process, Feng Shaofeng always silently sheltered Zhao Liying from the wind and rain, carefully arranged her hairstyle and adjusted her skirt. Zhao Liying also pays attention to Feng Shaofeng's daily life, is considerate and caring.
In this way, unconsciously, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up and became a lover-like intimate existence.
Whenever the staff privately ridiculed them as "golden boys and girls", Feng Shaofeng would always show shyness, but at the same time, he could not hide the joy in his heart. And whenever she hears others praise her "talented and beautiful woman", Zhao Liying will also show a shy smile, and her eyes reveal the sweetness of love.
Every moment of the two along the way is like a bridge of fate. Zhao Liying has entered the symbolic age stage of the marriage altar, and the family members constantly remind her in a tactful way that it is time to find the true son who can spend the rest of her life together.
Feng Shaofeng has gone through a long time alone, and in the eyes of outsiders, he lives a chic and easy life, but in fact, he is deeply eager to find a partner who fits his heart.
At this critical moment, Zhao Liying was like a dawn illuminating Feng Shaofeng's life path. The two hated to meet late, fell in love at first sight, and quickly established a deep emotional bond, respected each other, and supported each other.
On October 16, 2018, on the occasion of Zhao Liying's 31st birthday, Feng Shaofeng turned this fateful marriage into reality with a sacred marriage certificate as the most precious birthday gift.
Fourth, a short and brilliant married life
Although Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying's wedding was held in an extremely low-key manner, the sweetness of the newlywed Yan'er could not be stopped, and people couldn't help but be moved.
In the days after marriage, Feng Shaofeng always found it difficult to hide the joy in his heart. Zhao Liying is like a blooming rose, her face is radiant and full of youthful vitality. Whenever they hear others wishing them "a hundred years of good together", the two will always gaze affectionately, their eyes flashing with anticipation for a better future.
In March 2019, Zhao Liying brought a lively and lovely son to Feng Shaofeng, adding new vitality to the Feng family, and the life of this star couple is as sweet and happy as honey.
Once, in a variety show, Feng Shaofeng inadvertently revealed his son's nickname, which aroused warm applause and blessings from the audience. Looking at the happy smile on his face, who would have expected that this family happiness would be so short-lived, like a glimmer of light in the sun.
Soon after marriage, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying, whose careers were thriving, lived an enviable double harvest life of "morning diamonds and evening banknotes". Big-scale productions and powerful characters are coming, and the careers of the two are in full swing, as if they have opened the door to a new world.
The dazzling career light also ruthlessly deprived Feng and Zhao of the precious time they spent together. Almost all of my free time is occupied by the hectic work of shooting.
Even at home, there are few opportunities to calm down and talk about life in a relaxed and happy way.
How could two distinguished men with outstanding career aspirations and a strong sense of independence waste precious time reaching a consensus on issues of upbringing? Such insignificant disputes gradually accumulated, and over time, the time spent together became shorter and shorter, and the originally deep emotions unconsciously grew an irreparable rift.
5. The reason for the decisive breakup that makes people sigh:
In April 2021, a shocking news spread rapidly in the online world like a storm: the high-profile celebrity couple Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying announced their divorce!
This pair of star couples, who were once praised as "model couple" and "golden boy and girl", finally came to the end of their lives, which shocked the majority of netizens.
Some people speculate that Zhao Liying walked into the "mansion" of the Feng family, but she was neglected and pressured by her in-laws, and could not survive safely in an unfamiliar environment. Some people also analyzed in depth, pointing out that the two have huge differences in personality, and differences in life can be seen everywhere, and it is difficult to reach a consensus.
Some people even boldly speculate that the phenomenon of "only asking for children and not marriage" is becoming more and more common in today's society. Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying uphold this concept, and after giving birth to children, they each embarked on a new journey.
In the face of the hustle and bustle of public opinion, Feng Shaofeng never gave a positive response. However, in an interview, he firmly denied the rumors of marrying into a wealthy family, and admitted that his family background was only at a medium level, far from being a rich one.
What is the real trigger for this divorce? On closer consideration, perhaps too much ambition and too strong individualism are the key.
After all, in the past few years, Feng Shaofeng has had to shoot many film and television works and variety shows every year, and his schedule is full; The same is true for Zhao Liying, who often wears multiple hats and travels between sets.
The moments when the two get together are becoming more and more rare, and the originally fiery love naturally cracks. Once during the recording of a variety show, Feng Shaofeng inadvertently revealed his son's nickname, and then anxiously dialed Zhao Liying's phone and apologized again and again.
The staff present witnessed this situation and couldn't help but ridicule him for being "afraid of guilt".
From this minutiae, it is not difficult to find that they have lost their tacit understanding in dealing with family chores. The loving couple of the past is now drifting apart.
6. The intimacy of the exemplary ex-husband and ex-wife:
Although the divorce has freed Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying from the fetters of marriage, the once deep emotional bond between them cannot be easily severed. In order to share the responsibility of raising their son, the former "loving couple" chose to continue to spend time together in a highly friendly and understanding manner.
Soon after the divorce, Feng Shaofeng took the initiative to find Zhao Liying, and the two discussed together and reached a consensus on the custody of their son. Zhao Liying temporarily takes care of her son's daily life, while Feng Shaofeng has the right to visit and accompany her children at any time, as long as she informs her in advance.
Whenever his son's birthday or important festival comes, Feng Shaofeng will carefully select a precious gift and sincerely invite Zhao Liying and her son to share a happy moment. Although their marriage relationship has come to an end, that deep affection is still condensed in the love for their son.
Some viewers once witnessed such a warm scene at the show: a family of three was happy, just like an ordinary happy family. Only by understanding the story behind their divorce can we appreciate the unique charm of this way of getting along.
The reason why Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng can maintain such a close connection is not only for the healthy growth of their son, but also out of respect for each other's past friendship. From acquaintance to marriage, they have gone through a long time hand in hand.
Even if they finally chose to break up due to insurmountable obstacles, this sincere feeling can never be erased. Therefore, when someone praised them as "model ex-husbands and ex-wives" on the spot, Feng Shaofeng and Zhao Liying would always look at each other and smile, their eyes full of pride.
This honor is not only an affirmation of their personality quality and cultivation, but also an endless love for their son.
May this rare intimacy become a solace for each other's hearts after their divorce.